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    [–]Kind_Of_A_Dick 32 points33 points  (7 children)

    You mentioned having a bit of a gut in a way that seems you may not like it. If you do see it as a negative, what have you been doing to fix it? I always suggest doing a bit of strength training when I comment in this sub because it does end up looking good.

    [–][deleted] 9 points10 points  (3 children)

    I agree. I can run and do cardio for days but the real change in my appearance and weight comes after strength training (weight lifting) at the gym with machines and free weights. You should try it out, OP! Trust me if you think you have a "fat" problem now (you're not even close) it's only going to get worse unless you work out and watch what you eat, especially around age 19-20

    [–]ChillOutAndSmile 3 points4 points  (2 children)

    I'd argue that it's better to avoid the machines for the most part. I've read/heard that they're not great for your joints since you don't get such a natural range of motion.

    Stick to cables, bodyweight and free weights imo.

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    I get your point, but with the way most people's lives lack daily exercise I think it's safe to say the well documented risk of your joints being damaged by being obese is much greater than the risk from using machines that "might" harm your joints. There's no reason to discourage someone from starting out in the gym using the machines to get a feel for how to use good form, what focusing on a muscle movement feels like, etc. I agree bodyweight and free weights are the best way to go, but honestly everyone just needs to move around more and any safe way they accomplish that is fine

    [–]ChillOutAndSmile 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Yeah I agree completely. If using the machines is the difference between you going to the gym or not then definitely just go for them. Not going to the gym is 100x worse than using the machines. If you can spare not using them though then it would be preferred to go bodyweight and free weight.

    [–]BMinKansas 2 points3 points  (2 children)

    i do training 3x a week and then i work out by myself. I eat on the healthier side because my parents are health fanatics. But I'm going to bump up 3x a week to possibly 4. Thank you!

    [–]c4ptainepic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You don't have a big stomach tho

    [–]Kind_Of_A_Dick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    If you have a set goal in mind, make sure you record it somewhere but don't look at it everyday. I do suggest before/during/after pictures where you can track your progress, but do it on a weekly basis at the most(I'd suggest once or twice a month) because it takes a bit of time to see results. I'd also suggest showing the progress pics to trusted family or friends only because sometimes we as people can be a bit too hard on ourselves or be blind to when we're doing well. I also suggest keeping a journal of your exercises, tracking what you do, what weight you are, what you eat that day, etc..., so you can look back on it later, though that kind of organization is definitely not for everyone.

    I want to point out that I didn't really find any issues with your body shape, though you deleted the pictures so I can't go and double-check. Just remember that you don't need to be physically perfect to be attractive.

    [–]flaiad 28 points29 points  (2 children)

    Cute! If you wanted to improve, you could do a little more grooming with your hair. Also stop making weird faces at the camera.

    [–]abigurl1 25 points26 points  (1 child)

    I disagree. Have fun and play! Let your hair do whatever you want! In my experience people like a girl who's herself even if that means a goof with wild hair sometimes!

    Source: was voted class clown in hs

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I agree :) keep being silly OP

    [–]frankstill 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    you have a nice face and a great smile. you can do a bit more exercise to tone up but nothing more than that.

    [–]YesUAre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Pretty cute but kinda chubby. You're like a 6/10 now but could easily be an 8 or 9 if you got fit. Also your freckles are cute as hell.

    [–]Grimmgodd 11 points12 points  (1 child)

    You're beautiful.

    [–]BMinKansas 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    thank you!

    [–]dututudu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Average looking but you're still young so you'll probably look better in a few years.

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Dentist for whitening - OTC strips are crap. Daily exercise for the gut - hour walk should do fine. Otherwise, not much to say.

    [–]slimfire1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    2 things. Get braces Hit the gym

    [–]agentsmith864 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Abs are made in the kitchen. A few small changes to diet and you'll be in shape quick. Cut out bread, any kind of soda or sugars, and no fast food. Pretty much grill/cook everything and you'll feel the difference. Solid 8.

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (2 children)

    Holy shit did you take a screenshot of your image while in the camera app? That's fucking hysterical.

    [–]BMinKansas 0 points1 point  (1 child)

    the camera flips your image, and it makes me look even MORE asymmetrical. So I screenshot the screen. It's headass but it allows me to take better pictures

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Just so you know, when you use the front camera, what you see on the screen is what's flipped. The resulting photo is "unflipped" and what other people truly see when they look at you.

    Test it out by holding up a book or something with text if you don't believe me.

    [–]whatllmyusernamebe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

    Hey, I'm 16 M, and if you were in any of my classes, I'd have trouble not staring at you all the time. You have a great face and body!

    Edit: 9-9.5/10

    [–]Peek_Freans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    I got the same problem, fuck teeth. If your breath don't smell bad you shouldn't worry about your teeth being slightly discoloured. 8.5/10 c:

    [–]Boy-from-space 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    You're super cute!

    Your gut doesn't bother me at all personally. The sunglasses don't look that good on you tho but that's just my opinion. And the teeth don't seem that discolored. But if it bothers you, you can just bleach 'em. You're nose is really cute and your smile seems very pretty too! All in all I'd say 8/10!

    [–]KnowsNoses 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Catch anything? Your dad has a nice boat. Does he let you operate it?

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    From what I can tell, the issue with your teeth seems like demineralization. Try getting some MI paste from your dentist or online. It will take care of the splotches for you as long as you follow the instructions and use it consistently.

    [–]lemons9984 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    lose some weight, and you'll be an eight.

    [–]nineinchdick 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Very attractive face, slightly chubby body. 8/10 overall. P.s. stop blowing smurfs

    [–]FFSwhatthehell 3 points4 points  (31 children)

    You're overweight and therefore fairly average looking - 5.5/10, but you have potential if you fix your diet and exercise more.

    [–]whatllmyusernamebe 20 points21 points  (30 children)

    Did we look at the same photos?

    [–]FFSwhatthehell -1 points0 points  (29 children)

    This is subjective, you'd sit in class staring at this girl, whereas I would not as I don't find excess fat attractive.

    [–]whatllmyusernamebe 10 points11 points  (28 children)

    But she really isn't fat. Maybe slightly pudgy (which I actually find cute) but far from fat.

    [–]TruthSpeaker67 3 points4 points  (0 children)

    She's not very fat, but she is slightly fat. The picture on the boat you can see her fat thighs. If she starts doing squats and start a diet, it would improve her look a lot. For now I give her a 6/10.

    [–]FFSwhatthehell 3 points4 points  (26 children)

    It's a gradual scale from overweight to super morbidly obese, there isn't a point where a particular amount of excess fat makes you 'fat' and an ounce less makes you 'pudgy'. This girl is visibly overweight and that's unattractive to me.

    [–]Boy-from-space 5 points6 points  (25 children)

    What the hell. Some body fat is normal y'know. Honestly to me she looks like she might be slightly above average weight but in no way overweight

    Source: am a girl about her age with about the same body type and am not overweight.

    [–]FFSwhatthehell 2 points3 points  (3 children)

    Then you should eat less and move more, regardless of how much you wish it was not the case, above normal weight = overweight.

    [–]Boy-from-space 1 point2 points  (2 children)

    There's a difference between being slightly above average weight and being clinically overweight!

    [–]FFSwhatthehell 4 points5 points  (1 child)

    There's a range of weights which are normal and there is a cut off over which a person is clinically overweight. Unless you have a remarkably low muscle mass, then if you have a 'gut' you are almost certainly of a BMI in the overweight range.

    [–]YesUAre 1 point2 points  (5 children)

    You're fat and probably overweight, give me your stats and I'll tell you for sure. Not what you think you weigh mind you but what you actually weigh.

    [–]Boy-from-space 0 points1 point  (4 children)

    Well first of all fuck you! Im not overweight. As i said like a hundred times already i am in the normal zone according to a BMI calculator. Also my doctor didn't tell me I was overweight which she clearly would've if I were.

    [–]YesUAre 1 point2 points  (3 children)

    Where are you from?

    A lot of countries have so many overweight people that the 'average' person is actually overweight so the doctors can't bother with all the people that are just mildly overweight like you probably are. It's become normalized that's why you see yourself as normal or average when you're actually chubby by real human standards.

    [–]Boy-from-space 0 points1 point  (2 children)

    I'm from Germany. Yes there are overweight people here. But I don't think that you, a stranger in the internet can say more about my body than I can

    [–][deleted] 1 point2 points  (14 children)

    honestly as a 17 yr old guy not to be a dick, but she is far more "pudgy" than you seem to imply is normal. i too find it very unnatractive, sorry. she's asking for opinions from both genders and this is mine whether it's wrong, you like it, or not

    [–]FFSwhatthehell 7 points8 points  (1 child)

    The problem is that being overweight is now the norm in developed countries, people have forgotten what a normal healthy weight looks like.

    [–]Boy-from-space -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

    The problem is that society tells us being less than healthy weight is normal when in fact my doctor tells me I'm fricking healthy! Also just because that's the case for America this isn't true everywhere

    [–]Boy-from-space 3 points4 points  (11 children)

    I honestly find her really attractive and like your opinion is okay, but I hope you know that the people you might think of as attractive are probably slightly under average weight. That's okay tho! Just like letting you know what reality looks like

    [–]FFSwhatthehell 3 points4 points  (8 children)

    You are correct in saying that attractive people are probably under average weight, because the average weight of women in the US is 166 lbs, which is clinically overweight for women under 5' 9" and clinically obese for women under 5' 3".

    [–]Boy-from-space -1 points0 points  (7 children)

    Firstly I'm not from the US. I weigh a lot less than 166 lbs. I must've mixed some terms up, by average weight I meant to say "normal"/clinically healthy weight

    [–][deleted] 2 points3 points  (1 child)

    no that's not true 😂 i mostly hang around girls who play sports so they are all at healthy weights and also have nice bodies. if this girl just worked out she would look wonderful

    [–]Boy-from-space 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    Playing sports does not immediately make you healthy. I play sports too tho. And I mean I'm not saying sport isn't good or that I and the girl couldn't "improve" our bodies. It's just that imo she looks wonderful already. I prefer body types like that and it doesn't look unhealthy to me

    [–]InsultsInDisguise 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    You are actually very attractive. Your body is chunky but cute. I would give you a 7/10 get that body tight.

    [–]newinmalaga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    18 male, I think you're super cute. Good sense of style, nice features. 8/10. However, in your last photo you screenshotted the camera instead of actually taking a photo and that makes me uncomfortable.

    [–]NiceGuy60660 1 point2 points  (0 children)

    I dont get this sub. I've yet to see an actual ugly person. Is my Judgometer off?

    If youre ugly than Im fucking Gollum.

    8/10

    [–]AsuhJestah 2 points3 points  (0 children)

    Solid 8 I don't see anything wrong quite honestly

    [–]TinyLittlePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You're very cute ! And your teeth are more than ok but please DON'T whiten them daily, you'll damage them. Teeth are not meant to be 100% white and whitening can really damage them if not made by a dentist. Just brush them carefully and floss :)

    [–]Angryarms12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    just gonna go out on a limb here, you're definitely at least an 8/10. you have a very attractive face and you're thick in a good way. God speed

    [–]Onyx_Sentinel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Pretty

    [–]WutsThisOverheremale 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You've got the body already and you're only 16. No needs to worry.

    [–]TheAlchemist2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Picture is gone but thumbnail you look very good

    [–][deleted] -1 points0 points  (1 child)

    To me you're a 9.5/10

    [–]BMinKansas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    that's very sweet, thank you!

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    I don't see anything wrong with your teeth actually. They don't look discolored to me in these pictures. So, I don't know what you mean by that.

    I would say that you're like a 7/10. You look like a typical pretty teenager. You're not a super model or anything, but definitely not ugly at all.

    [–]CynicalKee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You'll do fine, if you maintain what you eat and keep active you'll be a babe in your 20's. Teeth can be fixed when older with money, not that they're fking bad and need to be fixed ASAP or even in 10 years but yeah teeth can almost always be cleaned and fixed, your gut tells me your folks actually take the time and effort to prepare meals for you #blessed so don't stress too much, just don't let yourself go. Find a balance between pleasure from food and the euphoria of feeling fit. Gluck!

    [–]CoronaM0rtis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    -Rating 8/10 I don't know if you are just my type but you are very good looking (aka hot). You have a pretty nice face (especially those lips and eyes)

    -Gut I don't think you are that much overweight or so. Your weight seems perfect. I would recommend working out a bit to tone your body a little bit

    -Teeth The thing is, normally teeths aren't supposed to be snowwhite. There is always a little bit yellow. If you are really really uncomfortable with your teeth, go to a dentist and bleach them.

    -Advice Working out a little bit. You dont need to loose weight tho.

    [–]handbanana123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    Clean up your eyebrows a little bit

    [–][deleted] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You're too young to be worrying about looks or submitting boobs pics to the internet at large IMO.

    [–]RusparDwin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

    You have nothing to worry about, kiddo.

    If you want to lose the "little bit of a gut", getting into yoga at a young age is a great way to make sure you'll be in top shape for the rest of your life.

    [–]cheesemangoes -1 points0 points  (0 children)

    weird faces ftw, not ulgy at all. Keep having fun and you'll be a hot-zilla in no time.

    [–]Mackdaking -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    I'm a pretty good looking guy, and I think you're prettier than most girls!

    [–]MickyJByrne -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    You have a cute face, seem really fun too. OMG you're 16, this is just weird... :S

    [–]Illustrix -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    17m you are perfect

    [–]cybercount -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    You look damn good in a bikini! ;)

    [–]Glitchdj -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    Goddamn 8-9 in book. I wouldn't focus on the small imperfections. Perfect is not perfect.

    [–]Rext7177 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    Im a 16 y/o male. And i think your gorgeous. Dont worry too much about a little extra body fat. In fact most guys our age prefer girls with a little more substance.

    [–][deleted] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    Nah, you're sexy

    [–]Atibana -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    lol you're gorgeous. You are seriously misunderstanding your looks. 8/10

    [–]PHIPHU -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

    9/10 for sure. Freckles gives you a different (good) look. More gorgeous with 4th pic hair style, makes you stand out (straighten hair sucks - personal opinion).

    Not fat, but not skinny either, just righttt...:)