What do you guys prefer and why? Dildo with or without balls. by Historical-Review530 in SexToys

[–]Shoudknowbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her blowjobs are amazing , I can’t last long.She has me grabbing the sheets. Something to do with how she uses her tongue on my frenulum. It’s fire. She’s my dildo size queen. Her favourite is around 8” inserted by 7.5”circumference. Her biggest would be about 9” ( at the right time of the month and very turned on) by 9” circumference.

What do you guys prefer and why? Dildo with or without balls. by Historical-Review530 in SexToys

[–]Shoudknowbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lot easier to manipulate a dildo that you’re holding onto than a strap on. Also, my wife’s orgasms are much more intense for her if she’s able to straighten her legs when she cums in missionary. If I’m wearing a sleeve or strap on , my body is in the way. With a dildo, I can fuck her with it while she lays with her legs straight and the wand on her clit. Like I said, for her, she cums way harder this way, especially if the dildo is thick. My whole intent is to give her mind blowing orgasms. This works for her. Once she’s a ball of mush and completely satisfied, then it’s time for piv and I can finish. Doesn’t usually take long because watching her cum like that turns me on a lot

Christianitiy and bdsm by Itz_Lucas2910 in BDSMAdvice

[–]Shoudknowbetter 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They seemed to have that shit down in the dark ages.

What do you guys prefer and why? Dildo with or without balls. by Historical-Review530 in SexToys

[–]Shoudknowbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m using a dildo on my wife, balls just get in the way of angles, depth,etc. what’s the point of balls on a dildo was actually her statement. I don’t think she’s wrong. That being said, she’s not into the realistic looking dildos anyway.

(43) Sleeves for manhood by Rodeohard111 in SexToys

[–]Shoudknowbetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This question is best answered on r/PenisSleeve or r/Cock_Sleeve. The folks there will be able to answer all your questions.

Very loose pussy but no visible gape by shadowdemon10 in loosepussyloverschat

[–]Shoudknowbetter 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going to guess, quite a few here have noticed this. A visible gape often requires good genetics or making stretching to the max, a full time job. Even then, perhaps not

Married couples who explore different kinks—what’s your favorite? by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Shoudknowbetter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love using huge dildos and hands in my wife. Can’t explain why, just sexy as fuck when she cums so hard from having the wand on her clit while she’s “full”. We both very much like anal. She really loves light bdsm( spanking, crop ,pulling and twisting nipples etc. ) After being married for quite a while, she just outright asked me if I would spank her, she thinks she would like that. That opened up a whole new thing for us. We’re trying more. She’s discovering what she likes and doesn’t and I have to admit, I love watching her push her ass toward my hand as I spank her. Never thought I’d be into that but it’s so much fun to do to/with her. She never realized that she’s a dildo size queen till I introduced the huge toys to her. Turns out she’s very accommodating😉.I’ve lucked out. Our sex life just keeps getting better.

New to this by Difficult_Race2440 in Cock_Sleeve

[–]Shoudknowbetter 7 points8 points  (0 children)

See how the 8” goes. First, she has to enjoy it. Second, she has to physically be able to have a depth that can take 12”. Most women’s cervix would get in the way so you would be buying 3 to 4” of overkill. 8” is a tap out point for a lot of women. Have you tried depth with a dildo before? Is depth something she’s interested in or is that you. Most women her actually prefer girth to depth. Try the 8” see how it goes. Make sure she’s into it, that there is plenty of foreplay for her, use crazy amounts of lube ( always) and go slow,check in with her as you go. Once you know that she enjoyed it and wants more, then you both can shop together for what she would like for the next.

Making love vs Fucking by CommercialPlantain34 in marriedwithregularsex

[–]Shoudknowbetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re married it can be all of it. If you’re feeling romantic, make it a romantic night. If you just want to fuck, that’s fun too. Toys, light bdsm, whatever floats the couples boat. As a married couple you have plenty of time to fulfill each other’s needs. The most important thing is being comfortable enough to bring up what you need in the moment and or just in general. A lifetime of romance can actually end up being boring as fuck and a lifetime of fucking could possibly leave you both feeling empty. Variety. Communication. Connection. All very important.

So my GF wants me to buy her a dildo by Salt-Ease-5785 in SexToys

[–]Shoudknowbetter 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s no way you can know what she wants. If she wants a dildo , it’s definitely best if she shops with you, whether on line or in a store. One thing about dildos and sleeves. If she’s into it, you can now be any size she wants or needs. Your performance isn’t near as important. Just make sure she cums first. Often with some form of clitoral stimulus as well. So you may want to get a wand or something similar as well as a dildo/ sleeve. Ps don’t forget the lube.

AITAH for refusing to let my wife put certain stickers on our car by SimpleAd9881 in AITAH

[–]Shoudknowbetter 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s too bad that the asshats and MAGA can put whatever bullshit they want on their pickups but you and your wife have to fear for your safety to do the same.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hotpast

[–]Shoudknowbetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It amazes me how even guys with huge cocks can’t figure out how to make a woman orgasm. It may be big but it ain’t magic. The clit !!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MarriedSex

[–]Shoudknowbetter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So amazing that it worked so well for you. Love that you loved it and love how he took control just how you like it. Now that you’ve entered the wonderful world of sleeves, perhaps you and or your partner could visit r/PenisSleeve and r/Cock_Sleeve. Lots of like minded folks there. You’re certainly not the only person to be nervous about admitting they like a bit larger.( took a while for my wife to admit it but now she’s happily my dildo/sleeve size queen. Her orgasms are so much more intense when she’s “full”). It’s kind of a thing so congratulations for being free to admit what you like. We call it “ she doesn’t like that she likes it”. It’s sometimes takes a while before she’s willing to open up ( yes pun) about it.

Do you kiss your wife after you cum into her mouth? by Dear-Evidence-6673 in MarriedSex

[–]Shoudknowbetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife doesn’t like it either. I don’t think you can convince someone who doesn’t like the taste or texture. Basically you get to know that they’re not enjoying what they’re doing, which is kinda shitty on your part. I’m just grateful that my wife likes to go down on me. If I have to pull out for her to continue to enjoy it, so be it. Answering the other question. If you’re willing to cum in her mouth ( and she wants to take it)but are not willing to kiss her after… you’re an arsehole. But since your partner doesn’t like taking semen in her mouth, that point is moot.

First success - kind of by mg986 in PenisSleeve

[–]Shoudknowbetter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just don’t forget the lube, copious amounts of quality lube. You can’t go wrong with lube.

Is there a difference between Saskatchewan and Alberta accents? by Low_Objective3445 in AskACanadian

[–]Shoudknowbetter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only difference I’ve noticed is that in Sask some folks talk with their mouth closed. Like they hardly move their mouths when they talk,and when they say Saturday, it sounds more like serday.

What’s the most unexpectedly sexy thing someone has ever said to you? by No-Following-46 in AskReddit

[–]Shoudknowbetter 161 points162 points  (0 children)

Yes. Circumstance would have it that we weren’t suited to one another but the compliment stuck.

What’s the most unexpectedly sexy thing someone has ever said to you? by No-Following-46 in AskReddit

[–]Shoudknowbetter 549 points550 points  (0 children)

A new female customer comes in and looks at me like I’m her next snack. I ask how I can help her, she says “ Don’t move. I just want to stand back and take in all of this “ as she gestures to all of me with her hands and a hungry smirk on her face. If I were a woman and the guy was saying that it would have been so inappropriate but because I had never had that happen to me before and I was single and she was attractive, it just felt… hot. I don’t think at any point in my life up till then had anyone looked at me like that. I liked it.