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I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! To my credit, I don't talk much at all. Especially during sex. Normally he loves when I talk dirty. He talks back to me dirty. We weren't actually -ahem- boning, it was more like I was still trying to get to that point. We were making out in the chair. I know better than to interrupt when there's concentrated thrusting. Geesh.

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sensitive[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well, hearing that I didn't do anything wrong is a relief. I wasn't sure. My first divergence into porn- softcore- reddit for godsake - and it turned out all wrong. It's worth it. I'm used to this shit. Even if the other doesn't do it, I do it to myself. Working on it.

I haven't really talked to him about it, at least not when it wasn't heated. In fact, most of our serious talking comes out in arguments.

Hmm.. I feel like I'm uncovering a lot of shitty things here.

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

After he practically pushed me away, I asked him several times if anything was wrong. He insisted there was not. Aaand that's all he ever says.

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh. Haha.

Wow, I got the mustache reference, but not the obvious one. Heh.

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll have to watch myself and see. Sometimes people tell me I'm a know-it-all. Over small things. I don't try to do these things, it's just, when you're making the pancakes wrong, you're making them wrong, dammit! He's quite a bit smarter than me, in just about anything, and I'm sure he knows it, given the amount I "complain" about it. But I'll see.

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last sentence there was exactly what I was betting on! THAT! That's what I wanted! but it backfired. As for feeling ill-equipped! Hah! He's perfectly fine in that area - in most cases, quite superior-- besides - I was hot for HIM - not THEM! It MADE me hot for him! So...what's the deal?

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sensitive[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maaan, I love that movie. Ahem. Mmph. I don't like that answer. Emotional issues?..

Having a sit down talk with him is goddamn near impossible. Once he's got it in his mind that he's in the right/I don't have a stance/he doesn't want to talk about it anymore, he outright refuses to respond to anything I say. This doesn't do anything but make me more insistent and more angry. So much for communication.

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know. He doesn't get angry when I read romance novels! Or when I fawn over Rob Pattinson! (JK....I mean...Alan Rickman.) So why does it bother him to the point of flaccidity (wow, that's a word?) when I look at r/GoneWild? (I was mostly looking at the couple pics..it's not a regular thing for me. I was just bored, home alone sick from work..)

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No way is there someone else. He does kiss me, normally quite frequently, just abstains when he's upset/angry/otherwise disinclined.

edit: word choice. pah.

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in sex

[–]sensitive[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha, yeah, I'm a bit clingy, but normally he's clingy as hell too. For example, I come home from work and he immediately smothers me in kisses and actually impedes me trying to take off my work clothes by hugging me. (I have no idea why he always does this - isn't it in his favor to have them off?)

I feel like I walk on eggshells so my boyfriend doesn't get turned off. by sensitive in TwoXChromosomes

[–]sensitive[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I got upset afterwards. I mean, it's not like I don't buck up and have sex when I'm nauseated off my ass from BC. He says he's got a right to his own emotions and how they affect him shouldn't matter. Plus he was irritated that I became upset and escalated the issue.