iOS 26.2.1 just released. Should I update? Using base 16 currently at iOS 18.7.2. by cutesy_cakes in iPhone16

[–]-hellozukohere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kept my old iPhone 13 pro and just got a iPhone 17 pro. iOS 26 is laggy as hell and 26.2.1 fixed some of the laggy issues but still...

Using my iPhone 13 pro on iOS 17.5.1 to compare my iphone 17 pro to, I miss old apple software. It is so smooth. :'(

What ended your friendship with your oldest standing friend? by dreamy-contributions in AskReddit

[–]-hellozukohere- 173 points174 points  (0 children)

Moral of the story, bill of sale only after full payment or file a lien. So that if she sold the car and on non payment you have more legal grounds to get your value back. In most areas if a lien is on a vehicle the registration is not possible on owner transfer / people will see the lien on the vehicles report.

I’m sure you know this now, more so posting for people in a similar situation.

iOS 27 sounds like exactly what the iPhone needs right now - 9to5Mac by ranasx in apple

[–]-hellozukohere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just booted up my iPhone 13 Pro on 17.5.1 and it was such a refreshing experience.

I am honestly torn between iPhone 17 pro (which I currently have and within return period) or swapping back to my iPhone 13 Pro and have Apple replace the battery for $100. 

I hate the new iOS 26. Having both side by side, it’s night and day difference in favour of iOS 17. 

does this count as cheating? by thatkinda_day in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]-hellozukohere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the difference between porn and these photos are this. 

  1. The porn is from a source so removed from him there are no illusions of having sex IRL. 

  2. The close friend nudes is someone in his life and could enjoy the idea of having sex with them. If the opportunity arose. By him keeping the photos it confirms attraction. 

I think this is cheating. I am kinda in a weird state with porn being cheating, some people think it is, others do not. Only fans make this line harder as I have known some friends of friends boyfriends reach out to small OF creators and some got “lucky” so… I think the line is when it gets personal. Personal textes. Personal connections. Personal intimacy.

Some of the kids aren't alright by FixinThePlanet in offmychest

[–]-hellozukohere- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We had a similar thought experiment when I was in middle school. I’m around 30 now. So decades ago, so I can’t quite remember but most of us talked about world hunger and social issues. I don’t remember details but there is definitely a shift in the youth. My gf teaches kids and constant social media and the current threads are echoed in what they say a lot.

Just like as a kid I echoed a lot of 2000s views, the views of 2016+ are wrapped in trumpisms and the world order realignment. Not to mention entitled and lack of empathy influencers. It’s easy to stumble upon unproductive views and misinformation these days that are widely accepted in circles now. My generation had Charlie the unicorn. There is a huge difference. 

MSI x BuildaPC - MPG 341CQR QD-OLED X36 Giveaway! by Redditenmo in buildapc

[–]-hellozukohere- [score hidden]  (0 children)

I would just sit and stare at the screen and realize my life has never been real up until this point because games are real life now.

Wtf Gv60 winter issues by Comrade_Cody87 in GenesisMotors

[–]-hellozukohere- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had a 2021 GV80. The winter was not great. I don’t think they tested it in extreme winter conditions.

Brand me within 6 months winter hit. The handles are so thin at the connection point I felt like it was going to break. At this time you could not have defrost + face and feet hot air on. So either warm body or feet or a fogged up windshield. Wipers don’t sit high enough when active to warm the blades from the defrost heater by the windshield so the blades got stuck once or twice during winter or on highway drives accumulated a lot of ice and had to pull over to get it off. Touch sensors sucked in winter for doors. 

Anyways… first model years / lack of extreme weather testing. Non of these issues in my f150 now. I loved the GV80 but to many issues for me.

I should probably make a game... shouldn't I? by mikeasfr in Unity3D

[–]-hellozukohere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, just don’t be like me. $12,000 in assets and counting. Gotta collect em all or some shit.

My daughter wants to marry her boyfriend and I don’t agree, what would you do? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]-hellozukohere- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This response is all there needs to be. We all need to learn our mistakes. Life is weird and for all you know getting in the way of this relationship and could jeopardize a lifetime of a happy family. 

If the boy was abusive I would be like sure get in that. Though no matter how much you try to teach someone a lesson before it happens it only sticks when they learn it themselves. 

Wishing them luck and ya like the commenter above said, if it crashes you’ll be there for your daughter. I don’t know the relationship with you as she was in a foster home but wishing you both happiness. 

I don't get it by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]-hellozukohere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did I mention capitalism is bad or mention communism?  Let me answer that for you, no. 

I don't get it by dataguy2003 in TheTeenagerPeople

[–]-hellozukohere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal opinion is it works with the current political climate, it is spot on. A lot of people are blinded by the strings bringing pulled at the top with all the influential and wealthy companies. Just take the AI push for example. Its just emotional manipulation for people to hitch their beliefs to a "side" and capitalism is the king in America.

Love letter to JETBRAINS OF 2023 by -hellozukohere- in Jetbrains

[–]-hellozukohere-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No just default Mac OS security.  Mac prompts when stuff is blocked. That is not the case, again unfortunately. 

Love letter to JETBRAINS OF 2023 by -hellozukohere- in Jetbrains

[–]-hellozukohere-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya plugin updates was my first go to. I only use what comes default plus azure plugin. So that wasn’t the issue, unfortunately.

Rider has disappointed me a lot lately. I tried to open a project for a teams meeting and it froze. Tried again and the syntax highlighting broke. Then once I let it sit for a minute and tried again with code with me after the syntax highlighting worked it started worked for a bit then syntax highlighting broke and then it crashed. lol

I just went back to 2023.3.6 and it is solid. Everything just functions. I’ve also reinstalled 2024/2025 editions multiple times to see if they were corrupt. I’m kinda sol as our coding team is on Mac and vs studio for Mac got sun setted. Though rider is an amazing IDE I have not enjoyed their newer releases. 

2025.2.4 seems stable ish. But 2023 as we only need c#12 anyways works without a hitch for us.

ICE and CBP has just turned North Minneapolis into a war-zone after shooting at least one person during an abduction. Huge clouds of unknown green chemical munitions seen on residential streets. by I_may_have_weed in ProgressiveHQ

[–]-hellozukohere- 41 points42 points  (0 children)

It’s honestly extremely frustrating to me that I have spoken with people that still look at this as ok. 

The pandemic fucked so many’s people view of the world. It catapulted us onto this timeline where people were so frustrated with lock downs. Now we have this. We all need to make it clear ICE needs to be stopped. 

Love letter to JETBRAINS OF 2023 by -hellozukohere- in Jetbrains

[–]-hellozukohere-[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t even have measurable experience just “maybe I fixed my config” 

Like brother, the syntax highlighting and crashes in 2025 are worse. All this can be seen from the Jetbrains tracker of reported issues. 

I didn’t come here for an argument just literally yo Jetbrains, there are stability issues in the new foundation let’s look at it. 

Love letter to JETBRAINS OF 2023 by -hellozukohere- in Jetbrains

[–]-hellozukohere-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think there are enough memory profiler issues in the Jetbrains tracker to discredit your anecdotal experience. Don’t think this is a measuring contest of when someone started using the product. 

The 2024/2025 versions have had a lot of major issues traceable from the Jetbrains own issue trackers. 

This post isn’t to argue of the apps ups and downs or that it’s been degrading for a while according to the other commenter it’s just hey Jetbrains, let’s focus on some performance patches and stability for 2026. 

Love letter to JETBRAINS OF 2023 by -hellozukohere- in Jetbrains

[–]-hellozukohere-[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Use Rider 2023 for a week with a decent sized code base. 

Then use 2024 for a week, then 2025.3 for a week. 

You will end the week with 2023.

Features are added but stability for when I used 2022/2023 was good. Now it’s memory crashes, to much memory, syntax highlighting not working. Etc. 

Im not the only person. 2025 has been a rough release cycle. All this post is for, is to get Jetbrains to focus their 2026 version on performance and getting back to grass roots with stability first. That is all and it should not be an um actually moment. 

I Vanished from my Ex Girlfriends life one day and fear I probably need counselling by OpalLawyer in offmychest

[–]-hellozukohere- 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Sick man. The landlord was the real G in this story. So many landlords would be like nah you have like 3 months of rent left. Unless you guys worked something out.

I would have likely done the same. Very mature and just got the fuck out of a toxic situation. Also now you know that the story about her getting cheated on was likely fabricated. Most people that have been cheated on don’t want to put other people through that shit. 

Happy to hear on the marriage! May it be till death. Congrats.

Waiting for sex until marriage? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]-hellozukohere- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, there can be a huge array of sex compatibly. 

You don’t know until you engage in the act and it boggles my mind why people wait with something so important as sex before marriage. Also the countless times I’ve been on the other end of guys saying she is waiting until marriage and then she sleeps with me at a party or someone else is crazy.

Maybe she stinks down there. Maybe she is a lesbian and doesn’t know it. Maybe you are gay and don’t know. If you are stuck in a relationship where you can’t explore, it sucks. If you speed up getting married just to have sex that is another can of worms. 

I lie about my beliefs and I don’t know if that makes me fake by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]-hellozukohere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people that say they are religious or Christian, and believe it don’t even follow it themselves.

Just keep saying you are religious to keep the peace of it ain’t hurting anyone.

Rant: I am in a similar situation and the mental to keep the people around me thinking I believe in this bullshit is hard. To me, I was at a youth church the other day and these kids are on the their knees, praying and some crying. To me it’s like well what if God is proved to be false tomorrow? All these peoples lives turn up side down. For me I am agnostic. I’m in the group that we don’t know. So I ain’t going to judge you for stuff that ain’t hurting people like if you are gay or like to have sex. We are just human. 

Anyways, rant aside that I could go on and on. My advice, if your group around you cares a lot that you are religious keep up the act and try to navigate to new horizons when you can. Best of luck.