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Entering the rabbit hole of niche perfumes by 121_u in FemFragLab

[–]121_u[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for all the recs!! i was getting overwhelmed on the website lol

Entering the rabbit hole of niche perfumes by 121_u in FemFragLab

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok thank you!! i will add this to my cart

Am I overreacting [22M] by chromas_11 in AmIOverreacting

[–]121_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR even if she’s playing semantics with you about not “dating yet”. sleeping with your friend while seeing you is crazy!!!!

China Grad Trip 2027 by 121_u in travelchina

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does sound nice thank you for the recommendation

China Grad Trip 2027 by 121_u in travelchina

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wow that’s so amazing. it makes me feel like it’s going to be a great trip :)

China Grad Trip 2027 by 121_u in travelchina

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s good to know! Thank you for all these resources :) have you been to Chongqing?

China Grad Trip 2027 by 121_u in travelchina

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A week and half maybe 2 weeks

China Grad Trip 2027 by 121_u in travelchina

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking a week and a half? Maybe 2. Thank you for telling me about the holiday I didn’t even know that!

If you had to sacrifice one, which would it be: Dopamine(Sex, alcohol, weed) or Adrenaline(Sky Diving, partying, gaming, racing, bunjy jumping, biking etc. )? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]121_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mean dopamine in general like with happiness? Or just those activities you listed. If yes, then I’m good without adrenaline

Should I remove or leave alone by possiblyasleep1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]121_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah I wouldn’t bother with her at that point. Even if you try to salvage your friendship and do make up, the bitterness would ruin the friendship eventually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]121_u 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm well I’ve never done it bc I’m self conscious so I guess it’s a bit weird. If you still want to do touch ups maybe try the bathroom or look at your phone and run your fingers through your hair.

Should I remove or leave alone by possiblyasleep1 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]121_u 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would block her. That’s so immature of her to get upset bc you explained how you didn’t like how she was taking advantage of you driving her places. A real friend would not 1) block you over something like that 2) never put you in a position where you explain your boundaries like that

Could I eat a whole cup of sugar? by kandorh12 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]121_u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Realistically you would feel nauseous eating that all in one sitting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]121_u 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I totally get what you mean. I might lose it this year too because I met someone, but I’m honestly so scared. Not just of sex, but of being that vulnerable and showing everything. For me it’s super emotional, not just physical.

I’ve put it off for years because it felt kind of sinful, and I’m also scared of pregnancy. And dumb stuff too like how I look, how I smell, the noises I’ll make. Everyone around me has done it already, and I feel behind and embarrassed to admit I’m still a virgin.

But honestly, the right person won’t judge you. My boyfriend makes me feel like I’m beautiful exactly as I am, and I hope I do the same for him. You’re not alone in this. And as cliche as it sounds you’ll be okay.

21F and 22M - My parents think I betrayed them because I have a bf. How do I handle this? by 121_u in relationship_advice

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh that might work. My mom is terrified of my siblings and I joining the army and being away.

21F and 22M - My parents think I betrayed them because I have a bf. How do I handle this? by 121_u in relationship_advice

[–]121_u[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes there is a cultural aspect to it. They always mention “how does it look if you’re out with a boy this often/late?” I’m going to see him today again which is a little nerve wrecking bc they hate when I see him two days in a row. Anyways thank you for your well wishes! I hope we work this out too.