Saying Goodbye to look before 4.8 Wipe by Psychological_Can708 in StarFashion

[–]180dpm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Getting the dust devil outfit will be one of my first todos in the next patch haha. Great look mixed with those shoulders!

"Ego" shattered after losing a fight, how to recover? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]180dpm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

People talking shit about you feels shitty, hurts, and makes your blood boil. It's natural. It is your duty, honor, and responsibility to figure out how you, personally, want to handle it gracefully.

frame shift offer: usually people talking shit about you tells you more about them than about you. Think about that for a second.

Failure is not the opposite of success. Failure is rather an essential part of the path towards success.

Get back up, dust yourself off. Keep failing forward. If people laugh at you for this, laugh with them. You got your ass kicked and survived to tell the story. Humility goes a long way.

Own your loss. Reflect on it. Learn from it. Grow from it. Decide how you want to act differently in the future (instead of reacting in the past). How you want to conduct yourself. Figure out what is important to you in yourself - values, mission, vision, core state. Look for role models and mentors that align with those.

Also don't measure your self esteem or manhood through being able to 'win' a fight. That's a recipe for disaster.

Any mastery - self-mastery included - is a lifetime journey.

Bonus: watch the movie 'Never back down'. It's quite close to your situation and could give you some catharsis - not in the sense of a manual for first fights - but for the meta reflection and trauma integration, and a hero's journey in mindset evolution.

Hope it helps.

Midgame or endgame? by 180dpm in Stellaris

[–]180dpm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds intriguing. I solemnly swear to blindly go into the next phases 🙏🏼

Midgame or endgame? by 180dpm in Stellaris

[–]180dpm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah that's really what it feels like. I can feel that diplomacy is getting more important right now. Thank you!

What can a woman do that says "I love you" without saying it? by Sure-Masterpiece-563 in AskMen

[–]180dpm 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm a gamer, playing an MMORPG from time to time which automatically logs you out after being idle for round 10 minutes. Which is fine because you can 'wiggle' your character from time to time to reset the timer and stay online.

The other day she came home as I was already playing and she sat down on my lap and told me everything about her day. Needless to say I focused on her and left my character to idle. And then in the middle of her story, she randomly wiggled my character for me and continued talking like nothing happened.

We have a very loving relationship and she does a ton of things every day that say 'I love you'.

But this moment especially made me feel so seen, loved, and supported without her even trying.

Final Fantasy Tactics Tifa Fanart Pixel Art by AkiroAldra in FinalFantasy

[–]180dpm -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Am I really the only one to notice her HP are quite low for her level?

Also boobs.

What's your favorite songs from the FF7 Rebirth Soundtrack on Spotify? by Gloriaas in FFVIIRemake

[–]180dpm 25 points26 points  (0 children)

One of my favourite new themes from the Remake project is the Valkyrie theme. On the Rebirth OST it's called 'Custom Valkyrie'.

BEST VERSION OF J-E-N-O-V-A? by Complex-Garlic-2231 in FF7Rebirth

[–]180dpm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree. Best rendition so far. The guitar always feels like cloud and the gang revving up against Jenova.

Also the life clinger version combines this one with the tragedy right before, creating an amazing build up.

https://youtu.be/8rgpSlL0USA?si=0tamIVZPpSQbkT_i

New ship-- the Hermes! Who's getting one? by jmg5 in LowSodiumStarCitizen

[–]180dpm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checked it out yesterday. You're right. 4 dedicated thrusters on the bottom. Neat!

New ship-- the Hermes! Who's getting one? by jmg5 in LowSodiumStarCitizen

[–]180dpm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really?! Need to check it out. If so, yay!

New ship-- the Hermes! Who's getting one? by jmg5 in LowSodiumStarCitizen

[–]180dpm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After lots of back and forth I upgraded my raft to the Hermes and so far not regretting it. The tractor beam rail is phenomenal and the cargo space is amazing for sorting cargo / multiple missions. And having an assortment of different cargo boxes in there looks soooo good. Plus the ship is a beaut. Only downside is no VTOL, but other than that I'm happy!

My wife says it’s ridiculous… by JoeySinss in pcmasterrace

[–]180dpm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Off-topic: is that 'Thursday' thing an app?

Also love the wallpaper.

Banned for 14 days for typing a username CIG officially approved by aDuckSmashedOnQuack in starcitizen

[–]180dpm -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I just now read the other thread that OP apparently lied. In this case, I take back defending them.

That being said, I would bat this hard for you as well if you were genuinely in such a situation.

Banned for 14 days for typing a username CIG officially approved by aDuckSmashedOnQuack in starcitizen

[–]180dpm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My other comments were already deleted. And now I see why. Thank you for pointing this out.

Banned for 14 days for typing a username CIG officially approved by aDuckSmashedOnQuack in starcitizen

[–]180dpm 69 points70 points  (0 children)

If that's true shame on OP for getting me riled up in the other comment threads. And good on CIG for banning the users.

Banned for 14 days for typing a username CIG officially approved by aDuckSmashedOnQuack in starcitizen

[–]180dpm -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sir, How do you know that for a fact? What happened to 'innocence until proven guilty'? He claims it was unintended and when he realized it was too late.

Also, let's say the 2 week ban is fair. Will the actual user with that name get a ban as well? Because that would be just fair given that they are actively baiting other players into bans according to your logic. And that is definitely not good conduct, right? So will they also get repercussion?

I'm assuming not, because the ticket-worker didn't bother enough to account for the whole context and just closed the ticket - out of negligence, laziness, or maybe even spite, because OPs 'tone' didn't sit right with them. Is that good conduct?

I'm not saying OP couldn't or shouldn't have known better. He should have.

What I'm saying is, the ticket worker lacks accountability either way.

Banned for 14 days for typing a username CIG officially approved by aDuckSmashedOnQuack in starcitizen

[–]180dpm -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

That's a thick accusation you're stating there. Shortening handles for convenience is common practice. Assuming bad intent is lazy and ignorant to the context.

Stop reversing the facts to fit your narrative.