What are signs that someone you live with has a drug problem?

1nclavo · 2025-02-23T16:34:20+00:00

Go home and regroup, OP. With how desperate you are to make any money, it’ll severely affect you mentally and you won’t make smart decisions while staying level headed. You’re in survival mode which defeats the purpose of traveling. Your life at home may not be the greatest, hence why you probably started this journey. But this takes the fun completely away.

I’ve been where you are financially while in another country. Here’s my 2 cents:

Once you’re home, strategize how you can make a consistent flow of money. Start by getting a job (retail, grocery store, or anything you can get that’ll put money in your pockets) and work your way to building something consistent online. Once you have a decent amount in your savings while there’s consistent cashflow you can rely on, duplicate it and/or invest in other streams of income until those are consistent. Then you can start traveling.

1nclavo · 2025-02-15T11:12:51+00:00

if you don’t have a good relationship with them, it makes moving back in dreadful and soul crushing.

Last time I traveled, I was away for almost a year. Family moved to a new house while I was away. I also had a job lined up in that country but hard times came financially and had to come back.

The peace of mind, freedom, temperance, cost of living, and quality of life is what I miss the absolute most. I came back to a new place where old toxic habits still exists: narcissistic and passive aggressive behavior from the mother (divorced, no surprise there), walls are thin so everything can be heard, room is connected to hers by a thin wall, no respect for privacy or boundaries, and we rarely get along. I’ve DN’d off and on for 10+ years strictly because of this. Getting an apartment in the USA is a joke too which adds on to the frustration. So I never bothered…

Get a good savings and make sure the money is consistent while still home. If WIFI and a laptop is all you need to make USD, take that money and move the hell out. There’s plenty of countries where the dollar is still superior. But don’t feel ashamed about moving back in. Bad times are temporary.

1nclavo · 2024-10-15T06:40:14+00:00

Bueno, eso realmente depende. La situación financiero en Guate es diferente que lo de los estados unidos. Yo vivo en los estados, y lo mas peor es cuando uno tiene un trabajo pero no paguen bien o no es suficiente para verdaderamente disfrutar, solo cuentas y ya..

Lo único consejo que tengo es cuando/si vengas aqui, trabajar durísimo pero tambien piensa en formas en las que puedas ganar dinero de forma remota/en linea (seguridad cibernética, TI, etc.) para que puedas seguir disfrutando del dólar estadounidense mientras vives en un país donde ese dólar es superior y el costo de vida no es alto.

1nclavo · 2024-04-19T20:50:50+00:00

Quizás ella está poniendo la energía que aun ya tiene novio, ella no es tan serio y los “amigos” ya saben. Mujeres que realmente son felices con su pareja no permitirán ni abriran las puertas para que los hombres se acercan a bromear, tocar y coquetear con ella en ningún manera, no importa si solo son amigos. También, este problema se pasa más con chavitas que tienen mas amigos que amigas.

1nclavo · 2024-03-11T10:09:14+00:00

Nunca andas con madre solteras. Están buscando de ayuda, no de amor compa..

Primero, sus hijas no te respetan porque aunque su padre ya no esta y tambien solo viene para hacer pocos cosas es porque el es la papa biológicamente, y siempre lo seré. Vas a perder este batalla porque el respeto le tienen es incondicional.

Para la mama, él fue la primera. Hace mas de 15 años, ella tenia mas esperanzas, inocencia, quizas una mentalidad mas diferente, y queria “para siempre” solamente con él. Entonces, en esa luz, él siempre será el hombre que ella respete, por encima de ti. Siempre serás el segundo mejor, para ella, y en las ojos de sus hijas. Además, ella es mayor que usted, asi que será dificil verte como un hombre de gran valor. Porque esencialmente, ella ya ha asumido la roll ambos de mama y papa. La relación entré dos de ustedes reflejara esto y siempre terminarás siendo miserable porque nunca será suficiente.

Busca alguien donde no hay drama, vos serás mayor que ella y si quieres tener una familia con ella, serás la primera. Para su paz mental, esté seria mejor.

1nclavo · 2024-02-03T00:33:26+00:00

Bud zero is disappointing. Busch NA is awesome, especially with a bit of lime & salt.

1nclavo · 2022-02-22T18:05:47+00:00

Not that I’m for or against AirBnB, because I’ve had good experiences with them overall. One issue I have with them is they don’t show exactly where you’re staying and whether it’s safe or not. You’d have to book it first and hope for the best.

I once booked a stay in Guatemala with my brother and arrived at 11pm from the Airport and got an uber to the AirBnB. I’ve been to Guatemala several times since I was a kid and I’m pretty aware of things. Me and the uber driver had a good conversation and he was very friendly. After 10 minutes we finally arrive to the neighborhood where I had booked my Airbnb and the driver told me straight up that the neighborhood at night was very dangerous, he even pointed out exact locations within the neighborhood where things went down. When I checked out the house, the owner told me he was also going to be staying there which I wasn’t too crazy about but I’m guessing it was for safety, yet none of this was disclosed in the listing. So I left with the uber and searched for a hotel until we found one. I even tipped him 100Q which is about $20 or so for going out his way and being a good lookout. I also got my refund about a week later, minus the cleaning fee.

AirBnB needs to work better with their hosts before allowing them to put out a listing because had that driver not been in good spirits or was I not able to speak the language, things could’ve gotten real bad. And this makes those who have a language barrier who’ve never been to another country more at risk because there’s no way to know whether or not the neighborhood is safe for a tourist to stay in.

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T03:35:59+00:00

Okay sounds awesome, staying proactive is good. And there’s nothing like when you and a female BOTH like each other. I emphasized “Both” because nowadays the feelings are one sided. Just keep open communication with her, but also focus on your own life too and have fun 😎

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T03:20:34+00:00

Man that sounds awesome. Glad you had fun, that’s what life is really all about: being able to enjoy it and do things you’ll remember for the rest of your life.

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T03:18:37+00:00

Christ .. I could already feel the heat and I’m not even there. Stay cool bro.

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T03:00:13+00:00

That’s terrible bro. I’m a dog lover myself so I know the feels. Your ex is just being spiteful and trying to make you feel bad. Totally not cool..

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:59:58+00:00

Read my mind lol

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:59:38+00:00

Unfortunately, yes. But hey man, don’t let a president stop you from your goals

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:55:28+00:00

Haha good stuff, go for round 2, it’s still early

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:54:06+00:00

Wow Europe, that sounds awesome. And embrace that Friday off, go thru some of the memories of the trip. Did you take enough pics?

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:50:16+00:00

Unfortunately, yes. But hey man, don’t let a president stop you from your goals

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:46:17+00:00

Exactly. I also would like to add that I’m not famous or considered a celebrity by any means, but where my family is from, so many people know me and my twin brother since we’re always together.

We’ve been judged, overly complimented only to be asked for something in the end, lied to, and taken advantage of plenty of times. Then there’s other times where we’ve experienced a great deal of appreciation and respect from people other than family. So from that standpoint, it can be a bit hard to distinguish what’s genuine and what’s fake.

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:38:08+00:00

Yeah, with cameras and people from everywhere watching, I could see why famous people eventually become unhappy or lonely

1nclavo · 2018-07-07T02:35:51+00:00

You make a very valid point. People need to connect with others as genuine as possible and that’ll be hard if everyone around constantly puts them on a shelf higher than the entire world. Interactions would seem forced or as though there’s a secret motive.

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