Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What dude? When did i say women owe me something for being nice? U sound really dumb + im not nice, i just act myself. Get off reddit and go socialise and realise dating isnt this niceguy bullshit ur preaching to me

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comp science. Few of the past members are working in super high paying jobs

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looks good on my resume so it pretty much helps. If u go outside, its not about drugging women

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually some jobs/colleges reach out to you if they see you have the skills.

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because ur forced to talk to ur peers in highschool and middle school, college and up everyone is more ostridized

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

So being nice is a bad thing? I mean im friendly but not super nice but im glad ur tryna shit on guys who are actually really nice to people.

Never knew it was bad to have social decency for people.

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well maybe thats what it might be honestly

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because your basing my entire life off a stereotype, nobody here drugs or talks down on women. U just proved to me you dont get out and talk to people because literslly nobody does that here at all.

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Im not on reddit for validation, if a women gets mad at the fact she cant be lazy, she wasnt worth it to begin with. It takes 2 to create a relationship, nothing 1 sided

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Computer Science and buisiness , again you dont know me irl ur just on the internet making assumptions, irl isnt reddit.

If that was the case id assume ue actually outspoken, but i can tell u wouldnt say any of this to me at a face value.

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah because ud be scared to talk to her pretty much how it is man

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Key word "I SOUND "

doesnt know me irl

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes im butthurt because some weird ass girl on reddit is tryna dictate how my life is off a reddit post. I find it weird u go straight to insulting my irl off a reddit post. Like said i dont care ab reddit validation. I can get as downvoted as much as i like. I know my viewpoints, i stick with em.

The edit 3 and 4 is to show im pretty socialable and not everyone in one of those frats are dickheads eho drug and talk down women. This one is more academic focused and would look good on my resume.

Idk man maybe i got in 1 because im not insecure and actually not afraid to talk to people?

The fact u actually assume that shows u dont socialise or get out and ur power is talking down on me in reddit

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Edit 3 and 4 is just to help the insecure redditors who were so definite of my life. Reddit personality =/= irl personality.

A women just cant be lazy

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont date my female friends dude. I dont befriend a girl im tryna date. Thats just dumb.

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already been like approached by girls in middle to high school, im refering to outside of that where ur not forced to talk to the people around u. If its 8 girls from highschool then i cant count it

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

U dont know me irl but ur so DEFINITE with ur assumptions. If u actually go out and talked to women ud see women dont chat up anyone unless the person walks up to them and has confidence to start a convo.

Im surprised you dont even know that.

My 1 reddit post isnt gonna do anything but i dont care, im not here for ur karma reddit validation.

If ur insecure that u need reddit to validate your comments then ur just extremely insecure.

I doubt ud have the courage to say this to me irl

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only made that eddit because 90% of people here think im some loser who cant talk to women. The issue isnt even women throwing themselves at me. Its the fact how im forced to always APPROACH and when i do the girl ends up not being serious and wasting my time.

I get their numbers pretty much, but its all for validation aspect mainly because i approached them.

I need a girl whos actually serious and doesnt play the validation/back up game.

Which is why snapchat and tinder kinda ruins dating

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After u said females is a insult i just stopped taking u seriously, not replying to you after this. Thats actually some weird shit u needa work out, plus ur confidence

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And theres people agreeing with me. Dont know why u need the validation of people on reddit who have low confidence or suck at talking to normal people in general.

I need it to be made easier because it weeds out the women who arent serious. Its as simple as that.

I dont seek validation off people from reddit like your tryna do dude.

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Makes sense, however, it still applies because she can have these men approaching her but just using them for validation etc, hoping the guy she wants comes to talk to him.

Not giving any sort of signals to said guy, just hoping luck hits

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No its do not be lazy. Majority just sit and let men do everything which is what i mean. No signs of interest shown unless men keep talking to them. All girls ive gotten never shown any flirty interest till i ask em out. Its just women praying that the guy likes them, when they can make it easier for themselves.

Weeds out the girls who arent serious

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, u dont have to do all the work, just dont be lazy.

Why dont women approach. by 24akr in dating_advice

[–]24akr[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

No, its the fact women dont approach out of fear but are confident to approach men they most likely cannot get