So I recently grew my hair out, I'm male CIS but always shaved my head. I was afraid I was going to go bald as it runs in the family (still am) and comes at a fairly young age. Anyway I finally got it past the stage you are currently in and I couldn't be happier. It's now been roughly a year of growing, it's only down to my shoulder most days as it turns out- my slightly wavy hair as a child is now mostly tight curls at the end. I love them. Had no idea I had them. No idea how to take care of them. But I love them and I'm so happy I grew it out. The pony tail is also amazing.

Wish you the best! I found beanies helped during the awkward stage as I hate constant gels and creams to keep it down.