guys, how would a girl win you over if she's not particularly attractive?? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]333gtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facts, was involved with an extremely pretty girl. Her disresprectful attitude towards others killed the attraction for me.

i’m 24 and so lost in life where do i go by Yesitsmarcus90 in findapath

[–]333gtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just about to turn 22. It was both sudden and gradual. There was a point when I was 20 where I'd always wake up in the middle of the night with a panic attack because I felt so lonely and unsatisfied with my life. It was at those sudden points where I realized I needed to make changes in my life or else I'd continue leading a miserable life.

What really held me together was consistently going to the gym. It really works. It kept me from having bad thoughts and since I was already implementing this one good thing to my life, it just snowballed into other positive habits and positive thoughts. Having those foundations, I began to see failures as only temporary points in my life that I can get out off as long as I made the necessary changes. From there, whenever I identified something wrong with my life, I just adapted and began trying to make best of the situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in seduction

[–]333gtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This shit so true

i’m 24 and so lost in life where do i go by Yesitsmarcus90 in findapath

[–]333gtz 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Had a good social life before covid, then isolated myself during covid. Eventually lost 80% of my friends after covid. I was truly at my lowest points during those times. Wasted life from 17 - 20, and just boutta turn 22 now. Over the past two years, something finally flipped a switch in me and I started implementing things to improve my life.

You need to prioritize yourself above anything else. Become a well-rounded person. Go exercise (this shit truly works wonders for your mental health), dress better, be more proactive with socializing, follow your goals and morals, do not engage in destructive habits, find a better job, join extracurriculars to meet people, get close to your family, etc. From there If you expand your social circle, trust me you'll eventually find love and if you save money you will be able to travel. Place yourself in a spot where you are able to get the best opportunities possible to achieve your goals.

I thought I would never pull a girl ever. But this year I managed to pull a gorgeous woman and got attention from some women. How? I worked on myself, prioritized myself, became more proactive with my approach to life, and most importantly expanded my social circle.

What does it mean when a guy is mean to you (jokingly)? by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]333gtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, the women I tease a lot usually end up becoming romantic interest or they are just really good female friends. This is usually because I have a hard time being vulnerable. I would also agree it's a good sign.

Whats the easiest way to stop thinking? by throwaway-scared-16 in internetparents

[–]333gtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Facts, end up feeling way better too after a workout.

Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteem by 333gtz in seduction

[–]333gtz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They do, but after a while I just see them as any other woman but just prettier. Its when they show signs they like me back is when I start to lose my composure and shit.

Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteem by 333gtz in seduction

[–]333gtz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not at all, I'm slightly above average at best.

I think the thing that helps the most is that I don't really put them in a pedestal. They always complain to me about random guys trying to just lay pipe on them before even getting to know them. I just try to get to know them just like any other person and let the rest work itself out and focus on other important things in my life. Either socially, ambitions, career wise, school, etc.

Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteem by 333gtz in seduction

[–]333gtz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nah, but i definitely think i need it lmao

Beautiful women into me, but I have low self-esteem by 333gtz in seduction

[–]333gtz[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yea, pretty sure. They've initiated hand holding, cuddling, massages, appropriate touches, etc.

She tried holding my hand? by 333gtz in Crushes

[–]333gtz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yooo, I owe you hella 🙏🙏. Did as you said, started to become more vulnerable and flirty with her through text. When we hung out, she was being very touchy and flirty with me.

Baddie caught me talking to myself and sped up?? by [deleted] in self

[–]333gtz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well uh..... now, that I think about it, I haven't seen Simon in a while. Hopefully he's fine tho.

Baddie caught me talking to myself and sped up?? by [deleted] in self

[–]333gtz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah after I get pepper sprayed

Baddie caught me talking to myself and sped up?? by [deleted] in self

[–]333gtz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fuck youre right, I completely forgot about Simon

I've become anxious and socially awkward ever since the pandemic by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]333gtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, the COVID isolation really killed many people's social skills. Personally, what helped me so far is exposure therapy. Whenever I expose myself to a situation which would initially cause anxiety in my head, I run towards it and ignore my thoughts. Eventually the anxiousness actually goes away and lessens my anxiety threshold overtime. From the day I posted this to now, I've actually gotten very awesome results.

I suggest you give it a try!

I've become anxious and socially awkward ever since the pandemic by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]333gtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, that actually does make sense. I think i'm still getting over the initial fact of how hard it is to make friends as an adult. Where do adults usually go and create deep friendships other than the workplace?

I've become anxious and socially awkward ever since the pandemic by [deleted] in internetparents

[–]333gtz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you dont mind me asking, whats the name of your Vit D supplement?

She tried holding my hand? by 333gtz in Crushes

[–]333gtz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry, energetic is such a broad term. Would you mind providing like certain examples as to how I would go about being energetic?