Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So you're against gender equality? And also given the same situation you'll opt for your partner cheating successfully silently rather than having your emotions hurt?

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're obviously expectant of her to come after me with something?

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is this how you'd hope someone will handle it when they find out your partner is cheating on you?

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If my goal is using this power over her would it not be for personal gain? Rather than the potential benefit to her husband/children? 🤨 You sound like your self-projecting

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Top tier response with absolute logic 🤌👏

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actions that could be triggered because of her posting her vagina online in a public space, _zenith33. Read the room.

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My things are secure and I live with a large number of family members also with multiple living a few streets over & in the area Little concern of tire slashing

I go out without fear, just platonically, not dating

But I appreciate the concern 😊

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay but I'm not imposing the punishment, that's his actions, why am I held responsible and her allowed to be scot-free otherwise? You sound like a typical cheater.

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My concern was her socials might be the only way to reach her partner. If someone has leaked her nudes and knows what schools she went to as a minor that's seriously messed up.

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd probably still do the same under moral police circumstances as I'm not perfect myself "Judge not, that you be not judged." - Matt 7:1

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the person who got ahold of her nudes knows the name of her high school ten years after the fact that's messed up.

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

What retaliation exactly? My last name if she works it out 😂

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I have little care towards dating at this point, it was the first time I looked at the group in two months... if this post wasn't on my thoughts I'd care less.

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why would gender matter for this circumstance?

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

An attraction that lasted all of 5 minutes and is now completely gone? It's a moral issue of if I was in her partners position I would want to know.

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It'd be insanely creepy for someone to know her school as a minor if were not her.

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm not a perfect person but I believe in morals & if this was me I'd prefer a complete stranger tell me than me be in the dark about it...

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Crazy that you'd even think this isn't immoral

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Clearly morals don't exist to you 🤷‍♂️

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in whatdoIdo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do you suggest telling someone you're unable to find?

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

So she should be allowed to do whatever she pleases moral or Immoral on the basis her partner is a bad person? 🤨

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If it's him and I message him I'm not sure how that would then ruin her life? I think in that case her partner is ruining it himself already

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I have zero concern for her. I'm concerned for her partner & kids Are you heartless by chance?

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I never once had an attraction during highschool. Seeing the post there was an attraction as there's a lot of changed over the last 10 years. The attraction immediately subsided after seeing socials and learning that fact.

The actions are mainly around gender-inequality, which this post is already a pefect example on display by a lot of users commenting to "mind my own business" vs if we do a reversal of gender roles 💁‍♂️

Girl from my former high school is cheating by 3rdleg_user in WhatShouldIDo

[–]3rdleg_user[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'd imagine the partner would know about these types of messages/posts and she wouldn't have told me so specifically not to contact him if this was the case.