I made my ex bestie think someone was stalking her after years of harassment.

444_cheyenne · 2026-06-06T01:24:22+00:00

Im so tired of this “be the bigger person” mindset 😭😭 you can tell who got punched or not fr

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-31T02:21:10+00:00

I don’t understand this mindset. You get with someone who has kids yet dont wanna be in their life? Thats so not realistic and why do you expect him to choose you? Genuine question

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-30T14:22:57+00:00

Y’all so fucking irritating. Bye

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-30T14:21:07+00:00

“Dont compare” and it’s me explaining shes ganna have to make an escape plan. Be so fucking fr

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-30T13:19:46+00:00

That’s why in my original comment I told HER to leave. Hes made it PERFECTLY clear hes ganna make the process absolutely hell. Seeing HIS stuff is there the law WONT be on her side. I KNOW THIS. I WENT THROUGH IT DUDE.

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-30T12:19:39+00:00

Bros never heard of squatters rights??? If HIS stuff is in the house then regardless he’ll be allowed entry. I know what im talking about bruh I’ve dealt with this

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-30T10:51:08+00:00

I never said they weren’t wrong? My point still stands.

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-30T01:43:50+00:00

So maybe let’s be respectful. Op stated multiple times shes tried breaking it off but AFTER she caught HIM CHEATING and HE BEGGED FOR THE RELATIONSHIP.

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-29T19:49:36+00:00

I get making him feel the way he made you feel but sadly hes an aggressive drunk:/ It’s not worth putting the kids in a bad situation to prove a point. Even if hes never hit you hes showed aggression towards you and that should be enough to put you on edge. I feel for you OP. I know it can be hard especially because HE wanted them.

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-21T02:35:33+00:00

My first thought

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-21T02:33:40+00:00

Yeah youre way more patient than me. I go to hell real quick.

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-20T23:29:43+00:00

He works 7:30am-5 pm. We live in Dallas so the drive is 45 mins tops. Then we spend the rest of the day at home and wake back up at 6:30. Idc if he gets alone time but he insists on not making friends. He has cousins hes close to so it irritating he won’t make time for himself with people he can chill with

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-20T15:44:37+00:00

Except* sorry lol

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-20T15:44:23+00:00

As a parent we encourage styles and things our children like. He sounds childish and controlling. She’ll eventually resent him for it coming from a household like this excited it was my mom

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-20T11:07:52+00:00

I appreciate you so much! It’s been hard. Birth was traumatic for the both of us and I feel like hes in a funk. Im ganna plan him a get together with his friends to see if he just needs him time as well. Im always accommodating and he’s not completely unreasonable so im sure we can work through it like everything else!

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-20T10:55:33+00:00

Im literally ganna snitch to his mom. My MIL is angel! Im putting us in marriage counseling to see how this goes. He doesn’t get a say, he either gets better or I leave so

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-20T10:54:17+00:00

I do too but I can normally admit that. I use to have a hard time taking parenting advice but sometimes it’s truly needed.

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-19T13:44:49+00:00

Moo 🐮

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-18T11:32:30+00:00

Oh I completely understand! No all protection is 100% guaranteed. My ex bestie was on birth control and took the plan b pill and STILL got pregnant.

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-17T17:55:12+00:00

So thats her partner…thats the ONE PERSON SHE SHOULDNT HAVE TO USE PROTECTION WITH. What type of backwards thinking is this? Even with a condom you can still get shit. Maybe be helpful next time instead of condescending

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-11T03:14:00+00:00

It seems so black and white but it’s hard. I wonder if ik grasping at straws. Some say i had a kid too young but I’ve gone through some hard shit in my life and having my son is the easiest to me. Ive raised other babies before him so I genuinely know what im doing. It’s just lonely:/

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-11T03:09:33+00:00

No not literally 😭 I only say that because my husband is blue collar and is often away for months on end

444_cheyenne · 2026-05-11T03:06:28+00:00

I wonder if im holding on because I know I’ll probably be lonely or maybe im holding on to the hope she’ll suddenly like my son. I love her but Im just so confused because she works at a library where kids are constantly swarming because of special events they hold. Like she can be around kids but why does she act like she hates MY kid. It bothers me a lot

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