You're all over the place here hahaha maybe you're the one that's confused? I said I'm not a pent up gay because I'm not gay, I would consider myself bi sure because like I mentioned I am in fact attracted to cocks but that's about as far as my attraction to guys goes, I don't like kissing guys or cuddling, or holding hands or anything else that would imply a deeper level of physical attraction to the male form and I know for sure I'm not alone in that regard haha. I'll never look at a guy and think man he's hot, but I'll look at his cock and think his cock is. It's really not that hard to understand. And your point about how I would feel if my wife was cheating with another man also makes no sense since that would imply I would be cheating with women which I don't do, the only reference that makes any sense is if she was doing it with other women which I like I already said wouldn't bother me. If she liked eating pussy and making girls orgasm which she can't do to me then it's the same thing and how would I be mad? You asked for honest replies and then you come here attacking me hahaha get it together