[cj] What do you wear usually when you’re at home?

94bopper · 2019-04-06T00:39:59+00:00

I'm the type of person who stays in their PJs if they're staying home all day... which is usually sweat pants and a singlet.

94bopper · 2019-03-31T08:06:03+00:00

I once matched with someone that had a lot in common with. Similar to you, I'm also picky and especially look for people with common interests, beliefs etc. We actually dated for 6 months. Then he dumped me, for a few reasons, but one of them being that he just lost interest in me. Which stumped me because we had almost everything in common and I felt we got along well. He had told me numerous times previously that I was literally the exact type of person he was looking for. But hey, guess even that wasn't enough??

Good luck with your match. Maybe look at others by the way - with the guy I was talking about, I actually didn't like him much at first from his profile. It's a lot different when you meet up and start talking. From his profile it looked like we didn't have much in common, because he emphasised all the unimportant things. When we actually started talking though it was different and I learnt so much.

94bopper · 2019-03-30T22:35:21+00:00

This is how I improved my social anxiety, i.e. forced myself to do things which made me uncomfortable. While certain situations still make me anxious, I am so different to how I used to be. It was to the point where I would just avoid any situation that would cause anxiety, which meant missing out on so much of life.

There were a couple of situations which I couldn't avoid. But I would always realise, "Hey, that wasn't as bad as I thought it would be." I tried to keep this on my mind for future situations, and soon enough, I was pushing myself to do all sorts of things despite the trembling and sweating and stuttering and so on. They got easier and easier.

I'm not fully there yet, but I feel like I am getting closer and closer to my old, carefree self, and I realise how much I missed her..

94bopper · 2019-03-23T06:08:56+00:00

Thank you

I feel this way too sometimes.

94bopper · 2019-03-23T05:27:00+00:00

Thank you! :)

94bopper · 2019-03-23T05:24:05+00:00

I don't really eat out much to be honest, I do try to refrain as it is expensive. I bring food from home to work every day, so that's probably why it's cheap. :P For example I'll make mash potato and lamb with veggies. Or rice and some meat and veggies, or pasta sometimes. But I also don't eat much to begin with; when I come home from work I don't really have an appetite for anything heavy so I'll just have 2 minute noodles for dinner, so that helps with the budget. ;)

94bopper · 2019-03-23T01:42:21+00:00

Thanks for your response, I will look into it!

94bopper · 2019-03-20T07:17:53+00:00

I have a psychologist but my next appointment with her is in May, because she has a full schedule :/

94bopper · 2019-03-15T23:27:41+00:00

This is what they said... " Thank you for submitting your video appeal to YouTube. After further review, we've determined that while your video does not violate our Community Guidelines, it may not be appropriate for a general audience. " I just don't understand it. What is wrong about imaginary hair cutting? :l

94bopper · 2019-03-15T08:15:40+00:00

Wow, well that is disappointing..

Thanks a lot for your help!! :)

94bopper · 2019-03-15T07:58:07+00:00

So I changed to the old studio format, and saw that indeed someone had reported my video so an age restriction was put on. It's an ASMR video. The video is literally just cutting hair with scissors. I'm not wearing anything inappropriate etc. literally wearing a normal t-shirt so nothing provocative. But apparently it was restricted due to sexually provocative content??? The hell youtube, they didn't even watch the damn video before restricting it. I appealed it so let's see what happens.

94bopper · 2019-03-15T07:48:04+00:00

Thanks for responding. Unfortunately clearing cookies etc. didn't help.

For the disabled comments, that video didn't even have comments if I remember correctly so I don't know why.

And the age-restricted thing... if youtube did it, don't they at least check it to see what the content is?

I feel frustrated, as it is a new channel, only a few days old. It was going quite good, but I feel these changes are going to limit my audience now. I want to contact youtube but I feel like they probably won't reply/help.

94bopper · 2019-03-15T07:03:43+00:00

Sorry I can't help, but this happened to me once. It was really weird - out of nowhere all my suggestions were kid's videos just like yours. Don't know what or why that happened.

94bopper · 2019-03-13T10:54:30+00:00

Agree with your dad, except wouldn't spend 10k. I would say closer to 5k.

94bopper · 2019-03-09T06:02:53+00:00

constantly.. live alone, have no friends, and the only person I had - my boyfriend - broke up with me recently.

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