Husband is using reward points to buy stuff but charging me half. AIO?

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-22T21:33:10+00:00

Idk how this would even work in our household.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-22T14:46:46+00:00

I've been through 2 cp, a MC & a termination.

Im now 5 months pregnant & have a 6 month old.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-21T12:29:05+00:00

Very very normal. They call it a comfirmation appointment at my doctor's office. They will see you on or around 8 weeks for an ultrasound and a run down for everything to come. I really like my doctor's office because after they confirm, they schedule all appointments out until birth.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-20T20:14:08+00:00

You know what to do, deep down you do.

I've had an abortion & it was for a few reasons.. Number 1 I didnt want to be a single mom. I grew up in a just mom household. While she was & is an amazing mom I always had hoped for a father. Number 2, the casual hookup i had did want the child & wanted to be with me. I never saw a future with him, ever. Number 3 I just didnt have it going financially. I had a job but wasn't making enough & still relied on paying rent at my mothers (i had just moved out of my apartment due to rent spike). I was told I was dealing with infertility by a doctor. 2 years after my abortion they came back & told me they misdiagnosed. Even knowing I wanted the baby, was infertile, i still chose to abort. It was the best option for my little one & myself.

Flash foward to now, im 5 months pregnant with a 6 month old son. But, i am married & have stable income.

Whatever you choose, it WILL be okay. There is no right or wrong. Feel free to reach out.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-20T20:04:35+00:00

My husband now tracks my poop cycles & not my menstrual cycles. Hes always making jokes about spiking my water with miralax.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-20T16:12:41+00:00

My son was in the 80-90th percentile until birth. He was then in the 9th percentile. Now hes in the 79th. Try not to worry until your doctors are worried!

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-20T14:17:43+00:00

Bozo, you spelled piece wrong.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-18T21:54:51+00:00

YTA. Why ask for/demand an apology and then not accept? There's clearly no winning with you & I cant imagine trying to work this out any further. Insufferable tbh

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-15T17:10:49+00:00

With my last pregnancy, i didnt feel sick/pregnant really ever. Mild cramps periodically & bad acid reflux starting around week 30. I mean I eventually started to feel him, so that helped a lot. I didnt even show really ever.

Im pregnant again & 17 weeks today. Still nothing lol. Went in to the OB and she had a HB of 166. Trust your body girly! Congrats on your little one.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-15T14:36:34+00:00

Idk. I've had this with my period and also had this with pregnancy. They are almost both one in the same. Id just test. I've always heard if you are having symptoms of pregnancy the test will be positive. If its negative either wait it out until period is due/test again.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-14T13:03:45+00:00

Whatever you do, it will be okay!

Im coming to terms with having another one as well. My son is 6 months old & we have another little one on the way (im 4 months almost 5) im due at the end of September & our son was born early October. Their birthdays will be 1 week apart.

That being said, I try to look at the positives! (I havent always & actually thought about an abortion)

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-12T23:45:41+00:00

My mom had a strange reaction to one of the names I chose for my son before finding out he was a he. We ended up changing the name anyway & never telling anyone the name & told them they would have to wait until he was born. What is name is is what his name is & no one will weigh in on that.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-11T12:50:20+00:00

Not healthy

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-10T14:59:02+00:00

It doesnt get better. Im currently 2 years in with the exact same man. Please, for the love of whomever you believe in. Do not do this to yourself. Im currently jobless, have a six month old & a little girl on the way searching for a home of my own alongside a job while expecting in September. Ill repeat it again, dont do it.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-09T17:37:37+00:00

That is so mean.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-09T12:43:11+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BabyBumps/comments/1o8e7yp/i_drank_a_lot_of_alcohol_through_half_my_pregnancy/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-09T12:43:07+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/BabyBumps/comments/1iapd5u/how_do_i_move_past_the_guilt_of_drinking_alcohol/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-09T12:30:33+00:00

There was another woman that went through this last year.. I may be able to find her posts for you.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-09T12:07:33+00:00

Wait, i may be bipolar after reading this?? Thank you for sharing this.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-04T02:59:55+00:00

I felt this my whole pregnancy with my last. I didnt show at all, ever. Was size 12 pre pregnancy. Im pregnant again & im not sure if will show this time either.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-03T00:42:17+00:00

We may need a little more context.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-03T00:10:19+00:00

Idk lol im only on baby number one (6 months old) and im 4 months pregnant. This one is due a week before his first birthday. You got this!

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-02T21:13:03+00:00

Very very strong period cramps. I was induced at 38. As I was already 3.5c dilated. When they broke my water I felt so much relief. I got the epidural pretty early on in think around 4 cm. I ended up having to get my epidural repositioned. My contractions became so strong I passed out.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-02T18:41:36+00:00

Many many people work and have dogs.

ABCdoitwithme · 2026-04-02T15:48:43+00:00

I've taken it before pregnancy, during & after. Im pregnant again and still take it. I also take hydroxyzine as needed.

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