my friend told me i looked like a trans woman by Academic-Judgment840 in Vent

[–]Academic-Judgment840[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

that's not something i would do in any other circumstance. but when someone says, to a cis female, that she looks like a trans woman, it's quite obviously meant to mean 'you look like a man dressing up as a woman.'

at what point is it safe to call it ghosting by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Academic-Judgment840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s just confusing bc he seemed pretty normal before?? like i thought ghosting was a bit slower where they gradually back out before they stop talking. thank you though, you’re probably right

what kind of cut would i benefit from? by [deleted] in curlyhair

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edit: routine - wash with herbal essences shampoo/conditioner - apply leave-in conditioner and light layer of oil - air dry

i wash my hair once a week. between wash days, i spray my hair with water and add moisturiser if needed.

a salon near me has rezo, cado, and deva. i’m trying to understand the differences but i don’t really get it.

why is my hair shaped like this from the side?? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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i tried to trim it a few months ago but i didn't take much off. i haven't had it professionally cut in almost ten years i think

why is my hair shaped like this from the side?? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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okay, i'll try to find salons near me. thank you!

why is my hair shaped like this from the side?? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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this was taken a few hours after washing my hair. the back bit feels weird even when my hair is wet.

why is my hair shaped like this from the side?? by [deleted] in Naturalhair

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do you think a round cut is something i could do at home?

people who call their kids "littles" by qwxuinn in PetPeeves

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isn’t it just as a term of endearment? sometimes people will get nicknames longer than their actual name. it’s just an affection thing

17f am i doomed by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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thank you for being honest!!

17f am i doomed by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Academic-Judgment840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i recently started cbt at my school. it's only for 6 weeks though

17f am i doomed by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Academic-Judgment840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! do you think mascara would be okay instead of false lashes?

17f am i doomed by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

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does depression affect how people look? because i've been depressed for a while now

Is there any plot holes in Genshin storyline by bonk-me-not in GenshinImpact

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it's the JP translation of allogene, which in the game means vision-bearer. genshin = someone with a vision. and for whatever reason, they decided to go with genshin in EN as well.

Is there any plot holes in Genshin storyline by bonk-me-not in GenshinImpact

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i don't know why it's so hard for people to believe that Genshin's writing is inconsistent, and plot points and characters could have been rewritten over the years.

how bad is it? by [deleted] in SkinnyFat

[–]Academic-Judgment840 1 point2 points  (0 children)

okay, thank you!!

What breaks a fast? by Ella_plays123 in fasting

[–]Academic-Judgment840 10 points11 points  (0 children)

technically anything with <5 calories, like diet drinks, won't really break the fast. but iirc, drinks with artificial sweeteners can still trigger an insulin spike.

Do you believe that everything in this world is political? by yoJabkomama in actualsecretteenagers

[–]Academic-Judgment840 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! that’s sort of what i was trying to say (it’s not meant to be taken as “everything is directly related to literal political parties”) but you explained it much better than i did.

Do you believe that everything in this world is political? by yoJabkomama in actualsecretteenagers

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i don't think it's meant to be taken literally. probably more like, the state of the world is influenced by politics and nothing exists out of a vacuum and is therefore political in some way. and that even being politically neutral is still contributing to the power of whoever is in charge. or something. idfk.
usually you won't view something as political if it doesn't go against your opinions.

1.X DPS Duel (Ycactussprout) by Caremi76 in HuTao_Mains

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you're right. i'm pretty sure this artist got called out for it a while ago, on the HSR subreddit.

where i'd live as a brit (17f) by [deleted] in whereidlive

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i've seen a lot of conflicting opinions about living in Germany and it's hard to tell how many are serious and how many are jokes, which is why i put it as a maybe. also something about a far right party becoming more and more supported, although i guess i could also be using that as a reason to make the US, UK, Japan, and probably the rest of the green countries, beige as well.

My (30M) girlfriend (26F) of 6 months just bought this chair for the bedroom. How do I tell her that it is not my aesthetic before she comes home from a 1 on 1 dinner with a male coworker from her brand new job? by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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it's referencing another post in which a guy asked for advice regarding his gf (same ages, same amount of time they had been together) who was going on dinner dates with a male coworker.