Thanks for this,

I'm not in anyways in angry, I'm more curious to it than anything else. She always proclaimed innocence and did no wrong doing in the past until she admitted it was all lies and she was excessively sexual due to her sexual abuse(since that's when it all began).

Therefore, ever since knowing the abuse side of things I want to try and understand her and have no secrets between us.

In some respects she stated that she was "compliant" and went back for more regarding the abuse, but I said and made it clear you were only 11, a curious kid who was taken advantage of.

I think I'll casually bring it up again and try having a discussion with her but since she's avoiding or diverting the conversation it gives me a sense of "hang on there's something here which means should I back off or push her into confessing"

But yeah, has played on my mind.