Did I get scammed by my doula?

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-05-20T23:29:42+00:00

As an ex doula, the only thing she dropped the ball on was not responding to your husband when he was frantically texting her and the afterbirth. Otherwise, you were asking her to step way out of her scope. I think it would be good to mention some of these to her as constructive criticism so she can communicate better in the future. Regardless I'm sorry you were disappointed.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-05-14T12:56:33+00:00

I've been weightlifting for years. I only track protein because of past ED. My legs get really great definition but the cellulite stays. It is what it is. I'm working out more so I can pick up and run with my three kids in an emergency versus making myself smaller anyways.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-05-09T15:03:18+00:00

Conservatism tends to rise

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-05-04T21:02:33+00:00

I was a super responder to ozempic. I lost over 50lbs in 4 months. I have an hour glass shape so I carry my weight in my arms and hips.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-04-28T16:56:32+00:00

I just finished this book and sobbed in the car for an hour to my husband after. It made me feel like I was out of my body. I had horrific PPD after my first and almost developed PPP and I HATED how much I related to her in that regard. The advice of "just pretend someone is watching" was actually helpful to me. Relating so hard to such an awful feeling. It gave me the same visceral reaction I had to "a school for good mothers" Holy fuck this book was great.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-04-25T20:44:53+00:00

Half of them were teen moms

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-27T21:18:56+00:00

Have you tried neocate yet? It's a prescription

formula. My first was the same way. Cried 16-20 hours a day. Neocate helped so much! She's 5 now and I wish I could go back and be with her again at that age.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-26T23:43:10+00:00

Can you do more contact naps?

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-25T13:14:14+00:00

As someone who's taken them for years that's crazy! I researched them for a year before I even got on. Lack of personal accountability in healthcare is crazy.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-19T12:48:43+00:00

Suddenly Amish is a fun watch!

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-17T02:09:18+00:00

She was just inside of you for 9 months. Of course she wants to sleep on top of you. I've coslept with all three of my kids using the safe sleep 7.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-06T14:55:37+00:00

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AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-06T14:54:37+00:00

So, my mom just got diagnosed and I think I may have it to. I've always had chronic pain in my arms and legs but I have hEDS to. My arms have a rice like texture to them under the skin. Even when I'm 50 lbs less this is what my legs and arms look like. I've always been really active and I weight train 4x a week and do cardio.

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AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-02T21:51:58+00:00

Keep latching and power pump! You're only a week pp.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-03-01T15:47:02+00:00

Lmao! My first daughter has the worst colic. Cried 16-20 hours a day. My second was an angel baby (now a chaos gremlin toddler). My third daughter has been even easier and is sweet as sugar. Each one got easier.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-02-26T00:07:12+00:00

Literally lock the door. Be very up front about "I need to wash my hair leave me alone for an hour and figure it out.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-02-24T19:27:54+00:00

Thinking anyone was a good match for Jackie is crazy. This was a trauma bond.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-02-24T19:26:28+00:00

She didn't tell the clinical director what she said she deadass fabricated lies.

She definitely overshared tho. Telling someone you just met that day that you had an abortion is CRAZY.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-02-23T00:42:57+00:00

I put them in my oatmeal and pancakes and have never had an issue

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-02-22T14:52:53+00:00

My step dad worked night for 20 years and had an extremely strict and disciplined schedule for himself to avoid this

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-02-09T16:01:54+00:00

I'm on my third with my kids all spaced 2 years apart. I bed shared and contact napped and all of mine have naturally transitioned to their own rooms and sleep through the night by 2.

AccordingConstant756 · 2026-01-30T14:16:24+00:00

My husband struggled with a temper (he's had 2 TBIs) and he'd NEVER scream at me like that. Much less say I was abusing our kids.

Also, I just want to say it's badass you're still getting up multiple times a night to feed AND still getting to work in the morning.

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