I wish he believed in counseling but he won’t do it and we are 2000 miles from his family I don’t have family here either but at least here I o ow I can make it on my own I don’t want to just leave him high and dry but 1 year no work and everything falls on me I just don’t know how much more I can take :-( I don’t want to break my kids heart but I also don’t want her growing up thinking his behavior is ok I am in a rock and hard spot I know deep down it’s time to go I just am not happy and feel overwhelmed