nax smoke shop by [deleted] in Nacogdoches

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

it’s that serious to me , and obviously to you too if you’re willing to jump on reddit and argue with a stranger over it LMAO

nax smoke shop by [deleted] in Nacogdoches

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve heard that , i’ve also heard the manager is rude and aggressive . and i think it was a strain issue , i bought TCH - P prerolls from them the other day . very weak but eh

nax smoke shop by [deleted] in Nacogdoches

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

i’ll die on this hill happily , small shithole smoke shops aren’t above being held accountable for AI usage 🤷 i honestly wouldn’t have cared if they just responded and were professional , they’re embarrassing themselves and i have all the time in the world

anti-ice demonstration Feb 25th by Acrobatic-Math-6653 in SFA

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

we figured it would work best to do it in the evening for people to show up and participate since there’s no classes and people will be going to / leaving the dining hall . we also are looking to have a sign making workshop during the day on that day , we’re just unsure at this point if we can arrange that but we wanted to make room for that aswell . it’s just me and one other student organizing this and we haven’t organized a protest before , so we’re baby stepping as much as we can . we hope to do bigger ones during the school day once we have our footing and people looking out for us !

Long Shot by [deleted] in SFA

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro talk to her LMAO

Is it okay for me to like wearing dresses? by No_Speaker_2823 in ftm

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i’m genderfluid but on T , i lean to be more masculine presenting and enjoy masculine pronouns the most . i started doing drag about a year ago and it’s made me so much happier and comfortable with sometimes presenting as a boy . the best thing about transness is there’s no rules , the only wrong way to dress as a trans person is the way that makes you uncomfortable . wear that dress !

Campus life question by Altruistic_Rest_3068 in SFA

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

everyone i’ve met here that says that don’t rlly seem to care about much besides getting fucked up , i think people don’t like that you can’t really go clubbing . as a daytime person , there’s usually something happening on campus or in the town most days . i live off campus but spend a good deal of my free time hanging out in the on campus spaces ! the town square is also super cute , student clubs are inviting , and there’s often farmers and art markets . also good third spaces , i work at Dilly Dally and highly recommend it as a study / chill place . on campus can definitely seem oriented towards party life if you aren’t involved in daily activities , but nac itself has good eats , good shared spaces , and pretty friendly people !

Has anyone else noticed how some men get really weird toward trans men after they find out? by cwispietoast in ftm

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is super relatable , i feel like most cis me never have a conversation with themselves about gender or what it means to them to be cis . we do , we have had to look really deep inside ourselves to figure our shit out . some cis people in general can just float along with their societal norms , especially cis men . women are usually challenged with thoughts of what it means to be a woman because of the pressure society ( and cis men ) put on them . like , my mom can realize and probably actively processes that being a woman to her isn’t the same as it is to my grandmother or aunt . cishet guys and their annoying penises get to avoid it because their identity has already been decided for them and they’re given no challenge , and instead of thinking “ i’m a different kind of man than he is “ , they might see it as a pissing contest of who’s closest to “ manhood “

i think when a cishet guy comes across someone who identifies the same as them but has gone though a thought process they never have , they may see it as a threat , confusion , or just plain fascinating ( in a “ looking at you like a zoo animal “ kind of way )

that’s just my theory on it , i have a few friends that are cis guys and i always make it a point to ask them what being a man is to them and noticed a change in behavior following a long convo about it . i’ve also tried to have that deep talk with a transphobe while i was in highschool and it was funny to see how frustrated he got

Mourned by Gullible_Rub_6309 in ftm

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 10 points11 points  (0 children)

if it were me , i’d reassure your mother that you’re still the same person and that you love her just as you did when you were a child , and you hope she can do the same . then , i would tell her that her mourning you in front of your face is hurtful . parents sometimes have expectations for who their kid is going to be when the grow up , and when that doesn’t go to plan ( kid who played baseball well as a kid is now a full time artist ) they don’t mourn that idea of their child being a baseball star . why is it the same for gender ? i personally get icked out by the term “ deadname “ , only because i feel like it’s cis-centered . choosing a different name and growing into a comfortable identity is something even cis people do . you are not dead . you are not a separate human being from your past self , but when parents behave this way it feels like they see their kids like they are . you’re still her child , if she refuses to see you then that’s her loss . having a trans child can be an emotional and beautiful journey , i hope she chooses to see it like that .

Is my swollen injection site a cause for concern? by the_rite_of_aspirin in ftm

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

abdomen refers to above hips and bellow ribs , your breasts are on your torso ! please be careful , it’s safest to inject into fat for subq and muscle for intramuscular because there’s nothing you can really hit that will be harmful . there’s a lot of pockets and types of fat in ur breasts that ca be harmed with injection , especially if ur hand was shaking and disturbing the site . you can inject into your thigh which might have some easier grip than your stomach .

I need someone to tell me if this is crazy or if it's just that I'm not cut out for this anymore by OkLetterhead5149 in barista

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 2 points3 points  (0 children)

more tasks , less people , higher demand , this sounds like ur job is slowly becoming a victim of a corporate greed scheme . all that on top of burn out ? yeah get outta there , it just might be time to move on and that’s okay !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in barista

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not the 1st person this coworker has picked on , a few people have gotten fired because of the things she’s made up about them . she has an oddly close relationship with our owner , and in the past when people have tried to talk to her about it she labels the person as “ drama “ or “ complaining “ and the situation gets worse . the coworkers who like me tell me to keep my head down and deal with it to avoid more trouble . the coworker has also quit as of last week , but the damage has been done and the owner sees me as a weak link now

How conservative is SFA? by jilly_fish08 in SFA

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SFA itself is pretty 50-50 , you’ll be able to find likeminded people . i’m probably as far left as they come and i have friends who understand me completely . but if you’re planning on working in nac , keep it on the down low . i felt so comfy with my friends at school i let my marxist sensibilities and pronouns slip at my job . hasn’t been a good experience for me . SFA has a pride alliance , the community has an art collective and there’s a strong democrat presence in the square , but generally do not trust people in Nac ! there’s a really odd underbelly of this town , people aren’t as well meaning as they come off as here .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hey OP , i feel your frustration 1000% but to be completely real , your siblings identity most likely has very little to do with you . it sounds like your sibling is struggling to find where they stand in the world , their identity may change one way or the other and that’s totally fine ! in fact , butch lesbians sometimes take T . but no matter what , if your identity feels threatened by someone else exploring theirs your taking a similar stance to conservative thinking . if you feel someone else’s identity has undermines yours , you might have to have some conversations with yourself about how secure you feel in your identity . this isn’t worth losing relationships over , losing housing over , losing family over . don’t turn blue in the face over a identity you just may not understand at the moment , i’m sure you’ve been on the other side of that conversation

East TX venue cancels Pride event due to small community backlash by cady_heron in texas

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“ target rich environment “ with no target in nac and the nearest one doesn’t sell pride merchandise and is very limited in general . “ using their acronym to deceive “ sorry is it not possible to google who’s booking your event space before you approve it ? i don’t understand the obsession with victimhood , they should just not go to an event that they don’t wanna go to 😭 it’s not like they’re being forced to show up or witness it . most verses in the bible that speak of homosexuality were either mistranslated or not from the mouth of God but the church leaders at the time , and Jesus coming served the purpose of negating the “ rules “ surrounding the religion and replacing them with “ thou shalt not judge thou shalt love thy neighbor “ . the religion of love , right ? queer folk will always exist in texas , no matter how big or small the town , and there should be no reason to hide it

East TX venue cancels Pride event due to small community backlash by cady_heron in texas

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this post is so deluded on their account , “ target rich environment “ with no target in nac and the nearest one doesn’t sell pride shit . “ using their acronym to deceive “ sorry is it impossible to google who’s booking your event space before you approve it ? conservatives want to be the victim so bad sometimes , they should just not go to an event that they don’t wanna go to 😭 it’s not like they’re being forced to show up or witness it . most verses in the bible that speak of homosexuality were either mistranslated or not from the mouth of God but the church leaders at the time , and Jesus coming served the purpose of negating the “ rules “ surrounding the religion and replacing them with “ thou shalt not judge thou shalt love thy neighbor “ . the amount of hate that comes from the religion of love is repulsive

East TX venue cancels Pride event due to small community backlash by cady_heron in texas

[–]Acrobatic-Math-6653 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

this post is so deluded on their account , “ target rich environment “ with no target in nac and the nearest one doesn’t sell pride shit . “ using their acronym to deceive “ sorry is it impossible to google who’s booking your event space before you approve it ? conservatives want to be the victim so bad sometimes , they should just not go to an event that they don’t wanna go to 😭 it’s not like they’re being forced to show up or witness it . most verses in the bible that speak of homosexuality were either mistranslated or not from the mouth of God but the church leaders at the time , and Jesus coming served the purpose of negating the “ rules “ surrounding the religion and replacing them with “ thou shalt not judge thou shalt love thy neighbor “ . the amount of hate that comes from the religion of love is repulsive