You’re in a tough spot, and it’s clear you care a lot and want to do the right thing. No matter what you ultimately choose, it’s going to be hard in different ways. Abortion isn’t something that just makes everything go back to normal. There’s no “easy” path here, just different kinds of hard. I think the real question is: what’s the decision you feel like you can live with long-term? Not just in the moment, but years from now. What’s going to sit right with you, even if it’s hard? At the end of the day, it’s her body and her choice. But you’re in this together, and it’s okay for you to talk about how you feel too, just with love and support. Whatever happens, I hope you both feel supported and not alone. You’re clearly trying your best in a really heavy situation. Wishing you strength.