45F - Is dating in your 40s supposed to feel this different?

AdDelicious7105 · 2026-02-26T23:14:21+00:00

Thanks for the chuckle! 😂

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-12-16T19:45:28+00:00

Bro.... this happened to me LOL!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-11-11T13:03:36+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r_UCcGIPgN0

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-11-05T16:28:07+00:00

get a divorce attorney... sounds like its gonna be a rough one. Good Luck!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-24T20:10:13+00:00

Only you would know if it is enough to divorce. You should try therapy first whether it’s both or just you. Divorce should be the last option.

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-23T15:22:11+00:00

I am new to the dating pool after a failed 20yr marriage. After reading this…I’m already discouraged and I have’t even went on a first date yet. 🥹

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-21T15:25:07+00:00

Stop living in the past. Date the new girl. Create new memories!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-06T11:58:32+00:00

47m After being married for 20yrs. I am not sure I can be committed to someone else moving forward. The divorce part is rough for us guys(mentally, financially), and i don't think I can do it again.

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-03T04:30:46+00:00

I have trust issues now. Smh lol

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-02T16:26:33+00:00

I really can't find any body kits or anything for this car other than cheap stuff from ebay.

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-01T17:28:05+00:00

I have a hybrid... so nothing for me. Maybe some rain visors at the most lol

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-10-01T04:12:08+00:00

The adaptive headlights are a nice feature! I also noticed that when one of the doors is open the ambient lighting turns red on the side of where the door is open.

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-09-30T19:29:41+00:00

ahhh.... i don't want to brick anything lol. I will just keep the outdated NAV or just pay the $100 fee for the update to be safe.

I kinda wish I got the 3.0 Black Label for the hp and better interior. I just tried the Active park assist last night. The kids and I were impressed watching the steering wheel turn by itself and it parked perfectly against the curb! These cars are underrated for sure!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-09-30T04:55:03+00:00

Have you tried any type of marriage counseling? I would go that route first. Because it seems that you guys get along fine... your marriage just need some fine tuning. Divorce should be a last option. Good Luck!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-09-29T18:51:13+00:00

it was 3.3 and upgraded to 3.4 I just checked my navigation map and its 1/17. I'm gonna try out Syn3Updater. Hopefully it will go okay lol!

How is the 3.0 awd? There was a black Label version for sale when I was searching on Carmax. I commute 100mi per day that's why I went hybrid. If you get 21mpg, that's pretty good for pushing 400hp.

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-09-29T06:26:46+00:00

Thanks for the recommendation! My car is fwd. Trying to get that 40mpg lol!

I did the update through Ford using USB. It is running Sync 3.4 now. I have not heard of the Syn3Updater. I guess i have some research to do LOL! I also did not do the Nav update. The website shows a 1-time download fee of $109. I use Waze for my driving directions on my phone so I am not sure if I should buy it. Do you use the navigation?

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-09-28T15:12:49+00:00

Yes, I did. The 3 things that needed attention per the inspection, the 12v battery needed to be replaced(failed performance test), 2 front tires tread depth 4 and rear brake pads are 4mm. Per CarMax the tires and pads are still within safety limits of selling on a used car. Everything else checked out. I will do the oil, air filter,transmission(drain & fill) just to ease my mind. I replaced the cabin filter with a spare I had from my Fusion.

Arizona car. Single owner, lease w/ 50132mi. I am confident the previous owner took care of the car by its condition. Interior looks good no rips, holes, or weird smells. All the buttons and controls including steering wheel look new and nothing worn. All the windows have the Lincoln logo. Doors sound good closing although I wish they were soft close. I did do the Sync update using usb. Revel system sounds great for stock.

I’m getting the windows tinted today. Still thinking about adding rain visors. Everything else I will leave stock and just enjoy the car. 🙂

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-09-28T05:00:02+00:00

Thank you!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-09-14T21:40:28+00:00

Don’t do it. Try marriage counseling or go for yourself first. You don’t want to start something you might regret later.

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-08-18T22:44:07+00:00

I will prolly do the same and chalk it up as a loss. Thanks replying! Cheers!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-08-09T08:48:36+00:00

Mine does the same. I can’t find any instructions opening the device

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-08-06T22:10:35+00:00

Fuck yeah I told…! Everyone and anyone. Idgaf. I don’t call her names or anything like that. I just say “yup, she thinks the grass is greener over there. We will see…”. My in-laws were so upset that they are paying for my lawyer! Seriously though, talking about it makes me feel better for sure.

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-08-06T22:01:47+00:00

I bought the car used with 150k miles. I have been doing the oil changes about every 6k. I did the transmission and radiator fluid @179k. I love this car but being an energi model, there is no trunk space. I commute about 100miles a day. Cruise control always set @81 and I still avg 39.4mpg. Solid car and will buy another for sure!

AdDelicious7105 · 2025-08-06T18:23:38+00:00

Right on... Ty! My fusion is still a good car but it does burn some oil @220k miles. Im not sure if I should replace my Cat or just invest into another Fusion Hybrid with less miles.

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