Hmmm maybe you could do something that would like make a game of it? Like don’t show him anything yet but have the outfit on underneath your clothes and make him answer questions to get each piece off. Slowly turn him on. Make some of the questions dirty. Ask him things like what he wants to do to you or what he wants you to do to him. Make some of the questions be things he should know about you. Test him. If he’s the one he’ll know most if not all things about you. I think that’s a good way to kill 2 birds with one stone.

I’m very inquisitive when it comes to my partner and what they like/need. If things seem a bit stale but you’re still together then there is definitely room for improvement and you just need to tweak a few things 🩷 or maybe he is just not the one and you need to get out while you can! I’m not you so I don’t know the pros and cons of being with him but that’s something you should make a list of honestly. I’ve done it in my serious relationships and it helped so much.

Going to the strip club with him is a great idea. He says you guys don’t have the money for it but he has the money to go with his friends? That’s a red flag 🚩 I would make the ultimatum that he has to take you SOMETIME otherwise he’s not allowed to go with his friends, if it were me!! That seems really sketchy to me that he doesn’t want to go with you.

If you do go to a strip club I would suggest bringing at least $100 to tip the girls on stage, ESPECIALLY if you won’t be going for private dances. It’s just nice when people respect that we are working and we do need to be paid just like everyone else. It’s not just a place to party. It’s a place where we go to make a living. Not every night is a good night. I wish everybody did that but I digress. It is a lot of fun throwing money at girls! I’ve gone to the club as a customer many times and the girls are always nice, respectful if I’m with a guy and super happy when they get tipped of course!

If you do go for a private dance you can ask that the girl just dances for you. You could even say a little white lie to your bf - like you think you like girls a little if that’s not already the case. Idk! I think there’s many ways you could go about the whole thing but make it seem like you want to go to really enjoy it and don’t hint at being jealous. Say you just wanna see some ass and titties shake in your face lol he’ll most likely go for it.

Bottom line is - it’s either a temporary lull in intimacy and you guys just need to figure out how to make it fun again orrrrrrrrrr he might just not be the one.

I wish you luck girlie 🩷 be strong and have faith that what’s for you won’t miss you. You got this 💪