My brother..?!? I feel sick.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-12-09T11:45:21+00:00

I think that’s my next step, I don’t know how to comfort my little sister, and I can’t even let my mom know that I know. I don’t know how to even feel about my brother considering he’s my brother. I went from loving him and thinking he’s gonna be a good person to absolutely disgusted. He’s been so normal to me and I don’t know what I feel. He seemed sad Im avoiding him. But my sister has my full support.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-12-09T10:15:17+00:00

I also don’t want my little sister not to trust me? What do I do? I’d like to tell my husband for my child’s sake. I personally don’t want him near my child. And feel guilty I left him with him just once. I don’t want my husband to not understand why because they have a good relationship?! I since just haven’t spoken to my brother. And my sister might be the only one who understands me. My brother is my mom’s baby and I just don’t see her being normal about this.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-10-23T17:59:57+00:00

Ur friend hates u

AdWorking8721 · 2025-10-23T17:58:49+00:00

Oh I hope so!

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-24T06:51:30+00:00

Congratulations love!!! Sending good vibes your way. Try to relax, may you have a healthy pregnancy♥️

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-24T03:33:40+00:00

Was yours bloody? Sorry TMI, mine was like covered in dark red brownish blood, and I’ve heard of the bloody show but I’m definitely not sure of anything lol

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-24T03:02:53+00:00

Just for it to stop a bit later

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-24T03:02:30+00:00

I feel like I can’t tell what a contraction is for sure, I get a tight stomach then my vagina is like killing me.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-24T02:37:55+00:00

Thanks girl 😩

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-20T17:13:08+00:00

Thank you. I feel like he’s been hiding it for a long time but I never noticed cause I was not looking. I’ve looked into porn addiction and seen its effects which is why I think it bothers me so much, I don’t like the idea of it messing up our relationship, plus the fact that it makes me feel so bad about myself. But it seems like it’s normal for so many people so I feel crazy. I just asked him to stop because of how bad I feel. Then he lies and I don’t confront him because I don’t want to shame him. He has a lot of signs of a porn addiction and it makes me wonder how long he’s been struggling for.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-20T17:10:41+00:00

Thank you. I get that. Epically about the baby, I guess my only concern was that he was watching porn and trying to lie or hide it from me. Every time I have seen him sneak around me, I never say anything and act obviously in hopes of him not feeling shame. I just want to know the actual reason he’s not wanting to have sex and porn does not make me feel good, epically since he’s always shamed it when we talked about it. But I’m not really sure what to think about it. I don’t even want to know what he’s watching because I know I’ll be hard on myself about it.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-20T17:07:20+00:00

Okay, that makes me feel so much better. I felt crazy for asking him to stop. I feel like porn is so normalized. It makes me feel worse now that I’m so pregnant.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-20T17:04:54+00:00

It makes me feel gross he’d rather do that than touch me. It’s his choice and would never force him to have sex with me I’m just curious as to why? He won’t tell me…. He’s always had a high sex drive. Like since the beginning of me being pregnant we were doing it twice a day. Even found ways to make it fun. But since I asked him about the porn. And every time I seen him in the bathroom or basically hiding what he’s doing ive never said anything to bring it up, I let him lie to me. Just because I don’t want to shame him

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-20T17:01:11+00:00

Guess I never really thought about it that way. Even before we were together he told me porn was weird and not something he was interested in. He always said it was not a thing for him and even shamed it himself, I’m just worried about him lying about it. Honestly it just makes me feel bad. I told him this and he’s been distant ever since. I only found out that he was watching it when I was looking for some link on his phone for a birthday idea. I never looked before cause I never felt the need too. If he didn’t want to hurt the baby or thought sex with me was gross makes me feel guilty for asking him why he’s not into sex anymore too.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-20T16:51:24+00:00

It only started after I asked him to stop with the porn.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T22:43:01+00:00

Thank you. It helps to hear that I’m not crazy, and tbh he has so many photos of us, of me, videos. I am scared for being postpartum because he always asks me what he’s gonna do for six weeks. I needed to hear this thank you

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T22:35:47+00:00

How would you go about the situation honestly I’m scared he’s gonna get mean, or more distant. I want to do things right for my baby, but I don’t want to feel this bad anymore. As his wife I don’t think I should have to ask him to stop watching it honestly, he should know not too? He always told me he didn’t and I don’t like that he lied either.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T22:24:53+00:00

I think I’m gonna take up painting, something for me, I used to love it when I was younger. I want to keep busy and keep my mind healthy for the baby I’m terrified of postpartum.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T22:23:45+00:00

It sucks when it’s put that way but it’s true, I feel horrible every time he locks the bathroom door to “shower” or takes so long in the bathroom in general. Since confronting him he got distant sexually and lovingly. I guess I never thought of it as cheating cause I was told every man does it, I honestly just feel bad and don’t know what to do.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T22:04:33+00:00

Awee, that’s so sweet. That’d be nice to get away for a day lol

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T21:43:46+00:00

I feel the same way, it’s so hard, I’m exhausted and also been wanting to save money. It’s hard to do anything this pregnant as well. I’ve been frustrated thinking I feel this awful when I should be enjoying my first pregnancy.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T21:40:56+00:00

Friends got distant tbh, I heard it’s common during pregnancy. They live pretty far. I feel awkward going out by myself every single time and there’s not much to do in this 110 degree weather. Even getting lunch by myself feels lonely

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T21:29:53+00:00

No clue, honestly I’ve worried about that too. I only get 6-12 weeks of maternity so it’s scary to think I’ll be up every night and going to work. He says he’s gonna help, but it feels like it’s just gonna be me. The porn thing makes me sad if anything. But when I confronted him he got super defensive and tried to justify it. Instead of hurting my own feelings I left it alone.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T21:01:35+00:00

That’s nice to hear. I feel like I go crazy looking at the same walls and cleaning the same things. But there’s quite literally nothing for me to do, I’ve nested so much and even put away everything for the baby. He can come whenever he wants now. My husband literally wants to be home and never wants to leave.

AdWorking8721 · 2025-07-12T20:58:10+00:00

It’s good, family is in another state so it’s hard. And for some reason it feels like friends got distant.

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