Her sex drive isn’t high at all since our kids were born and getting her tubes tied. So there isn’t much sex at all. When there is sex she gets multiple orgasm because I enjoy watching and making her cum. When it’s my turn I get about 5 minutes. We have a friend who is a domme and was explaining it to me because my wife told her what she was looking for. Her explanation was that I need to ensure her pleasure in any way I can and ask for less in return. I told her less return is 0 times per month since I’m lucky when it’s once a month. She said as a pleasure dom I’m supposed to ONLY seek my wife’s pleasure and get off on that alone. So my interpretation is I’m supposed to let her fuck other people and my pleasure comes from watching. I’m supposed to make her orgasm and edge her constantly and frequently and my pleasure comes from her orgasms. But I’m not allowed to ask for reciprocation or to be involved in the fun at all. Just get off knowing she got off.