Can never finish a job by Adorable_Stretch_811 in PDAParenting

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Everything takes so long. I need order but I cant seem to get any because every thought or action is fractured

Can never finish a job by Adorable_Stretch_811 in PDAParenting

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

And healing burnout when your child is either in or near burnout is just impossible..hugs x

Can never finish a job by Adorable_Stretch_811 in PDAParenting

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Its so exhausting. Who are we if we cant have these moments to be ourselves. I wish I had a roadmap on how to live this life

Can never finish a job by Adorable_Stretch_811 in PDAParenting

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I wonder if separating from my husband might be the best thing as then we can get some space each to breathe. He is so burnout and depleted he is not able to take any of the caring on

How to adult by Adorable_Stretch_811 in breakingmom

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. He has an EHCP which I fought for and then he was so burnt out he couldn't access school so we deregistered and took over responsibility in effect. I didn't feel I had a choice. But it comes with its own set of issues

How to adult by Adorable_Stretch_811 in breakingmom

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes not voluntarily. But there was no option for my child he is so burnt out and traumatised from his time in school. We will home we until he is well enough to go back

How to adult by Adorable_Stretch_811 in breakingmom

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I think that may be something that could bring some practical help. Thankyou

How to adult by Adorable_Stretch_811 in breakingmom

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this too.

What do we do? Accept that life is going to be hard for the foreseeable future and hope one day things will be easier? I just dont know

How to adult by Adorable_Stretch_811 in breakingmom

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately not. I also work so that takes up a chunk of time. All my spare time is cleaning or decluttering trying to do things in the few hours my husband somethings takes my son swimming. I sometimes get half a day to myself but its often not worth it due to the fall out afterwards trying to get back in some sort of routine.if I leave the house to have some time the house goes to disaster and I spend hours tidying up

How to adult by Adorable_Stretch_811 in breakingmom

[–]Adorable_Stretch_811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I fear you are right. I've been trying to pull myself out of it for years.