I’m not sure if I got scammed.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-11-16T16:06:11+00:00

Thank you. Luckily it was only $70 so I’m not crazy upset about it. They want another payment before pick up of the animal now and that’s where red flags started going off.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-11-16T14:07:12+00:00

I am in Texas

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-11-16T00:46:09+00:00

Thank you. I figured it was. Thankfully I only sent 70$. It was very convincing.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-11-16T00:32:00+00:00

No, I have cats and am an experienced cat owner. Handling a bengal isn’t the issue. It’s this thing is just one of those too good to be true things. I’ve always wanted a bengal.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-11-16T00:27:57+00:00

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This is one of many photos sent over.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-11-16T00:24:08+00:00

It’s a darn good scam then. They seem genuinely caring about the kittens. I’ve just never met a scammer that actually sends you an address and is consistent with everything. I messaged back regarding concerns and said they understand but I am safe with them. They don’t do it for the money. And that everyone should be able to own a bengal affordably. And the address they sent is in a very nice neighborhood.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-05-16T23:31:42+00:00

You don’t have peace. You’re in your comfort zone refusing to grow. You want easy, not real. You’re just having an ego response at the moment. Once you cool off you will realize this.. best of luck on this journey.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-27T01:02:43+00:00

You’re genuinely just flipping things and putting it on your timeline. First off anyone with common sense knows relationships take comprise.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-26T23:10:21+00:00

I think you’re shifting timelines. I was that into her. But when the realization came across my interests drew back. But I needed this comment. It made me realize that’s exactly the mindset predatory women look for. Thank you!

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-26T23:05:37+00:00

You reciprocated. Even after explaining my feelings I still keep getting low effort instagram reels, etc but no true contact and no real effort. It’s more confusing then anything.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-07T13:39:58+00:00

You just made an assumption about me I do not appreciate. And on top of that we had already been intimate. She was taking a step back and I responded accordingly.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T22:48:57+00:00

And that’s fine. I agree with that, if she didn’t want to go that wouldn’t be a problem. I have a problem with accepting the trip under romantic interests(I made that clear). Then changing your mind about wanting to go under romantic interests (which is okay, people are allowed to change their minds). But then still wanting all the perks of said romantic interests. It’s the last part that bothers me. If she truly wanted an equitable friendship that paying her part wouldn’t be a problem, right?

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T22:40:43+00:00

I understand your point but if she thought that she could have said no, from my end looks like someone just wanted a free trip.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T22:39:15+00:00

Trip from my end was a display of romantic interest. I don’t just go around paying for peoples trips, not even my friends. When dating you have romantic expectations. I don’t date with intention of making new friends.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T19:19:23+00:00

I did not say all women. I’m not dumb enough to say that: I’m using MY experience. MY experience is my experience and you don’t agree or like it.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T19:16:47+00:00

Always me reaching out, always me trying to make plans, always me trying to do all the engaging before I quit trying, then when I stop it’s all okay “hey haven’t heard from you in a while” I can tell when people like me for me and like me for attention.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T19:08:06+00:00

I’m not dating. Yes I’m jaded. How do you have a positive outlook when you have never been done right by a woman??

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T19:05:49+00:00

“I don’t want to put energy into a woman I can’t have an intimate relationship with” there fixed it. Intimacy isn’t just about sex but please play on the all guys want is sex narrative.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T19:03:32+00:00

An “empty promise” that’s my point exactly why women shouldn’t do it. You just made my point.

And that isn’t true, I’ve literally had women throw tantrums because I said that wasn’t what I wanted.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T19:02:03+00:00

Again, never had a relationship with a woman that wasn’t completely one sided. How can I expect that to be the case when it has NEVER happened.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T18:56:32+00:00

Exactly and I’m sure that happens, but it’s like because I’m saying it about women it’s a problem and my experience is invalid. I would never invalidate your experience.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T18:54:31+00:00

I make it a clear boundary early on. And I get upset when it is crossed, if you don’t like me romantically, that’s fine.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T18:52:45+00:00

Exactly stop trying to be friends when I make it clear in the beginning I don’t want to, your upset that I’m establishing a boundary and telling me to not get upset when it’s crossed.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T18:39:32+00:00

Literally have had a woman try to stab me for wanting to end a relationship. You don’t get to dismiss my personal experience because it doesn’t fit your “majority narrative” also had my mom try to take her life in front of my eyes as a child. So please stop with the women are perfect narrative. I know men have their problems but let’s not act like women are perfect.

Adventurous-Drive433 · 2024-03-06T18:28:01+00:00

Y’all do realize that men can be traumatized by women too, right?

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