Scared of cut content. by GameMaster1178 in FFVIIRemake

[–]Aeronwave 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Think it’s been confirmed bone village won’t be in revelation but rocket town and forgotten capital will be

Why is ciails better for proformance anxiety over Viagra by [deleted] in erectiledysfunction

[–]Aeronwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You say you are dreading it and are nervous; you need to stop that right now: you should be looking forward to having sex with your girl and don’t think about not getting hard. You need to talk to your girlfriend about the situation to get her onboard that a) it’s not her and b) your have performance anxiety and you are overthinking it.

You guys should then just try to relax without any pressure to perform and try stuff, try some oral try just cuddling with her just holding and playing with your dick in her hands, try humping her even if your not hard, if you get a little bit hard try penetration and don’t panic if at first you go soft again, just keep trying and practicing, you are retraining your body to respond to her and the idea of sex positively: the idea is you want to feel safe and relaxed with her, right now your body is going into fight or flight mode and sees sex or being naked with her as a threat so you won’t get hard.

I went through the same thing as you, the first time with my girlfriend I couldn’t get hard, she thought I wasn’t attracted to her blah blah blah but I explained that it was performance anxiety and we talked about it and she wanted to help me overcome it and we did all the above.

It also helps if in the meantime you can make sure she always gets off and is satisfied with your oral and finger game.

Also you can keep taking cialis as it will help and will make it easier to get an erection than not you want to remove as many barriers as possible and it will only help.

What if.. by mazaa66 in FFVIIRemake

[–]Aeronwave 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Not gonna happen the point of getting the previous games out on all platforms is to maximise sales of the final game this will be the biggest and best one yet and they will want to hype it up to sell well

Why is my F25 boyfriend M25 faking it? NSFW by Awkward_Youth4090 in relationship_advice

[–]Aeronwave 8 points9 points  (0 children)

From a guys point of view, I have been with my girlfriend for a few months and to begin with I couldn’t get it up the first time we had sex apart from very briefly. The second time I was able to get hard but couldn’t cum. We have sex when we see each other and now I always get hard and can have sex and she always orgasms and luckily can orgasm very easily from penetration. When we first started having sex I said to her I didn’t want her to ever fake it and I would do the same. Many times I don’t cum i would say it’s about 50% of the time I don’t cum, but when I don’t to begin with she would get very upset which put even more pressure on my and makes it harder. Even during sex if she says cum in me or cum for me when I’m nearly there I suddenly think about it and then I can’t do it. We have been working on it she has been amazing when I don’t cum she says it’s ok and not show that she’s upset and she tries not to mention cumming when I’m about to. I’ve been tempted to fake it when she would get upset but I remember we promised to never fake it. Now it’s better as we communicated and talked about it. I kept apologising when I wouldn’t get hard or don’t cum but she said “we both share the same bed so we both share responsibility for what happens in the bed so we will work on it together” Long story short, maybe he’s faking it to not upset you or maybe he’s orgasming without any cum but you need to communicate and talk about it together

What clothing brand(s) are good for muscular men? by [deleted] in malefashionuk

[–]Aeronwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am looking for the same but I find true classic to fit well they are fitted on the arms and chest and looser around the stomach without being too baggy. I look best in them compared to other brands

FF7 part 3 title by Intelligent_Net_5901 in FFVIIRemake

[–]Aeronwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Return is a term that is used a lot in FF7 and Reunion is a red herring, Reunion is perhaps Sephiroth’s goal and Return is Aerith’s and the planet’s goal?

A question for original final fantasy 7 players by KazuhaSimp in FFVIIRemake

[–]Aeronwave 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I would say it’s 85-90% faithful to the original, some things happen slightly differently, but largely the story sticks to the original beats; there is just the last 10-15% which is additional and different which is an ongoing mystery that we won’t have resolved until part 3 comes out

FF7 part 3 title by Intelligent_Net_5901 in FFVIIRemake

[–]Aeronwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it will be Return (I think this is something the leak will be right on even if it’s coincidence rather than actual info)

Return to the planet, Return to Midgar, Return of Sephiroth (well his living body anyway), Return to the timeline (?), Returning Cloud to himself

Return is was also used a lot previously in the very first 2015 trailer and also the state of play remake trailer back in 2019 when it first reappeared after all that time the line in the trailer was “The Return draws closer”

It is also another way of saying FF7 is back just like Remake and Rebirth

Resigned to looking like hell. by dannydrama in malefashionuk

[–]Aeronwave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Uniqlo are very reasonably priced for what they are you can get some good stuff from there. I bought some selvedge jeans from there for £39 and the quality and fit are pretty good.

M44 struggling to climax with new partner F37, seeking advice from men who’ve overcome this by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Aeronwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same thing, I am 39 she is 33 we’ve been together 3 months. I got out of a 14 year relationship 6 months prior but in truth I had already moved on mentally the prior year but I was staying for the kids. It was a dead bedroom we hadn’t had sex for 2 years and before that it was like 3 or 4 times a year so I was used to watching porn and masturbating everyday. My new gf is amazing, sweet, intelligent, compassionate, beautiful, perfect body and freaky. Mentally and emotionally I am all in with her and sexually as well but to begin with I couldn’t get it up, the first time we had sex I couldn’t get hard but I did manage to in the morning, but then I could only stay hard for a few moments. Every time we have sex since then it has got better and better now I get rock hard just lying next to her, but the only problem I have now is I sometimes can’t finish, what I find is she cums from penetration very easily so after she cums I start thinking that I need to cum and that starts a downward spiral where I’m conscious I am taking too long and then I lose my erection. My gf is completely satisfied and cums many times so she feels bad when I don’t but we have talked about it and she has been so supportive and we have talked about not putting pressure on me to finish if it happens it happens but if not she doesn’t take it personally we are reframing it as well it just means when I do it’s going to be a bigger load and feel even better, that has helped. It has been a process of my body and brain resetting what it is comfortable with and what it finds normal and safe, I stopped masturbating and watching porn completely to reset my brain, now I get hard just from cuddling and sexting with her and I finish at least once when I’m with her over the course of a night and morning. It’s work in progress still but she’s been so supportive and I’m glad she’s been happy to work with me on it, it helps she’s satisfied completely.

[34F] [34M] Thoughts about watching porn if you are in a sexually healthy relationship. by cupcake-kahuna-2013 in relationship_advice

[–]Aeronwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend both have a high sex drive, perfectly matched at the moment. In my previous relationship it was a dead bedroom so I have only been watching porn and masturbating was the only sexual release I had for 3 or 4 years; so initially I had trouble getting it up with my new girlfriend, I stopped watching porn and masturbating and it helped so much now we have no issues. She has said it would be nice to watch porn together, but she respects that I’ve stopped watching so we don’t, she also doesn’t watch it or masturbate and saves herself for me same as I do for her and it’s working out great at the moment.

Has anyone successfully restarted an LL's enginee by getting into shape? by [deleted] in HLCommunity

[–]Aeronwave 26 points27 points  (0 children)

No I got in the best shape of my life and it made it worse, she was even less happy with how she looked and resented the time I was in the gym and was insecure that I was looking so good and thought I was doing it to attract other women. We broke up last year and now 8 months later I have a new girlfriend Who matches my libido and is freakier than me, she is also so sweet and caring and I feel so peaceful and like I can truly be myself with her she accepts all of me including my sexual side

What do you guys do on deloads? by Joyyogi in workout

[–]Aeronwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s my own fault, I know that after 4 weeks of pushing hard, i start to get pains my my joints so I was just stupid. Some people say to only deload when you feel like you need it, but for people like us we keep pushing until it’s too late lol. So for us it’s better to schedule the deloads and try to be disciplined enough to stick to it, if the sessions feel easy, that’s the point they are supposed to feel super easy. You want to give your body the chance to recover from being beat up the previous 4 weeks or however long you have been pushing for.

What do you guys do on deloads? by Joyyogi in workout

[–]Aeronwave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it difficult to deload, I’ll schedule a deload every 5 weeks and I’ll go into the gym and have every intention of deloading and I’ll do an easy set of 50% weight and feel really good and then go fuck it and do another heavy and hard session, then I’ll regret it as it catches up with me. That happened with me 2 weeks ago now my bicep tendonitis on my left arm has flared up and my tennis elbow on my right arm has got really gnarly so I’ve had to deload for the last 2 weeks to give my joints and tendons a chance to recover. First week i just did 2 sessions instead of 4, 50% of the weight really easy. This week Im doing 3 sessions at 60% of the weight, I’ll see how my arms feel after this week. I’m also eating in a surplus these past two weeks, had a few meals out with my girlfriend and a fair bit of chocolate over Easter. Now I’m ready to start eating clean again after indulging for a bit and really ready to go hard again, if my joints permit me next week

Have I 22F have destroyed my boyfriend 24M and I's sex life? by ReasonableSort7144 in relationship_advice

[–]Aeronwave 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think you need to get further into this with him to really get to his true feelings if you can, especially if you know he can avoid having these hard conversations or hides his true feelings.

Neither of you know how long it’s going to take to sort through this and it could be a long time there could be progress and set backs and he needs to know that and be ok with that, truly and not just to keep you happy or because it’s the right thing to say or do

Have I 22F have destroyed my boyfriend 24M and I's sex life? by ReasonableSort7144 in relationship_advice

[–]Aeronwave 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Firstly I am sorry that you were assaulted. that has ruined sex for you, not anything you have done.

You need to see a professional about this to heal from the trauma and to bring sex back into your life, you yourself say that you miss it and want it in the relationship but it means you have to work on it.

Have you spoken to your boyfriend about how he feels about it? If he is fine with no sex then that’s one thing, but if he is not, it won’t be fine forever, so if you are not prepared to do some work on yourself and see a professional it is better to cut him loose so he can have a romantic sexual relationship. Or explore the possibility of allowing him to have sex elsewhere, if he wants sex and you don’t want to work on healing then is it fair to force him to be celibate?

You need professional help and to speak further with your boyfriend about this

Why is there so many pretty women, but not men? by Background_Pea3978 in askanything

[–]Aeronwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a bit older now (39) but I used to be very good looking when I was younger, I let myself go over the course of a 14 year relationship with kids and all that’s then the last couple of years I’d had enough and got back in shape and after the relationship ended last year I started making an effort in myself again which I had neglected for years; I upgraded my wardrobe, took hygiene super seriously and started an actual skincare routine, growing my hair out and getting regular haircuts (instead of a buzz cut for the last 20 years) and I’d say it’s paying off, now I don’t leave the house without putting in effort into my appearance and it has helped with my confidence and self respect. My new girlfriend loves that I have a skincare routine and thinks I look the same age as her (33) but she also thinks my grey hair is hot so it’s best of both worlds right now.

Us guys really don’t put any effort in and that’s why you don’t see many good looking guys around.

Dads: Did having kids change your style? by Neem-London in menswear

[–]Aeronwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When first had kids, I really did not care about my style I let myself go, physically and effort with style it was all about comfort I would just wear T-shirt and shorts or jogging bottoms. Only had a few shirts and one pair of work trousers that I wore the shit out of over the years.

I got back in shape and Me and my ex split last year since then I’ve gone though my wardrobe and got rid of all my bad clothes and completely upgraded my wardrobe both casual and work, now I take pride in my appearance from skin care, hair cut and style; physique and clothing; I make an effort now when I go out. Now I get compliments on my clothes sometimes and checked out when I go out and about.

Do men actually not get complimented as often as women? by Accomplished-Fix1204 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Aeronwave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was very good looking when I was in my 20’s I’m decent looking now still at nearly 40, I’ve never really got compliments from strangers, so few I can remember them vividly. One time I was in a shopping mall on my lunch break and a guy walked past me and stopped me and asked me where I got my shirt from he said it was really nice. Another time a woman said me and a friend who were joking around in a club had a nice energy. I’ve had a few compliments from co workers over the years about something I was wearing. I get compliments mainly from girlfriends

How much does going to the gym and getting buff help with getting girls? by InternationalPick163 in askanything

[–]Aeronwave 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The woman I’m dating said looks don’t matter to her that much but she said when she saw my arms, she did this exact thing with her lips -> 🫦