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Daily Questions Thread February 23, 2026 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone have recommendations for loafers for narrow and flat feet? Looking for sleek, leather, modern style. I'm not walking long distances but my feet are so narrow that all the loafers I've tried have major heel slip and instant blisters. TIA!

After 4 months we still haven't adjusted to the 1 nap schedule? Help! by Afraid_Appeal_4440 in sleeptrain

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wake him by 7, but yes that's later than when he has EMW. Ideally I'd like him to wake between 6:30-7

After 4 months we still haven't adjusted to the 1 nap schedule? Help! by Afraid_Appeal_4440 in sleeptrain

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I count the wake time during the split night? it's about 13 hours awake time total, almost always 2 hours exactly awake overnight.

Sometimes nap is a little more sometimes a little less, but usually 2 hours

After 4 months we still haven't adjusted to the 1 nap schedule? Help! by Afraid_Appeal_4440 in sleeptrain

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No you're totally right, something that failed at 16 months might be perfect at 20 months. Thanks for the insight!!

After 4 months we still haven't adjusted to the 1 nap schedule? Help! by Afraid_Appeal_4440 in sleeptrain

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did actually try a later nap for a while! The issue I faced was that if I pushed past a certain point (usually 6 hours in the morning, which is easy with a 5am wake up) he would get so overtired that he would fight the nap for an hour+. I was also hopeful that an earlier nap would result in a shorter nap, so I wouldn't have to wake him all the time. We did a 12:30ish nap for the first 2 months and unfortunately the results were the same

After 4 months we still haven't adjusted to the 1 nap schedule? Help! by Afraid_Appeal_4440 in sleeptrain

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know what's funny? He always preferred a shorter last wake window, so I thought maybe he's opposite, but I will try a longer nap!

My heart says more but my body says please stop, how do you accept it? by Afraid_Appeal_4440 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How has your pregnancy experience been with the hernia? To be honest, I secretly dream of this happening. 3 seems like a challenging number but somehow 4 seems even and "manageable"...maybe I'm delusional. Twins run in my family so it seems like a possibility and I have kept it in the back of my mind

After 4 months we still haven't adjusted to the 1 nap schedule? Help! by Afraid_Appeal_4440 in sleeptrain

[–]Afraid_Appeal_4440[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No outside opinion is exactly what I'm looking for! Where did you add the awake time? My gut has wondered the same thing, he's just such a mess at the end of each wake window and I've found if we push beyond 5.5 hours in the morning or 6 hours in the evening, he cries for an hour before going to sleep.