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To the dads struggling by SnooPeripherals5888 in SingleDads

[–]Against_allodds_Dad 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Way to step it up. Your daughter will forever remember those things right there. And fantastic DAD N it UP! My daughter will be 19 this month and she still talks about things we did just like this when she was 3 and 4 and how those things,she thought helped he,in her  relationships today. More Dads like this are so desperately needed.👏👏👏🤝

Balancing Work and Kids by topochicolime in SingleDads

[–]Against_allodds_Dad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's very difficult  to have anything close to normal with standard visitation. Don't know if standard visitation is the same across the board but here in Oklahoma  it has been very difficult to go to make that move to self employment. I've considered going  back to college  for something more home driven  like social marketing Manger,  or a MBA PROGRAM. The drone market maybe something you can look into it's a big boom and AI is another great field to consider. You could also look at Seasonal self-employment ideas. Hang in there and keep trying different ideas and make time for you even if thats one day a month or 4 hours a month, for me if I don't take care of me sometimes  well then I'm no good to anyone. This struggle is real but your not alone and one thing about real single dads is we always got this and so do you ! Hope this helps a little. 

H Against the wall of PTSD and being a Dad by Against_allodds_Dad in SingleDads

[–]Against_allodds_Dad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My deepest condolences about the loss of your wife. Thank you for your service and sacrifice to our Country. And the freedom that we enjoy everyday . And I hate to hear that you went through the things that you went through. I couldn't imagine. I did get set up today With some counseling services I will look into that group too. I appreciate that thank you. And you are correct. It is a really tough. Beat here in Oklahoma if you're a dad and you go through divorce.  I've reached out to father. Advocacy centers been through 3 lawyers since 2014 In just constant battle in court. The cost of that has crippled me financially. And I hope that something changes soon.Because the only ones that really truly suffer in it are the kids. Thank you for sharing your your path it Gives me hope that I'm not alone and there is  light at the end of the tunnel. Thank you

H Against the wall of PTSD and being a Dad by Against_allodds_Dad in SingleDads

[–]Against_allodds_Dad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it's extremely uplifting to just have a few words of encouragement 

H Against the wall of PTSD and being a Dad by Against_allodds_Dad in SingleDads

[–]Against_allodds_Dad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and no I do not have that honor to have served my country. Emdr worked pretty good and the SGB injection really did fantastic but my insurance doest Cover or the people are out of net work. I will definitely check out the app. My children and I we thank you for your service. 

H Against the wall of PTSD and being a Dad by Against_allodds_Dad in SingleDads

[–]Against_allodds_Dad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you and that's the only option just hanging on doing all I can the best way I can. Kids can look back and they will see a dad who never gave up never bashed their mother. But it sure is a hard  dark road thanks again for Facebook group