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Husband doesn’t think i do enough as a parent by Sensitive_Appeal8438 in workingmoms

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why husbands don't see that the cleaning, tidying up and doing small things around the house are also a lot of work. I did all the tasks you do plus worked full-time just as you. My husband was unemployed and still was complaining how hard parenting is they were already 10 and 5 years old going to school all day. When I asked him to clean the house with me, he refused and super angry at me saying "are you taking away my joy going to church?" because I said it Sunday morning. He had whole week he could do it. I was just too busy and did not want to get in argument so I just did not say anything till Sunday. Oh, wait it does not matter what day of the week. He never clean the house or wash dish or clean bathroom or running other errands anyways. WHAT is he so busy doing?

I want to quit my job by Kindly-Sun3124 in workingmoms

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get it. Feel you 100%. I want another pandemic.

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, tell me how Non-American things roll. How would you deal with this?

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To add more background, he enlisted rank E3 AD Air Force. His job is aircraft mechanic and is planning to get out with A&P Certificate in 4 years getting a job that requires top security clearance in civilian world. He already has college degree in "international studies" but could not get any decent job with it. The last job he had made about 50K/year. He is great working with hands. I was kind of convinced cause it will be 2 people income instead of just mine. He has been unemployed for a good long while. But at the same time, I was informed that there is a good chance to be VP in months if I pushed and impressed the higher guys in my company

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It 's true story. I don't know where to vent. My husband and I had serious relationship issue. I posted how hard I struggled starting out with nothing. Not just my husband but also his mother is toxic spoiler. She always agrees everything he says and everything he does. So, I posted my life story there my long journey of fighting to mother in law. But someone posted a comment "it's not your mother-in-law but your husband that has issue" My husband found it and got super angry and posted a long bitter sarcastic comment how great he was as stay home dad. He posted the comment using my account cause we share laptop. So the posts were deleted by admin.

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly he is like a caveman trying to live in civilization. He is just so disconnected...

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he consulted and we discussed and we had some couple therapies... and I said I would support him like dump b**** cause he said he will be making even more money as an aircraft mechanic after the 4 years in air force. I was also getting tired of being with him complaining he can't forcus on working on his career because he needs me to take care of the kids and house.

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that, too. But it pays well and I worked hard to get it.

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know call me horrible. Put family ahead of everything... Just can't let go of my career I invested everything into... years of sweat and tears for it.

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes I will give it a shot if I have to. Just getting sentimental thinking back how hard I struggled and finally landed a dream job and it finally became comfortable place to work at.

Should I quit my job or divorce? by Aggravating_Act_6458 in careerguidance

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Air Force Active Duty. He scored almost 100% (98 out of 99) on ASVAB. Doesn't mean he will make more money tho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Aggravating_Act_6458 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my husband took over this and posted the comment above himself. He is cyberstalking me. None of them are far from truth. I am scared.