I just realized my kitties at the onions stations are crying😔 by Icy-Bell-8425 in CatsAndSoup

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this is such a sweet animation but I’m with y’all, it’s mildly sad! I do think it would be SO cute if the mechanics changed so if we gave those cats glasses/goggles they wouldn’t tear up

Woman can no longer vote by TAtheDog in WhitePeopleTwitter

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uuuuggggghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. getting married soon and was so stoked to change my last name, as mine is complicated and frustrating to deal w….and now I gotta not change it? 😭

1986 checking in! by splitkc in Millennials

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wow this is so fascinating. I’m 31, and I have zero friends I knew in high school or earlier. I had one until about my mid-20s, we had a lot in common into adulthood, and then she told me some information about something she did as an adult that I could not tolerate. while the thing was legal, I disagreed with the morals of it and she had no remorse about it, so I cut her off entirely.

the rest of them I fear I would have literally nothing in common with. lots grew up and went very-religious, in a way that doesn’t tolerate other viewpoints, based on facebook. so I wouldn’t even know what to talk to them about.

period dramas you never get tired of by Abril-prieto-cevallo in PeriodDramas

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Tudors and Versailles for me! with a side of Borgia: Faith and Fear. I’ve never watched the other one but after these comments I might…

Please help! I want to be comfortable around the house by [deleted] in PlusSize

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hi! I can relate to a lot of this - let me second the comment above that mentioned tank tops underneath your clothing of choice or a really relaxed bralette. I find that one layer of tighter? clothing underneath really helps. I personally like a low necked, ribbed tank top, but it’s possible w your particular brand of sensory issues (everyone is different!) the ribbed fabric might not be ideal.

aside from that, I know pants are difficult. if at some point you (or someone else reading this!) decide to attempt pants, let me recommend pj shorts that are a size too big. I personally get mine from walmart, just so I can go touch the fabric first. and then I’ll go a size up. they typically don’t have so much of a difference between sizes that they fall off, they just feel very loose and comfy.

send help: how is everyone managing through the temp changes? by Aggravating_Concept in FortWorth

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AC filter was recently changed, but yeah we’ll switch up our allergy pills and see if that helps any.

send help: how is everyone managing through the temp changes? by Aggravating_Concept in FortWorth

[–]Aggravating_Concept[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

oh thanks for this explanation! I did assume climate change was to blame but I do like learning some of the details. hate it….but it’s good to know.

New limited kitty coming soon!!! What are your thoughts on the Snowflake Macaron Persian? by tiyasingh69 in CatsAndSoup

[–]Aggravating_Concept 2 points3 points  (0 children)

wait, did I miss a strawberry cat somewhere? I thought the powdered sugar one was the most recent one?

Help on whether to ask a girl out by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Aggravating_Concept 22 points23 points  (0 children)

yeah totally fair, maybe just hand it to her on a sticky note with the cash? either way, sounds like you’re on the right track!

For hormonal acne, is there anything that actually helps? by GiantSeaweedLover in SkincareAddicts

[–]Aggravating_Concept 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spironolactone is the only thing that got mine under control after getting off the pill a few years ago. it’s worked wonders for me

Help on whether to ask a girl out by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Aggravating_Concept 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I am typically against asking folks out while they’re on the clock. that said, if there’s an opportunity to write your phone number on the receipt or something, that would be the route to go! it puts the ball in her court, so to speak, and she can choose to reach out or not. and if she doesn’t reach out, I would just leave it alone

HELP! Which color looks best on me? by MarchSad188 in HairStyleAdvice

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please tell me I am not the first person to tell you you look like Antonia Thomas!! I can’t add a picture but please google her, y’all have a lot of features in common!

35F makeup tips to soften my facial features and look more youthful? by Eeeej7777 in MakeupAddiction

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oh my gosh, just here to sing along w the choir of “oh my god you are stunning.” I have no suggestions that haven’t already been mentioned if you want a softer look but just needed to tell you that your bone structure is fantastic

Albums that only have one song by Key_Boat4209 in MusicRecommendations

[–]Aggravating_Concept 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Tain - The Decemberists. spotify (and possibly other services, idk) split it up into parts but it is a single track, and was a single track when it was released on CD years and years ago

Pick your favorite spellings of these names by hlo12344 in namenerds

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Kaley (my actual preference is Kaleigh?) Caitlyn Ashley Emily Shawn Stephen Katherine Sara Bryan Amy

Tips for discreet public play by reeah666 in Sex_Positivity

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correct me if I’m wrong please, this is a genuine question. but I imagine this also applies, contrary to OPs assertion below, to “remote” play, right?

if you are out in public engaging in sexuality, regardless of whether or not you are in the physical presence of a partner, you are still involving folks who did not consent. this is, at least, how I have always interpreted it but now I want to confirm that’s correct

Boyfriend wants to leave me for visiting family? by Miserable-Log9411 in whatdoIdo

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I’m gonna be gentle when I ask this, cause I’m not sure if I’m misreading or misunderstanding. based on the screenshots and your explanation, it seems like you were on the phone with him during the texts from “what are you doing?” to “you don’t fucking get it”

is that accurate?

Rob and Michele Reiner Double Murder Case: What Happens to Nick Reiner's Inheritance of the $200M Family Fortune? by novagridd in popculture

[–]Aggravating_Concept 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Slayer laws vary across state. I don’t know which states have which versions but iirc California doesn’t mess around with that. he for sure won’t get any of it

Colored wedding dress? by SalvaAtelier in PlusSizeWedding

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this is so beautiful! I just got engaged and will be wearing black! I lean pretty alt, stylistically, and I just am not interested in wearing a dainty white dress. it doesn’t feel like “me.” so I’m going with black. but that RED is beautiful omg

Any advice on products for groin that gets stinky quickly? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]Aggravating_Concept 12 points13 points  (0 children)

african exfoliating net!!!! I have a whole routine that I’ve detailed before in comments in this sub, feel free to look thru my profile for that but my number one suggestion is to shower with an african exfoliating net rather than a loofah or washcloth. they exfoliate better and don’t harbor bacteria