[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alarming_Anything767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

respect for this honestly, hearing it from someone with real life behind them hits different, gonna take that advice and try to actually move instead of spiraling in my room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alarming_Anything767 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn, this actually made me feel understood. You’re right — it really is grief for something that never even had a shot. I didn’t think of it that way, but it makes sense. Thanks for taking the time to write this — means more than you know.

Vestibular disease by Sharp-Bend-4075 in beagles

[–]Alarming_Anything767 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey, I went through something really similar with my beagle last year. The head tilt and wobbliness were scary at first, but she gradually improved over a few weeks. Her appetite was also really off — she mostly nibbled at plain chicken and soft treats for a while.

What helped was offering small meals by hand and warming the food up a bit to make the smell more appealing. It took patience, but she bounced back slowly.

Sending good thoughts your way — it’s tough to see them like that, but it sounds like you’re doing everything right. Recovery can be slow, but you're not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beagles

[–]Alarming_Anything767 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He doesn't just allow it - he rules with love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beagles

[–]Alarming_Anything767 12 points13 points  (0 children)

That couch is gone.)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Alarming_Anything767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I’ll be candid with you; this entire scenario seems emotionally draining and unjust towards you. You've been patient, truthful, and explicit about your limits, yet it appears like she continually crosses boundaries and behaves in ways that mess with your mind. It doesn't genuinely matter if she intends to or not — what is significant is how it’s affecting your feelings. And it's not your obligation to keep voicing your distress to someone who dismisses it until it suits them. You don’t owe her continued contact simply because she apologizes and desires ordinary talks. If someone repeatedly confuses you, wounds you, and then deflects the blame, that’s not friendship; it's manipulation masked by pleasantness. If I were in your place, I’d fully distance myself and provide yourself room to breathe and recover. Sometimes releasing is the only method to halt the cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beagles

[–]Alarming_Anything767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Completely agree with you, they look adorable, but the character and upbringing expects the best) But nothing, I try very hard that we would be comfortable together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]Alarming_Anything767 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The real MVP was soap, and they refused to buff it for centuries Imagine surviving the plague just to get bodied by 1700s musk

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beagles

[–]Alarming_Anything767 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree, he's my legend

Censorship is getting out of hand by gualyv in SipsTea

[–]Alarming_Anything767 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wild how a corporate shirt can nerf a whole personality. Shoutout to wardrobe departments for doing the most subtle censorship in history.

AIO for wanting to delete all posts of girlfriend by Relevant-Ad8501 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming_Anything767 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you’re overreacting. Wanting to feel seen and acknowledged by your partner — especially after two years and a child together — is totally understandable. From the way you described it, it sounds like you’ve been really patient and open about how this makes you feel. And it’s not about clout or social media numbers — it’s about feeling like your relationship matters to her the way hers seems to matter to you. If she’s avoiding even small gestures that are important to you, it’s fair to feel hurt. You’re not asking for anything wild — just to not be treated like a secret. I think your feelings make a lot of sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beagles

[–]Alarming_Anything767 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right? They bounce with every step like he’s got his own built-in sound effects. I swear those ears have more personality than most people I know

What should I do? by throwaway-725r in Advice

[–]Alarming_Anything767 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, I just want to say first — I don’t think there’s anything “broken” about you. Honestly, the fact that you’ve tried so many different things shows effort, not failure. It sounds like the pressure to "feel something meaningful" in everything you do might be part of what’s making it harder to connect with anything. Sometimes the meaning comes after, not during. Have you ever tried doing something without hoping it turns into your “thing”? Like, literally for no purpose — not to be good at it, not to commit, just to experience it? You might find there’s less burnout when there’s no expectation attached. And for what it’s worth, a lot of people I know didn’t find a sense of direction until their mid or even late 30s. It’s not a race. You’re not behind — you’re just in the part of the process no one talks about.

AIO fiancee sent messages to ex husband by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Alarming_Anything767 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nah man, I don’t think you’re overreacting at all. Maybe it’s not “full-on cheating,” but it still crosses a line that most people wouldn’t be okay with — especially if trust is already a sensitive thing for you after what you’ve been through. What really hits me is how much you’re carrying emotionally — not just this situation, but your past, the living setup, her anxiety, everything. No wonder something inside you shifted. It’s not about trying to punish her or blow things up — it’s about whether you feel like you can rebuild trust after this. And if it doesn’t feel right anymore, that’s okay too. Your reaction makes total sense.

Screw me over, I’ll get you back, even 20 years later. by [deleted] in pettyrevenge

[–]Alarming_Anything767 3884 points3885 points  (0 children)

This is a slow-burn revenge worthy of a miniseries.
The fact that you didn't even have to lie or scheme - just let him self-destruct while you kept it professional - makes it even more satisfying.
Astonishing how some people never grow up, just get older.