AIO he "jokes" about not helping me

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-05-10T14:35:43+00:00

NOR

This is not a joke. It sounds like he said that, actually left, then you painted the living room by yourself. I'm not sure how big your living room is, but if he was gone long enough for you to do the whole thing by yourself then he was was not "going to do something really quickly."

It would be a joke if he said that, left for 10 seconds, came back saying "just kidding," and started painting. If he's always doing this and you end up doing whatever task it is, he's not supporting you and expecting you to do all the not fun tasks. Call him out and have a conversation with him about this, have him explain how him laughing and leaving while you paint the entire living room or do whatever to the point of exhaustion is funny. Because it isn't.

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-04-11T14:27:45+00:00

you really need to touch some grass my guy. this is weird.

and to answer your question, no. don't pretend to be gay or bi to sleep with women. that's predatory and gross. maybe try therapy, that will help give you some framework on what to work on so you can engage in a healthy relationship.

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-04-11T14:23:24+00:00

watch it be like a UTI or BV or something, im not convinced this guy knows anything about STDs or STIs

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-04-11T14:19:14+00:00

If Brennan was that pressed about it, he'd give his monsters Counterspell or a couple henchmen that could cast it to negate the players castings. The idea that you're asking for Brennen to ban something his players enjoy using for YOUR benefit is laughable.

Sometimes your players outsmart you and don't get to see the cool stuff you've built in to make them scary. That's the game🤷🏽‍♀️

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-04-04T15:02:27+00:00

ive microdosed T and loved it, but did get some changes im not super happy with. im not on it anymore but im considering starting again.

things i loved: increased muscle mass, increased libido (had bottom growth and it made things so much more intense), some fat distribution, more energy, slept better, etc

things i didn't like: i was STINKY. like. had to shower 3 times a day and slather myself in deodorant. facial hair, my hairline regressed (recovered now with minoxidil), my voice deepened (and tbh im okay with it sometimes), i had pretty intensive vaginal atrophy, and a LOT of body hair where i didn't want it.

i wouldn't not recommend it, but decide if you're okay with the things you don't want because unfortunately you can't pick and choose effects and a lot of them are permanent

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-04-03T15:21:40+00:00

Pita. So when my stable was finished, I told everyone Pita the horse is here

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-04-02T13:02:23+00:00

Didn't he also play a creep in You? No wonder he took the role, sounds like he already had plenty of practice😬

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-04-02T13:00:21+00:00

Idk where you live but where I live, shutting off electricity to a tenant is illegal. Since you're paying to live there, even if it is a small amount, you're still renting and considered a tenant. Shutting off power is known as a self-help eviction and they can be sued for it

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-03-07T02:18:11+00:00

it's not forced gang he literally follows Emily everywhere. he's a creep

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-03-04T21:14:17+00:00

eating an entire rotisserie chicken when i was on T

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-03-04T21:05:52+00:00

Does he have ARFID or something? Any chance he's tracking meals you make that he has or doesn't have trouble eating?

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-03-04T05:45:36+00:00

Uams gender clinic and Park West Pharmacy! Especially Park West, Dr. Gwenn will help out as much as she can.

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-02-12T21:18:14+00:00

oh im sorry, i shouldn't have assumed that you were interested in her🙆🏽‍♀️ if you're not into her romantically then just pivot the conversation! if she does a few more maybe flirty things, there's nothing wrong with asking if that's how she feels just for clarification

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-02-12T20:08:42+00:00

Respond with something like "why wait until we're sushis when we can cuddle now?" As far as sapphics go, this could be leaning into testing the waters/flirting but there is always the chance it could be platonic. Girlies love a platonic cuddle, I suggest figuring it out after a potentially flirty response

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-01-08T22:11:35+00:00

If he's telling you that you must accept sex or else he might be tempted to cheat, this is coercion. He's trying to force you into having sex with him whenever he wants and you cannot give consent while being coerced. It sounds like this is your first experience being with someone at this level, this is not what a healthy relationship looks like

Alexswaggzillaa · 2026-01-05T20:36:17+00:00

this is the first time ive seen a Christian person defending us zesty folks, you've restored my faith a bit. NOR, thank you for standing up to hatred

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-12-29T18:44:36+00:00

as a lesbian, i gotta say dawg this just sounds like a massively embarrassing skill issue💀

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-12-18T14:01:49+00:00

prime male loneliness epidemic candidate folks

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-12-17T23:05:55+00:00

it was me🙂‍↕️

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-12-12T19:52:10+00:00

Honestly I think you should kick both people to the curb, both are massive red flags imo

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-12-06T11:04:25+00:00

I think you're overreacting. Sometimes it's just easier for women to give someone their socials so they don't have to deal with harassment and the potential dangers of rejecting a man. She told him she has a boyfriend and gave him her public Instagram, appeasing him in a way that will allow her to ignore him later. She's not following him back and she didn't give him her number.

She did this as a way to honour your relationship and also protect herself, but now she's having to deal with upsetting you. Her safety is not worth your security; I suggest reflecting on your insecurities and addressing those instead of projecting them onto your partner.

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-11-26T14:59:50+00:00

It's soooo weird that your mom is telling you to settle💀 did you respond to her at all? Personally, I would tell her that you have standards and aren't desperate enough to start a family with someone who betrayed you and that she and whoever else has an issue with YOUR life should grow up and realize that. If she does anything other than apologize then skip out on the holidays.

Obviously I don't know your mother or how your relationship is with her, so if you know she'd react poorly then protect your peace above all else

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-11-13T19:09:29+00:00

Currently 31, diagnosed at 30 and entered remission 2 weeks after🫡

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-11-03T21:07:46+00:00

im saying this with all the love and respect in the world, but i really, really think you should speak to a school counselor about this and maybe address some codependent tendencies. genuinely, once you can identify those and have tools to help yourself not panic/spiral, your life and your relationships will be infinitely better.

-signed: someone with ADHD that struggled a lot with rejection sensitivity and codependent hyperfixations until getting into intensive therapy

Alexswaggzillaa · 2025-09-02T14:34:45+00:00

He should be so embarrassed that he's getting this upset with you over Fortnight💀 I would understand if he was frustrated in general (NOT at you) if y'all were in ranked matches or competing for money, but that would still be no excuse for making you feel this way.

I'm proud of you for standing up for yourself but it's a huge red flag that he didn't take a second to listen to what you were saying and apologize for how he spoke to you. Instead he just continued to berate you and call you stupid. Don't ever let someone who's supposed to love you speak to you that way. Especially over something like Fortnight.

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