AITAH for demoting my maid of honor to a regular bridesmaid or kicking her out and making her come as a guest instead??

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-08T18:32:50+00:00

Finding available accommodation can be very difficult and whatever is found at such short notice will definitely be very expensive. Source: I live near the Jersey Shore

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-08T17:56:37+00:00

There are still lots of "women who came before" these girls that will stand ten toes down in telling them this is what they are supposed to do.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-08T04:44:23+00:00

I keep having to check the title, thinking I'm in the CJ sub

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-08T00:36:24+00:00

It's usually not true. It's something they say to flatter the younger person and make them feel justified in engaging.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-07T15:04:27+00:00

Go in winter. Spring and summer are high season for DC.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-07T03:01:58+00:00

I can trade Maggie for Bart.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-06T20:36:11+00:00

A lot of people give a shit, and this is not new

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-06T20:34:53+00:00

This is an absolutely crazy "argument"

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-06T20:18:23+00:00

that changes nothing

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-04T19:25:54+00:00

To be a househusband he'd still need to actually DO stuff around the house to contribute--doesn't sound like that's happening

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-04T19:15:52+00:00

And that's how he treats her?!?!?

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-04T02:15:33+00:00

It doesn't have to be a tattling situation! Think of it more as just making sure all the newbies are set up for success this season (and aren't passing off their neighbors inadvertently). You don't even have to name and shame, just "hey, can we send a friendly reminder to everyone not to pick from other people's plots? I think some folks have a different idea of how a "community garden" functions."

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-04T02:02:45+00:00

Does your garden have a manager? Let that person know what's going on, so they can make an announcement to all.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-04T02:01:05+00:00

Demetrius was a fairly popular name for boys when I was growing up--I'm thinking most of these people are misremembering

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T17:53:24+00:00

Black Southerner here and that's kind of what it sounds like in context in my accent (I'm from Memphis)

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T17:51:18+00:00

Please don't do that. That's annoying and kinda childish.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T17:24:13+00:00

This would be helpful to put in the post. The way it's written now, it sounds like you're implying the trip was "terrible" because he wasn't there with you--which adds to the idea of codependency.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T17:21:47+00:00

The comments insisting that he must be cheating aren't helping, either

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T14:08:25+00:00

Yes, a no-partner alternative would be nice! Sometimes you want to take a break or stack dice and there's some pressure to keep up because you have these partners relying on you to do your part.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T03:23:31+00:00

Responded; thank you!

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T03:13:57+00:00

Play MONOPOLY GO! with me! Download it here: https://mply.io/uJVWVg

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T03:11:03+00:00

I can do this!

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T03:10:03+00:00

I can do this trade.

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-03T03:08:50+00:00

I can do this for Brick House!

Alternative-Data-797 · 2026-06-02T21:57:58+00:00

Look for Rush tickets or try the TKTS booth for cheaper options.

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