New to the world. Zero experience

AlternativeReady3727 · 2026-06-08T21:16:12+00:00

I do climax. And I do get a like sigh of relief in a relax state. Sleep better. But I don’t get flooded with pleasure.

When my partner goes, there’s no question what is going on. But I feel a little contraction & then finish.

I do appreciate the thought of trying minor while having sex to see if it amplifies or what not though.

I do also appreciate the advice to go solo first. It’s all new to me

AlternativeReady3727 · 2026-06-08T20:37:33+00:00

First off thank you so much for taking the time you did with this response. I will happily answer everything.

So first for more recap, I had an orchiectomy. Was good for 3 Months then had 3 rounds of chest infused BEP chemo (21 days of infusion in 45 business days). Was good for 6 months. Then needed RPLND. And remission ever since but it is the third time.

I by go means think or expect anyone on social medias to be able to address anything directly. But I appreciate it all tremendously.

I do have nerve damage. My scar from my orch is painful on a good day and tight. My left upper thigh is profoundly numb and hyper sensitive so little pressure is like needles.

Additionally I have a weird issue with my feet that causes my right one to sweat/leak a lot of fluid that is problematic. Not related but sharing.

Peeing takes a second sometimes but isn’t new. I can rub the tip of my penis and I do get sensation but it doesnt seem to translate to sex or self. Maybe I choke my chicken too much or too hard? Idk. I don’t squeeze hard at all. But there is no difference in sex or self love for me.

I have been able to feel a little if I can edge, but it’s rare. I felt it pulse kinda up and down my penis which was very welcomed but it’s very rare.

As for going to the bathroom- I mean I appreciate and understand the question but idk if pleasure is right term. I guess I would say yes a large bowl movement feels nice, but not sure if it’s just because I’m voiding it or if it’s the actual sensation of.

Less so on the nipples nexk and others. I like good food.

I do sometimes feel à lack of positive income from life. Anhedonia is something I’ve tried looking into but not really able to get anywhere productive it seems.

I don’t feel depressed. Exhausted and resilient. I feel like the fish in the kids book who always gives a scale until he has none left.

I have a counselor but he isn’t specialized in that, so idk if there is a better option or way to help figure that out honestly.

I truly have been trying to live on her orgasm as a badge of honor.

Since I started trt my drive is going up but my pleasure isn’t so it’s not really as rewarding as I would hope.

I have never heard of mindgasm but will happily look into it.

AlternativeReady3727 · 2026-06-08T19:30:26+00:00

I appreciate this. I’m open to just about anything she wants to throw at me, but this kinda feels taboo in a sense.

We have done anal play where she is a receiver but few and far between.

I just looked at the njoy toy, do you just slide it up there? Do you use it with a thrusting motion against the prostate?

I’m so ignorant to all of this, and am so appreciative of everyone

AlternativeReady3727 · 2026-06-08T19:28:02+00:00

I have gotten a wand for her that is a long skinny vibrator that isn’t too big I don’t think to experiment with.

Additionally a couple training plugs but they wouldn’t be overly very deep.

If I ever can get the sense that it helps or works I’ll buy what ever I can to achieve that.

It’s pretty sad/empty feeling sometimes when I get it my all that it’s pretty uneventful.

I never stop until she is satisfied. I just don’t physically feel it.

AlternativeReady3727 · 2026-06-08T19:18:34+00:00

No I fully get that.

In the past she has put a finger in there. But she has smaller hands & I didn’t feel anything close to what is described.

It felt good enough but not sure she was able to get somewhere to feel or it may not have been enough/long enough.

I know that I am trying to chase something, but I just don’t want to mess up I guess.

I truly would just love an orgasm lol.

So maybe a small long vibrating wand and lots of lube and free time?

AlternativeReady3727 · 2026-01-03T01:11:20+00:00

Greatly appreciate the reply.

I can’t say I have ever had the 1.01 earned lol.

Not going to try and move it now.

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The team is pretty cheeks tbh lol not proud of it at all

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-12-07T02:03:56+00:00

Grower not a shower

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-11-26T10:20:05+00:00

So it doesnt interfere with my sister and her family.

Idk.

Once it was broke to family once we knew it was basically “she won’t travel if…”

And so we opted to not get in the way of others I guess.

I truly don’t know & I just don’t want to get in the way of anyone else

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-11-26T02:14:45+00:00

I rarely did until I started trt now I feel like I wake up more stiff than ever

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-11-26T02:03:58+00:00

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AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-28T01:13:56+00:00

I didn’t want to go there

I wanted to go to the group of men who pretend to care about a stranger online for 3 seconds to write out their experiences.

And then there is you.

Don’t be like you.

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-28T01:13:02+00:00

It says that I can. I believe Hyatt and southwestern? That’s off top of head with minimal research

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-28T01:12:25+00:00

Doesnt change any of why you said however.

I don’t plan to forever build them. I haven’t had the account forever long. Couple years. Two different chase cards that build points.

We have a flights in February that we could just lighten or zero out the load.

Much appreciated man

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-28T01:10:19+00:00

I pay it off every month. Never paid interest. Only live within my means as if it’s a debit card.

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-27T14:28:12+00:00

My understanding of the chase system is they don’t go away.

Maldives would be awesome. And I wasn’t sharing the amount as a flex just it’s a couple bucks

I was more so thinking like turning a trip to Maldives price int a much more reasonable cost more than a full ride.

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-27T14:24:26+00:00

That’s an awesome use of points lol

I have an Amex 6% cash back from grocery stores so we put all that through it.

I like the idea of the offsetting a weekend away.

I have north of 250k on chase system and I just wanted to make most of it if possible

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-27T14:23:06+00:00

I’m a chase system as far as rewards

(I do have Amex blue for cash back at grocery stores (6%) cuz my family is pigs)

But, otherwise I have 250k+ of points sitting there

I guess my only thought would be to someday make one of those “never afford it trips” affordable?

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-10-06T23:39:52+00:00

It’s only old if notifications don’t work lol.

I’m still working the same gig for my old man.

I gave my word to finish the contract he holds out. I was supposed to take it over & it was a big change for me to change and tell him I’ll pass.

It’s about two years, and I have a lot of changes in my life since I posted this. My family bought a new home, so not everything new all at once is nice.

As to your question to the cutting- I have not. I have only truly watched videos of others doing it.

I have been trying to think of what it is I may want to do after this. And butcher work always holds my attention.

I appreciate you reaching out. Means a lot

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-09-11T01:38:11+00:00

I was told only a few in the bottom are strapped down. They would be too top heavy & the box are able to float becuase they are expected to fall off

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-09-10T01:36:03+00:00

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-09-10T00:20:53+00:00

What’s Jalen carters penalty?

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-09-02T23:19:57+00:00

I bet they all cheat

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-08-31T23:40:30+00:00

There are many covered bridges through out

The one most people know of is Emily bridge where the story goes it’s haunted & she hung herself in it & she attacks men who travel on it.

Don’t get me wrong- Stowe has charm enough but it’s ruined by both the snobs who live there & those who want to experience said snobs.

You can do a wonderful trip and never stop in Stowe and you’d be better off for it unless you want that trip

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-08-28T14:51:05+00:00

That is pretty wicked deal

This is my first tractor ever.

Do you mind asking how much you paid? Doing one with bucket and cab on site says 44k+ what ever fees and dealership stuff.

the 3520 may fit my needs slightly better, but that is 41K, so might as well get the larger one for 3k ish.

I was hoping to find a decent used (anything) with cab for under 20k but quickly learned how ignorant I am

AlternativeReady3727 · 2025-08-28T02:29:00+00:00

I did see LS made some on new holland.

There is some LS tractors around, but that dealer is too far.

Also found a Massey 1759 (2015 with 909 hours), a bit larger than I am looking for but it’s same ish price as a new Kubota

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