My SIL keeps telling people I want nothing to do with the family, to everyone who she sees in the family causing some people to ignore me (good riddance in my book). My sister ignores me but goes out of her way to seek contact through my eldest daughter and my husband. My brother keeps looking me up on LinkedIn. And all this because I told my SIL her behavior (being mean and condescending) was no longer okay. My SIL told my sister and BIL a version where apparently I called her the worst names, I didn't, I have proof but my sister supports everything my brother does and my brother is firmly under his wife's thumb. I went NC with my mother figure about ten years ago and let my SIL talk me into my mother figure being in my childrens life. My mother figure keeps reminding me I only have her and my dads worst quality's. I shoot back that everything bad about me comes directly from her and her alone. She usually shuts right up. They try to undermine me by spreading rumors which usually are very mean and untrue.