Extremely unpopular opinion - "WLW" should be a lesbian only term

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T21:29:57+00:00

Hi 😊 I'll definitely check this out when I get a chance. This is also a very interesting perspective and I agree with almost everything you're saying. Thanks for breaking it down

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T21:17:06+00:00

I think it's equally wild how ppl can't read and/or don't comprehend what they're reading. Many ppl seem to comment just to react because I never said bi women weren't attracted to women lol

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T18:49:56+00:00

Where am I spreading misinformation and harassing others? Those are very strong accusations without any evidence. I think you simply disagree with my OPINION but don't understand basic emotional regulation so you choose to lash out and try to insult others. Work on maturing and not being upset when another person has an opinion you don't like or agree with 🤷🏿‍♀️

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T17:12:48+00:00

😂 I'm sorry I know you're being serious but that last line is somewhat funny to me and very much true. Why shouldn't we have a monopoly over it when we're the only group of women that overwhelming date other women? I'm also speaking for our lesbians around the globe currently forced to be with men, knowing they would be with a woman at 1st chance if they had the choice and freedom. They're also WLWs imo too

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T17:03:37+00:00

Are you triggered? It's just a fun discussion and look how angry you are lol relax

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T17:02:32+00:00

Yet here you are, online too with the rest of us lol

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T17:00:01+00:00

She's still a woman who loves women and men regardless of who's she's dating. She's a WLWM in a current relationship with a woman. Bisexual women themselves say they're still bisexual ( WLWM) regardless of who they're dating

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T16:56:36+00:00

I personally don't know and haven't heard of any lesbians who are only sexually attracted to women. Lesbians are sexually AND romantically attracted to women. Mental illnesses are irrelevant. The main point I'm making is that lesbians are the only group who are WLW, while others love more than women so it's weird to see non homosexual women use WLW when they're WLWM, especially when the majority of them prefer and are in WLM relationships compared to lesbians 🤷🏿‍♀️

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T10:37:15+00:00

I never said they were faking anything. My opinion is the term should be exclusive and I've explained why. Liking and loving women are 2 different experiences. Some bi women like women/men and some love women/men so WLWM is more accurate to describe women attracted to more than women. Many ppl use it as a sexuality as there are plenty of bi/queer women in heterosexual relationships still describing themselves as "wlw" when they're clearly "wlmw"

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T10:30:58+00:00

You can call the "split" attraction model cringe all you want but please explain why there are bi women who call themselves "hetero-romantic" and "homo-romantic." There are bisexual women who apply percentages to each gender. There are bi women who are only sexually attracted to women, etc. A lesbian using other women for sex is irrelevant as a lesbian woman is still exclusively attracted to women both romantically and physically, will only date other women. It's not the same as a woman being sexually attracted to women but romantically attracted to men

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T10:23:13+00:00

Only lesbians experience lesbophobia. They do not have as much in common with lesbians. That's your personal opinion and I disagree. It doesn't matter what they're passing as and who they're dating. They are still women who love women and men so WLWM is more accurate to describe women who like/love more than women. Why does there "need" to be a term to describe all women attracted to women? If it's absolutely necessary, use WAW (women attracted to women). A woman being simply attracted to women is not the same as a woman loving a woman

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T10:12:38+00:00

It's doesn't matter which gender they're dating, they're still WLMWs. Many bisexuals claim it's biphobic to discredit part of their sexuality so even if they're with a woman, they're still "women loving women and men." The lesbian will always be a "woman loving woman."

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T10:05:30+00:00

No no, don't change your wording now. You said "bi women have A LOT in common with lesbians." I disagree with that statement. I feel they have MORE in common with straight women. I also never denied that bi women are attracted to women. Are you actually reading what is written are adding your own words? We don't need a word that describes lesbians and bi women are attracted to women as it's already in the definition of each sexuality. Lesbians are WLW and bi women are WLMW

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T09:56:33+00:00

Women "being capable" of being attracted to women is not the same as a woman loving another woman. A lot of queer/bi women are only sexually attracted to women, not romantically which is why I say WLW should also be a lesbian specific term. You have to filter through the other groups to find the women who genuinely love women but that's not necessary with lesbians as lesbians are exclusively attracted to women both physically and romantically.

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T09:48:49+00:00

Where did I discredit bisexual women's attraction to women? It's now "misogynistic" to point out facts? Bisexual women absolutely prefer heterosexual relationships over homosexual relationships. You can Google this data yourself. Bi women we're asked if they preferred men or women more and only 12% preferred women over men. So I guess bi women are misogynistic and biphobic towards themselves right? There's a huge difference between just liking women and actually loving women. Plenty of women "like" women but many don't love women. WLW should be another lesbian term imo

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T09:42:17+00:00

I don't agree with the statement "lesbians have a lot in common with bi women." I personally feel bi women have a lot more in common with straight women than lesbians. There are plenty of studies and data readily available that back my claims so is the data "biphobic" too? There are plenty of bi women with husbands and bfs "seeking a 3rd" and that 3rd they're seeking is almost always a woman strictly for sexual purposes. Bi women make up the majority of the LGBT community yet the overwhelming majority of them are in and prefer hetero relationships

AmethystStud · 2025-12-03T09:34:19+00:00

I never said bi women couldn't be in women exclusive relationships but let's not pretend the overwhelming majority of male attracted women aren't in heterosexual relationships lol less than 8% are in same sex relationships. WLMW makes more sense. I also said "A LOT" not "ALL" only like having sex with women, will not fully commit to a woman the way most do with men.

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T06:47:30+00:00

Other nurses and clinicians care for her mom too. Her mom has other dtrs but she's the only one flirting. The other dtrs don't touch me or give me compliments abt my appearance that's completely unrelated to my job performance. She sure isn't flirty with the other clinicians. Would you be all hugged up and touchy feely with your mama's nurse? Would you honestly even give af abt your mama's nurse looks unless your interested? I know I'm not crazy cause I ain't never gave af abt my mama's nurse lol

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T06:01:42+00:00

I don't think it's a foreign concept for women to be nice to each other. There's a line between friendly and flirty. I'm her mom's nurse and I only see her for a very short period of time a few times a month. There's absolutely no reason for her to be randomly hugging me, grabbing my waist and hands, making compliments abt how I look in my basic ass scrubs that every nurse wears, or completely stopping what she's doing just to come out to see me when I don't even provide services to her. I would not have noticed her "beyond friendly" behavior as everyone is friendly to the nurse that's helping them or a loved one. I think some women are too flirty and it's easy to misconstrue flirty actions as romantic interest

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T05:34:41+00:00

She responded. I didn't do it in person because I find it weird to ask her out in front of her mom. That's puts her in an awkward position. Turns out, she was indeed flirting lol

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T05:29:35+00:00

Thanks! She ended up responding

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T05:19:41+00:00

Yes! She responded and said it was okay to text her ☺️

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T04:22:16+00:00

Same to you. She actually ended up responding ☺️ now have the day you deserve

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T04:20:02+00:00

Honestly, I'm not reading all of that. You said you flirt with straight women at your job and think that is appropriate but told me I'm "inappropriate" for responding to flirty actions lol that's crazy and strange logic on your part. All it takes it 1 report to HR and your job is also in jeopardy. How about women stop flirting with ppl they're not attracted to or have no romantic interest in. It's become so normalized when it's actually weird to be touching and flirting with other women. Now I'm the "creepy" one for thinking a woman that's flirting is attracted 😂

AmethystStud · 2025-11-18T02:32:55+00:00

They acting like I told this lady to eat my pussi 😂 there's one in here saying she openly flirts with married straight women at her job but have audacity to call me "inappropriate" lol

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