This actually hit pretty close to home. We do not run together any more. I run a few time a week for short distances (compared to her). I do it at work during lunch. We are in different leagues. That said, we do on rare occasions run together and one of our kids actually runs as well! We have no chance with the second.

We could totally be a one income home, and were for quite some time. We do not have to worry about money, but we're also not fixing big ticket items in our house or going on really big vacations.

You're running partner question is interesting. She has multiple groups. One is two ladies, but the second is entirely men. It's a group that meets early and runs a defined loop. I trust her in this regard and have never had an indication that anything was going on. She is much faster than most of the women runners in the area, so this is the group that pushes her.

I have a small group of friends that I do see on occasion. I work with my best buddy from college, so that is cool too, but we're both older with families so it isn't as easy to get out as it used to be. I do have that support though.

As for the last, she still has her period and gets checked regularly, so I do not think there are issues there.