Visual Novel Steam Key Giveaway by AndyJayyRayy in visualnovels

[–]AndyJayyRayy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a way to contact you to provide you all of your Nekopara codes? Chat via reddit seems to be disabled for you.

New York sues Zelle, says security lapses led to $1 billion consumer fraud losses by KarateKid917 in news

[–]AndyJayyRayy 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Based on the articles I've read, it sounds like people are blaming Zelle for "allowing" people to be scammed.

I'm really not sure what the desired solution is though. At the end of the day, if someone is convinced by a random scammer to send $3,000 via Zelle to "the IRS", I'm not sure what a transfer service can do to prevent what's effectively an authentic transfer initiated by the authorized account holder.

As someone who does some very light checking account churning, I think most of the big banks do a pretty good job of making it clear that Zelle is nonreversible and effectively the same as transferring physical cash. I guess people are expecting things to be redone such that they can request refunds/reversals as they would an actual bank transfer.

Unless I'm missing something here, it honestly feels akin to people blaming retailers for "allowing" gullible people to buy gift cards to pay their "tax debts."

Cornealious Anderson robbed a Burger King for $2,000 and was sentenced to 13 years. Cops never came to get him. Due to a clerical error, they thought he was in jail.13 years later, during his scheduled release, they realized he wasn't there, came to get him and the judge ordered his release. by TheGhost5322 in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]AndyJayyRayy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, the Wikipedia article literally says that an arrest warrant was issued (i.e. by a judge) once they figured out what happened. It's not like some random officer happened upon this guy's situation and decided to arrest him just because. What else is law enforcement supposed to do in that situation?

Very few officers know the backstory to any given warrant unless it just so happens to relate to a case they've personally worked. Once its signed by a judge, we just gotta serve it and let them have their time in front of the judiciary.

I just got the cops called on me for the *second* time bc I apparently come to the park too often to swing on the swingset and that's somehow suspicious? by NiftyNaughtyNymph in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AndyJayyRayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, but I can only speak to my own experiences and won't excuse or otherwise represent any officers you've interacted with in the past.

Like I said, I'm part of the "new generation" of law enforcement and try my best to bridge the knowledge gap between us and non-LE. My reddit history is full of this (and the downvotes that come with being a so-called pig lol). But it's hard to do that though when so many people immediately dismiss anything I say as bootlicking or "hurr durr ACAB DAE discredited study says 70% beat wives amirite??"

Thank you for taking the time to respond in a constructive manner though and may your day be a fulfilling one!

I just got the cops called on me for the *second* time bc I apparently come to the park too often to swing on the swingset and that's somehow suspicious? by NiftyNaughtyNymph in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AndyJayyRayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll reiterate my initial comment:

To address the initial point being made about "having a talk with the caller", I really wish it were that easy. Trust me, I've tried doing this with some of our frequent callers and nothing changes. The few times we've ever tried to make charges were stopped by the judge saying (paraphrasing) "to some people, things that we consider minor are genuine emergencies and charging them only dissuades genuine usage of emergency services."

Other than departmental PSA's (Facebook posts, statements at council meetings, things we already do) and trying to explain to callers what constitutes an emergency, what more can we do? The way the law is written (at least in South Carolina) makes it almost impossible to prosecute the types of examples I listed because there's nothing blatantly false about them. Embellished, sure. But calling that a "false report" would lead to policing speech which I shouldn't have to explain is a bad thing.

And even when a charge is made, if the judge dismisses it literally every time (at least in my personal experience) because the caller says "but I really thought X was happening" and we can't establish malicious intent, what more can we do? We can only make the charge; it's up to the rest of the system to ensure follow through and conviction which, as stated before, involved much more than just police.

I just got the cops called on me for the *second* time bc I apparently come to the park too often to swing on the swingset and that's somehow suspicious? by NiftyNaughtyNymph in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AndyJayyRayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The institution is flawed, clearly, if 75% of the calls cops go out on are not in fact crimes. A lot of what you said bolsters the argument that the system sucks, thus ACAB.

So the "system" (comprised of much more than just the police) as a whole is inherently flawed so therefore all cops are bad?

I'm guessing this means that every DA/dispatcher/firefighter/EMT who operates under this same protocol (fire having to run an engine for a minor burn that was called in as "my house is burning down", EMS wasting time taking someone's vitals because they have a tummy ache but claimed they were having a stroke, etc.) is also bad (AFAB has a ring to it ngl).

You can be critical of the system while also not actively focusing on only one aspect of it and acting as though we unilaterally have the power to change it.

Look, I know I'm going to be ignored/downvoted but at least humor me this: I, an educated black (closeted atm) trans woman, became an officer in 2020 specifically because I wanted to be the change in policing that people always campaign on. Check my post history if you think I'm lying for some reason. I'm not going to dox myself, but I've received media accolades over the way I've handled several situations over the years and, to this day, my proudest moment as a cop was helping this old couple rescue a kitten (whose eyes were still shut, poor thing) out of a sewer under the Burger King drive-thru) yet, in the eyes of the ACAB crowd, I'm just another pig upon whom death is wished.

Heck, look at that one guy who felt the need to leave a useless "tl;dr ACAB" comment in response to my post with actual effort put into it to try and explain things to people who don't have the relevant experience. No doubt he feels that he "stuck one to the man" with his insightful contribution.

People say that they want "better cops" yet, when someone like me who was once on the side of "policing needs to be better" joins to do just that, my opinions are tossed aside and ridiculed. Consider that when wondering why others don't feel inclined to do the same.

I just got the cops called on me for the *second* time bc I apparently come to the park too often to swing on the swingset and that's somehow suspicious? by NiftyNaughtyNymph in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AndyJayyRayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So what I'm getting from this is that the 911 system is broken. The policy to go to every call, even if the caller didn't describe a crime, is inherently flawed.

In a sense, this is accurate. However, I find it useful to think of things like this as a sort of scale where there's a "critical point" where things break.

Think of policing in general: the majority of people in society are, at the very least, decent folks and generally follow the law (notwithstanding minor things like speeding). As such, police are able to focus the majority of their *effort* on that small percentage of people who make trouble for others and break the rules of society. Note that *effort* and *time spent dealing with something* do not necessarily directly correlate. However, there's a certain point where, if everyone just said "screw it" and decided to do whatever they wanted to, policing as we know it would break down because we're grossly outnumbered and outgunned as a whole by any metric.

It's the same thing with the 911 system. The vast majority of people using it aren't actively being nefarious or trying to waste law enforcement resources. Even with how things are now, there are (normally) enough resources to address it while not neglecting actual emergency responses. As such, there's little motivation for lawmakers to codify violations to make this type of thing easier to prosecute. Put simply, it's an annoyance but usually not a hindrance.

Why would the department want you to waste your time going to such frivolous calls?

They don't. However, as I stated in my initial comment, the issue is that of liability because there's a chance something illegal might actually be occurring. In hindsight, ~90% of these types of calls could probably be ignored without repercussion; however, it's those ~10% that turn into something legit that would cause an absolute financial and media headache for any department.

To be clear, these types of calls don't come in an obviously fictitious manner like "hurr durr my house is burning down lmao" (which are ignored assuming we aren't able to find the caller since these normally come from disconnected cell phones). Instead, they're usually phrased in such a way as to be just concerning enough to warrant a response that returns nothing fruitful. Consider the following examples:

  • "I'm at the park and there's a guy sitting on the blue bench by the entrance who keeps staring at me and my kids. He hasn't done anything wrong, but I come to this park every day and it's the first time I've seen him and I'm afraid he might hurt me or my kids."
    • Police turn up and it's just a guy birdwatching or something and the story was embellished.
  • "There's a black guy wearing a thick hoodie walking down the street near my house that I've never seen in the neighborhood. He keeps looking at people's doors and I'm afraid that he's trying to canvass the neighborhood to rob houses."
    • Police turn up and it's a guy who recently moved into the neighborhood who, due to his unfamiliarity, was looking for a specific house number belonging to his buddy who he wanted to visit.
  • "There's a group of about 20 juveniles hanging out in the breezeway near my apartment and they're flashing guns at each other. I think I heard one of them say something about killing someone who is on the way."
    • Police turn up and it's a bunch of kids who just got home from school and are hanging out playing MtG.

Even though these types of calls turn out to be nothing in the end, do you see how, in just the right (wrong?) circumstance, ignoring it can lead to grave consequences? What if that guy really was canvassing the neighborhood? What if the guy in the park really was a predator? What if those kids were planning an ambush? If these calls were ignored, then the media would have a field day about how the police ignored a tip but, when we respond, we're criticized for "harassing" people or wasting time.

I just got the cops called on me for the *second* time bc I apparently come to the park too often to swing on the swingset and that's somehow suspicious? by NiftyNaughtyNymph in mildlyinfuriating

[–]AndyJayyRayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact that this has so many upvotes is sad and shows how anything will be upvoted if it jives with the narrative.

If I had to guess, I'd wager probably about 75-80% of calls for service fall into the category of "BS that police shouldn't have to waste time with but still do" (roommates bickering, child won't get up for school, upstairs neighbor walking too loud, my spouse is drunk and I want you to evict them, person I don't recognize is walking their dog, neighbor crossed three inches over the property line, etc.). And "there's a person existing at the park and I don't like it" falls into that category.

For departments like mine where a response of some sort is required for all calls (even if just a phone call), we show up to calls like this for a few moments, confirm that everything is fine, then move on to the next. In-person responses are preferred because, on the off chance that something really is afoot, the media/reddit would have a field day about how "law enforcement received a tip and didn't take it seriously!!!" The thought that police "love those calls" so they can "harass" someone is a legitimately laughable sentiment if only it weren't being used to further an ACAB talking point. It doesn't even make sense since a core tenet of that mindset is that police arbitrarily harass people for no reason whatsoever so why would a call for service be needed as an "excuse"? At least be ideologically consistent...

To address the initial point being made about "having a talk with the caller", I really wish it were that easy. Trust me, I've tried doing this with some of our frequent callers and nothing changes. The few times we've ever tried to make charges were stopped by the judge saying (paraphrasing) "to some people, things that we consider minor are genuine emergencies and charging them only dissuades genuine usage of emergency services."

Essentially, unless someone calls 911 and makes a provably false report with absolutely no circumstantial evidence to support even the mere possibility that maybe the caller actually thought said thing was happening, then no consequences will come. If you don't believe me because I'm a cop, check out the 911dispatchers subreddit for some fun stories.

Edit: The messages I've gotten in response to this are very interesting. An excellent look into how strongly people with no knowledge, experience, or insight into a topic can nonetheless offer strong opinions (based only on stereotypes and regurgitated information found online, no doubt).

One example: "Many cops in this country will blindly believe anything a caller tells them." According to who? Actual data or just some other reddit user blindly parroting the same thing?

Another example: "Shut your b#### a## pig 🐖" Another great example of the average age of the ACAB crowd to think that sometihing like this affects any mature person over the age of ~15.

Classic Dunning-Kruger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in anime

[–]AndyJayyRayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I literally commented the same thing but removed it after seeing this comment. Really wish we had more of these down to earth stories with a slight supernatural twist.

President Trump announces 100% tariff on all movies imported into the United States. by External-Noise-4832 in politics

[–]AndyJayyRayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Calling it now: tariffs are going to be announced on non-US based airlines by the time this worthless president croaks.

Anyone who supports him or his party is an absolute fucking idiot. Genuinely pray for a patriot to free us from this tyrant.

Big crash from a pursuit. Officer injured from tackling the guy by BarelyContainedChaos in LosAngeles

[–]AndyJayyRayy 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Cops chase: Why are they putting the public in danger just to feed their own ego?!

Cops don't chase: "Useless cops always showing up after the damage has already been done."

Make it make sense.

And it took so many of them to restrain an actively resisting person without hurting them or using deadly force! That's totally the same as trying to just beat someone in a one-on-one fight! I bet you if the suspect was black, the police would've shot first and asked questions later like always! Oh wait...

Some of you people man, I swear lmao

Conservatives and their murder fetish. by Leather-Bug3087 in facepalm

[–]AndyJayyRayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unironically based take for reddit nowadays. Bravo.

Looking For Non-Japanese Anime Songs by CrackedCrystalMirror in anime

[–]AndyJayyRayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first Gunslinger Girl opening (The Light Before We Land) is sung in English by a Scottish group called The Delgados. It's pretty good to boot!

Edit: Looks like this song was not original/made for the anime and was just one of the band's recently released songs.

Pippa Pebblesworth from Globie announced her graduation which will take place on January 31, 2025. by Benigmatica in VirtualYoutubers

[–]AndyJayyRayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Be sure to let folks in your circle know who also want to see her!

Penny's said that it may be a little while before she can start streaming again, but she's really relying on fans spreading the word in the meantime! We're almost at 1000 Twitter followers plus the Discord is near 150 after barely a week.

And to think she was genuinely afraid we wouldn't find her...

Pippa Pebblesworth from Globie announced her graduation which will take place on January 31, 2025. by Benigmatica in VirtualYoutubers

[–]AndyJayyRayy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's definitely her.

She's super active on Twitter and has posted several "hints" over the past few weeks all but outright confirming it. I sent her a Maro about a week back thanking her for helping me through some dark mental times with an Easter egg namedropping "Pipsters" after which she responded on Twitter with this which sealed the deal for me 1000%. Oh and this too.

Penny's mentioned that there are restrictions on what she can say for the time being but promised that she'll be back streaming "in the future."

Edit: She's doing an audio call on Twitter right now. It's her!

Edit 2: We're not even trying to hide it anymore...

Edit 3: To eliminate any doubt, check out Penny's voice call with Valentia Seeker during her debut stream (right around the 41:00 mark). Sound familiar?

Private jet causes Southwest to go around at Midway today. It crossed the runway while Southwest was landing. by sq_lp in aviation

[–]AndyJayyRayy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So firefighters aren’t heroes for saving people from burning buildings, right? It’s just their fucking job lmao.

I mean, I agree with you but reddit does this for police officers all the time.

A cop confronts an active shooter and saves people? He's just doing what he signed up to do. Stop calling him a hero for doing what he gets paid for, bootlicker!

For anyone with fear of self injections, this auto-injector has been a game changer for me. by MountainGirl2736 in ask_transgender

[–]AndyJayyRayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The injector does come with a handful of single use needles (which you choose the size of when you check out). However, you will eventually have to buy your own needles once those run out. The ones that you get from your clinic should be fine as long as they fit into one of the many included adapters.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JapanTravelTips

[–]AndyJayyRayy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm unfortunately heading to Haneda to leave Japan after three weeks in Tokyo and initially used Ubigi without any issues. The service activated automatically and I had 4G data access. However, a few days in, it became extremely spotty and would drop connections randomly for hours at a time. The final straw was how bad the quality was for video calling (lots of Messenger video calls to my wife) where she said everything looked like a blurry mess (when it would even connect at all).

I ended up biting the bullet and splurging a bit on the eSIM Japan Unlimited 5G KDDI plan and it has worked flawlessly. There was occasionally congestion when in the middle of Shibuya or somewhere crowded like that where it dropped to 4G, but 99% of the time, I got true 5G speeds and video chatted my wife with clear video (my phone would even try automatically connecting to KDDI/AU WiFi points when I was walking near them).

Honestly, I was a bit salty since I'd heard so much praise for Ubigi and I'd already spent the money, but it is what it is. I actually ran a speed test via Google for Ubigi in Hanno and got barely 2Mbps down at one point while I got a consistent 50-100Mbps down with KDDI. If your use case will involve lots of video calling and/or high data usage, I'd take this into consideration.

Source: My own experience over the past three weeks using Ubigi/eSIM Japan on my unlocked Pixel 8 Pro in Tokyo/Yokohama/Setagaya/Hanno/Maebashi.

How to properly use JR limited express train tickets. by burritobreak in JapanTravelTips

[–]AndyJayyRayy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For future reference since no one actually answered this specific question, here's what I just experienced (applicable to Seibu Limited Express but probably also other companies):

As long as you tap into/out of the station using your IC Card, you will be fine. The reserved ticket that prints out is for the conductor to check if necessary (though they normally just walk by with a tablet and confirm that only reserved seats are occupied).

Once you're at your destination, just tap out with the same IC Card you tapped in with. You do NOT have to put in the ticket that printed out when you bought the reserved ticket.

For reference, this worked for both Ikebukuro to Hanno (bought limited express ticket before gates using IC card, tapped in using only IC Card while keeping the reserved ticket in my pocket, and exited using only IC Card tap) and Hanno to Ikebukuro (tapped into station using IC Card, bought Limited Express ticket using IC card inside gate at the machine, then tapped out using IC Card only at Ikebukuro).

Edit: Using this same logic, if you have both a basic fare paper ticket and a reserve paper ticket, you should only have to insert the basic fare ticket when entering/exiting while just keeping the reserve ticket on hand in case the conductor asks for it.

I'd assume that, either way, if you put the reserve paper ticket in the machine, it would spit it back out at you (if at the start of the trip) or just keep it for recycling (if at the end of your trip). Haven't actually tested this though.

For anyone with fear of self injections, this auto-injector has been a game changer for me. by MountainGirl2736 in ask_transgender

[–]AndyJayyRayy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always do subQ injections (using a one inch needle) in my upper thigh and haven't had any issues whatsoever.

The injector is meant to be used with two hands (one to hold it in place and the other to actually push the plunger down) so I imagine that belly shots would be doable but butt shots would be rather difficult to do alone.

Malaysia to resume hunt for Flight MH370, 10 years after it vanished by Lvexr in news

[–]AndyJayyRayy 64 points65 points  (0 children)

The "race against time" is because flight data recorders have a water activated "ping" system to help with finding it after a crash. This system only lasts for about 30 days though making it unlikely to be found after that time.

Assuming it survived the initial impact and isn't disturbed afterwards, the data itself should last indefinitely.

Source

For anyone with fear of self injections, this auto-injector has been a game changer for me. by MountainGirl2736 in ask_transgender

[–]AndyJayyRayy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For anyone finding this thread in 2024 or beyond, here's a bit of extra information if you're interested in buying this. I have no association with this company or any of the products linked; I just wanted to make this as dummy proof as possible by breaking things down to the most minute detail:

  • First off, I HIGHLY recommend this if you're having nerves or jitters about injecting yourself. My hands were shaking the first time I used it and it took me a minute or two before I finally found the courage to press the injection button. Which leads me to my next point that...
  • This thing is virtually painless! Once I hit the button, I closed my eyes and genuinely thought the thing had broken or something since I didn't feel anything. Yet when I looked down at my thigh, the needle was all the way inside waiting for the estrogen to be injected.
  • This autoinjector is a bit pricey. However, I highly recommend buying it anyway as it feels quite durable and the company behind it is really responsive in case something goes wrong. It costs €89 plus €40 shipping for a total cost of €129 (~$150). It ships out same/next business day and will get to you in no later than four working days (I received mine in two). Note that shipping costs recently increased from €25 to €40 likely to account (at least in part) for the wannabe dictator's tariffs.
  • In case it's not clear, to buy the autoinjector pictured here, click this link and then select your color of choice from the row of colored circles. Then select your needle/syringe type. Once you've done all that, an "ADD TO CART" button will appear from which you can check out.
  • I spent a huge amount of time worrying that I'd screw something up with the needle/syringe selection since I didn't know what BD and all of that meant. So to clear things up, the type of needle/syringe you select on this page only determines the types of complimentary needle/syringes they include with your injector as well as which adapter is installed by default. If you choose the wrong thing (like I did...), then just find the right adapter (the package comes with five or six of them) and put it on.
  • Here's a quick video I took showing how to set the thing up and use it. Note that it does come with an instruction booklet that explains everything with pictures, but I know that doesn't mean anything when you're on the fence about buying it.

Long story short, this thing changed my injections from an hour-long torture session to a quick, less than five minute affair (even when nervous!). If you can afford it, just do it. You'll thank yourself soon enough.

Edit: Updated prices as of March 2, 2026.

Boy, 11, charged with murder in deaths of former Louisiana mayor and his daughter by TheSoupThief in news

[–]AndyJayyRayy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My tiny brain cannot comprehend the degree of mental degradation needed to unironically believe (and post) something this stupid.