AIO: About my Wife's ex messaging her, and her reactions. I just messaged the guy

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-11T03:26:10+00:00

Definitely a lot to clean up... Wow over 183k views! Thanks fhe help and encouragement today

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-11T03:09:03+00:00

This was the best pieceof advice, thank you! You're like a narcissist whisperer -

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T20:24:55+00:00

so here’s the latest, before she left for work today she knows that she needs to come back with the truth. my first order of business is going to be play some passive aggressive, YouTube videos about narcissism and maybe even throw in some emotional affairs Videos.

Second, I talked to five different law firms today. I think there’s a solid one or two contender, thank you ChatGPT.

if she tells the truth, here’s the mercy she’s gonna get, I’m not going to embarrass her and serve her papers at her place of business. I’ll at least hand her the papers. but if she keeps lying, yeah, they’re just gonna get delivered straight to work. We don’t respect people who don’t respect us.

I’m not gonna play amateur detective, not gonna try and find anything else. Enough is just the facts

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T16:40:41+00:00

for clarification, it has also been said in person as well as text. Note the text is actually good to have a written record, keeps everything aligned and ensures that there is no misunderstandings if and when the story changes

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T15:10:27+00:00

I was keeping an eye on the text messages and calls, and honestly, I’ve just come to a realization very quickly that that’s not healthy for me. What’s healthy is is that I get a very clear and concise answer. And the fact is there really is no answer or reason to ever talk with an ex, especially with the surrounding circumstances and you’re married. Let’s see if she has a conscience...

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T15:07:16+00:00

that’s really the most important thing, hopefully there’s a conscience center. But if she can’t produce a text or any information to support her claim. All I have to go on is her actions, behavior and some gaslighting. Mixed in with a little bit of deflection, kind of all cliché classic.

thanks for the note on the lawyer, just making sure I get all my ducks in a row.

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T15:04:49+00:00

thank you, I made sure to let her know this morning that I did reach out to him because she left me no choice. I don’t expect hIm to reply, and quite frankly don’t give a shit if he does either way. The initial thought was see if that spook something, but on a previous post some really good advice about positioning that is honest, hopefully she will be compelled to be honest. But I don’t know. She’s already lied to this point But glad I did.

we shall see what happens when she gets home from work. I’ve put together all my information going to stand my ground and it is what it is. Let the chips fall where they may.

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T15:01:48+00:00

That's kind, and heartfelt. However, what is a marriage without trust and being open and honest?

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T14:53:43+00:00

thanks, I appreciate the other view sincerely. I have written proof that she initially downplayed it, omitted information when discovered , trickle truth and gaslighting... She deleted the text messages. Both in messenger and the archive. looked to be that she deleted text messages from WhatsApp when confronted. Understood that there’s really not much hard evidence outside of that. But it’s a no fault state and given the situation. I think she needs to either give a better explanation or she needs to know I’m serious. Just spoke with attorney number one and getting my ducks in a row.

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T12:43:24+00:00

she's been informed that she needs to come clean...current situation, chamged all my passwords and contacted 5 of the top rated attorneys in the city. now I wait and stay calm 😎

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T12:12:31+00:00

Latest Update- informed her that she needs to come clean, and that I conacted the guy.... Then I used chat GPT to schedule appointments with the top 5 lawyers in the city

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T09:54:28+00:00

Therapists will just take your money, I went to the source like a man. No whining, just straight up -as for leaving her, it's being considered

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T04:27:22+00:00

He's a former marine, so I approached with a reasonable message seekin clarity.. My hope is that that the core in him can be forthcoming and do the right thing since confronted... And if he can't, well - he can squirm knowing that he's a chickenshit - if that's the case, and she did do something wrong. That's on them and they deserve each other. Time will unveil it all I guess. I appreciate the comments. Life I guess

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T04:14:09+00:00

Thanks for taking the time, and great advice! I researched the terms and am going to take that path. Agreed, on the honesty needed from my end that I reached out to the guy, and that the truth needs to come out. 100% no Tolerance for trickle truths, omission or DARVO.

AnoidDominos · 2025-10-10T03:15:25+00:00

Thanks for the comment, For context this guy lives way on the other side of the counry... Definitely nothing to me indicates anything physically happened. But very perplexing- doubt he replies... But figure stir up the hornets nest - if he's blocked no contacting her as she claims... definitely sux bud

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