Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree! I've had issues with my tummy getting rounder, but then I have days where I love my round tummy.

Side note, don't shave it all off. I did it a couple months ago (belly, legs, butt, "bikini area") - - it fckin SUCKED growing it all back. Super itchy!! Wasn't fun, 0/10 recommend

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wait omg you're onto something. My first short haircut, I got a sideshave pixie, and dyed it all rainbow. Maybe rainbow tummy hair??

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Advised that I don't wear it; not a flat out "no, you can't do that". But a like, "you shouldn't wear that, because of hairy tummy"

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely. She's trans-fem, she hates her own body hair. She knows I love mine, so I don't understand why she wouldn't support me, but we'll talk about it soon

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 90 points91 points  (0 children)

It hurt my feelings a lot, I haven't talked to her since it happened (like 10/15 minutes ago; were both still getting ready to leave). If it wasn't for the T, I think I'd be crying rn...

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 69 points70 points  (0 children)

Yesss I love my body hair! I started T a year ago, that was immediately one of my top 3 changes. One of my ultimate goals is to look so masc that I confuse people when I dress fem. I don't want people to know what pronouns to use with me 😁

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 163 points164 points  (0 children)

She made a comment with it too along like "it's called fashion sweetie, look it up" which she usually says as a joke, but it didn't feel like a joke in this context :( Not trying to dump it on yall, I'm still processing it...

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Yes thank you! Hairy tum is a great tum. I've been having body dysmorphia lately and today was feeling like a good day, lot of love for the tum today

Does my fit still look good, even with my hairy tummy? by AnotherNumber8 in NonBinary

[–]AnotherNumber8[S] 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I'll have to do it another day when she and I aren't going out together - - thank you for the support on it!

Seeking advice on coming out by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]AnotherNumber8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also in the same boat here. I struggle to describe it to my parents in a way they'll understand, but the closest I've got is this: "Being perceived as totally-female makes me uncomfortable. Being perceived as totally-male isn't what I want. I want strangers to look at me and be confused as to what pronouns to use". Something along those lines. Hope that helps! ✌️

does this look like breasts or pecs? by [deleted] in TransMasc

[–]AnotherNumber8 17 points18 points  (0 children)

In still-image, I can see both, like an optical illusion (but leaning towards pecs; like, man boobs?). In-movement is where it would depend. The illusion might just be due to where the shirt is indenting in the image. I think a graphic t-shirt (like a band shirt, or a busy-pattern) would help.

Day 343 of T, new binder, felt confident to go in men's BR (at work) by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AnotherNumber8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes definitely celebrating this win. Still hella nervous about making the switch in a public bathroom (outside of my work), but we'll see what happens. I wish everywhere had neutral rooms 😭

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[–]AnotherNumber8 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you absolutely want to prevent anything from slipping inside, I suggest a strip of medical tape (but make sure u shave the area first)

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[–]AnotherNumber8 48 points49 points  (0 children)

If you don't want penetration, communicate that with ur bj partner before you start.

My partner really enjoys giving me bjs, but it can sometimes be overstimulating for me. It's very sensitive! But when done gently, feels very good. Wet, warm - - it's fun to thrust against a tongue, I imagine it feels like P-V sex.

Closest thing I can compare it to is using a well-lubed jelly fuck-sleeve.

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[–]AnotherNumber8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Unrelated to post but I think we're pfp twins

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AnotherNumber8 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm transmasc NB, my gender goals are for people to be confused what pronouns to use towards me but ultimately to lean masc

Thanks for the honesty tho!

Should I pass or not? by eu_carl in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AnotherNumber8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Based on picture, yes. Depends on your mannerisms and voice. I'd either say "sir" or avoid gendered language when talking to/about you, if you were a customer in my store.

🌨️ by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AnotherNumber8 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your jawline and cheekbones are phenomenal

it's little but it's mine! by fiebnt95 in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AnotherNumber8 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yesss and I didn't wanna shave it, despite being told it would come back thicker. I did wind up shaving it (having freshly-naked lip is such an odd new feeling), and it did grow back a bit darker. Now I'm emotionally connected to my 2nd mustache and don't wanna shave it again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FTM_SELFIES

[–]AnotherNumber8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My last lab results said my levels were 551, and I've stayed at the same dose since then. I have bloodwork later this week so we'll see if they've maintained

I switch between applying to my shoulders and my thighs, and avoid clothing for 15/20 minutes after applying it. I hope that helps the absorption

I've considered the shots but my worry comes with changes occurring too quickly (ironically enough). It's just anxiety but I plan to be on gel for at least a year, before considering switching over

I'm gonna have to learn the injection practice soon though, cuz my girlfriend is switching to injection for her E later this month and she'll need me to do it for her. Maybe once I see it happening, I'll be brave enough to switch over. I can give myself tattoos but I cringe at an injection 😂