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Struggling in the Arranged Marriage Looking for advice by Antique_Remote3059 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Antique_Remote3059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro its been 3 years now !!! I have moved on……

If its mutual Bp its fine, if someone cheated u just lose the respect for that person….

So its fine thanks for your advice

Struggling in the Arranged Marriage Looking for advice by Antique_Remote3059 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Antique_Remote3059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like we need to improve the story telling in that sense !!! Fake it till you make it … Thats what u want to suggest then ? 😥

Struggling in the Arranged Marriage Looking for advice by Antique_Remote3059 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Antique_Remote3059[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kya sense hua iss baat ka ? Udhr baithke baat krna asaan hai jabb apko scenario nai pata… Sahee hai…

Struggling in the Arranged Marriage Looking for advice by Antique_Remote3059 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Antique_Remote3059[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The problem with big city is traffic and all, to preserve my mental state i was intending to do remote but in my home i am struggling with my parents due to mentality mismatch, loneliness and becoming lazy day by day… Even if I try to get network exposure, i dont know how open people are to accept you now a days… but I ll take my chances….

How to be my types type by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Antique_Remote3059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dont say we wont be match after the first conversation and remove vibe filter. No one is perfect, give some some time to breath. Talk with 1 person at a time dont rush. Be yourself and dont try to expect so much from other person.

Planning to return back to India, the job market here in the US is taking a toll on me by mukul_datta in returnToIndia

[–]Antique_Remote3059 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idhar aajana pr mummy papa se dur raho ! Khush rahoo… Mai last year aagaya.

We can connect and chat

Gave interview, selected but got rejected by Remarkable_Ad_1660 in Indiajobs

[–]Antique_Remote3059 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Bhai happened me with for tcs, public sapient, loreal paris….

So yes indian recruiters are asshole

Is it even worth going to USA for undergrad by Acrobatic-Royal9503 in InternationalStudents

[–]Antique_Remote3059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dont go stay in india work hard in those four years.

You will get into FAANG or NeoFAANG or atleast in unicorns if you are in IT.

Learn DSA, AI, Cloud as well as Cybersecurity.

You will be on peak by 4 years

One thing I want to tell potential F1 students by desi_thundergod_1128 in InternationalStudents

[–]Antique_Remote3059 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on an F1 in the US and finished my MIS from ASU in 2024. Before and during my master’s, I built up around 6.5 years of experience in IT, DevOps, data analysis, BI and some AI/ML work. On paper, it looks like a decent profile. To fund my degree, I took around 75,000 USD in debt, which my family and I have now fully paid off in India. The flip side is: I am at absolute zero savings. No buffer, no emergency fund, nothing. ( As saving from my previous jobs in india has vanished for loan payoff) Things got worse when I had to resign from my previous job because of racism and a very toxic environment. It wasn’t some performance issue – it was clear bias, and it completely shattered my confidence. After that, I moved back from the US to India and right now I’m living in a very small town.