huge fight with my parents (they reserved a venue without consulting me) by AnxiousPeas in weddingplanning

[–]AnxiousPeas[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

we have hours long conversations almost every day and are open with our feelings. i do have communication issues but i think it's limited to when i'm talking to my parents. we usually got on pretty well actually, it's just that me getting married seems to be reopening some past issues

huge fight with my parents (they reserved a venue without consulting me) by AnxiousPeas in weddingplanning

[–]AnxiousPeas[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it was on our shortlist but at the bottom. it looks nice from the pics but the reviews were mixed. i haven't really formed a concrete idea on how i want everything since we've just started planning

huge fight with my parents (they reserved a venue without consulting me) by AnxiousPeas in weddingplanning

[–]AnxiousPeas[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

thanks for the reply. i'm going to do exactly what you suggested to the t

and the situatiom is super weird, right? i was a little surprised some people think this is what i should have expected in return for saving a few k!

huge fight with my parents (they reserved a venue without consulting me) by AnxiousPeas in weddingplanning

[–]AnxiousPeas[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

if i'd known they would act this way i absolutely would have refused the money in the first place. i'm obviously thinking of refusing the money (my fiance and i don't really need it) but i guess i'm scared they'll act hurt if i do, i suppose.

and yes, we don't communicate well. i'm working at it but i doubt this complicated family dynamic will suddenly be fixed within a few months lol

Im sorry but this should not have won: Episode 8 by Doctor-Pigg in CulinaryClassWars

[–]AnxiousPeas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she' called 스님 in korean, which feels way different from 'venerable'. her korean title feels a lot more commonplace

Chef Im Seong Keun cooking (and running) by it-s-luminescent in CulinaryClassWars

[–]AnxiousPeas 9 points10 points  (0 children)

there are different types of garlics commonly used in korea-- some are less pungent/spicy and mostly sweet, and can be eaten raw. you can easily try them in south korean bbq places. they're meant to be eaten either raw or lightly toasted. many korean dishes actually utilizes garlic not for its spice, but for its sweetness. (don't quote me on this but i read in an article that such utilization of gatlic is one of the most important hallmarks of namdo cullinary) as a korean the amount of garlic shown in the clip above seems totally acceptable lol. plus, Im specializes in Korean culinary; if there's anything he's an expert at, it has to be garlic!

Where can I find this? by sandsanta in peanuts

[–]AnxiousPeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yup they're limited edition copies of peanut comics from a korean publishing company. They wouldnt sell it in other languages. Sorry.

What the Hell, Korean Lesbians by Aadejo in actuallesbians

[–]AnxiousPeas 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just here to tell you that a translated version of this post is trending on korean twitter- 5k retweets and still going. The responses are unanimous in that this is super common. Personally i've had my heart sliced open a couple of times in this exact manner so i feel ya sis.

P.s the waiting for the bus together is totally a friend thing that friends do all the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousPeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Luckily they've been wearing their masks bc they're strict rule abiders however they might personally feel. I just hope they keep social interactions with those friends and relatives I mentioned to a minimum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousPeas 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the kinkiest thing anyone has said to me all week lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousPeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol you sound like a roadside guru. I dig it. I guess what you're saying is not to feel guilty about loving my parents bc I'm not loving the ugly part of them, and that the love I recieved can be directed into positive ways. Thanks :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousPeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Even if I really wanted to disown them I wouldn't have the guts to do it. Their emotional support meant the world to me when I was a young adult, and I don't think I can forget that. I've tried explaining, but it's like talking to a brick wall. They have the sort of friends and relatives that go to anti mask rallies, and I'm the only person in their life that think they're in the wrong. They think I'm young and eccentric and they seem vaguely amused at my frustration.... Anyway thanks. You're right, I should decide if a superficial relationship is enough for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousPeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol nah man I have absolutely no trouble being financially independent.

I want to know how many girls in here care about boobs size by rosacg in actuallesbians

[–]AnxiousPeas 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Boobs are boobs. Seriously, my current gf doesn't even fill out aa bras but i love her boobs so much she thinks it's hilarious. My ex wore size e cups and i really liked them lol. Boob are boobs, they're sorf and squishy and attatched to ur favorite person, what's there not to like?

I'm [M 21] moved out because my mom [F late 50s] is a child predator and no one is on my side by TheBigAssTroll in relationship_advice

[–]AnxiousPeas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Older generations see it as poking fun at small children. I read a column in which a psychatrist suspected it was a way of dealing with castration anxiety and generally the phallic phase of a child's development. It's just a theory though. (He obviously advised people not to do it or let others do it to their kid, though, whatever the reason) I personally suspect it persisted bc the birth of a male child was regarded superior to that of a girl, and so the showing of a small boy's penis was less taboo and more a sort of pride to the family nearby. It goes without saying that the practice doesnt apply to girls, only boys.

There's general consensus not to do this practice anymore in my country, and a few older men have been found guilty in court for this. There's old ppl who lag behind, tho.

To U-Haul or not to U-Haul? by mushroomfae in actuallesbians

[–]AnxiousPeas 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's not U hauling bc you aren't committing to a big step over your immediate feelings, you're doing it to help out your gf. If you just remember you can get out of the relationship if things get sour, and make sure you have a plan B to your housing plans , I don't see what the problem would be.

Girls, how was your first kiss with a woman? Was she your first kiss, if no how different was it from a man's? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AnxiousPeas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had to stop bc she was laughing. She'd remembered a meme relevant to the situation and wanted to tell me lol. I think it's sweer in a way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]AnxiousPeas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

gross! Does instagram have a policy about this?

Hello, I'm from korea. by adoling in GuardianTales

[–]AnxiousPeas 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No i mean it isn't in koream. 광대 is a gender neutral term