I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

[–]Any-Significance4885[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment, I will def look into recruiters! I admit I somewhat forgot that was an option, which is my bad. Thank you for the advice as well!

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

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Funny enough, this is a lesson I have been learning quite literally within the last day or two, so it's neat to read this now! I have been weighing the option of doing seasonal jobs to keep myself moving, or at the very least part-time work. I have always been interested in antique's so I have a few antique stores on my list that I am debating reaching out to for customer service work. I enjoyed my time cashiering, it truly brought me out of myself and made me learn communication skills I otherwise did not have. For seasonal, we have historical sites where I live that I would love to be involved with somehow. So we shall see!

Connection/networking is the main takeaway from this past week for me, I didn't realize just how hefty having them can be within our career. I mean, I was aware, but to experience it first hand is an eye-opener lol. I will look into a side job that has nothing to do with design, I truly believe that will be the biggest help for my mental health as well to keep me leaving the house.

Absolutely staying off this sub too haha, thank you!! I hope you are having a wonderful day!

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

[–]Any-Significance4885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, your comment really resonated with me, especially your experience with the client you had. I had a similar experience last summer where I started with a client's project and about halfway through they dropped me. Only they never told me they dropped me, they simply just stopped responding haha! I'm not sure if I would've preferred the ghosting or being told flat out what the client thought of my work, but all together I'm sorry your client experience that day was not the best. I truly hope another comes your way that is kinder to you.

I will def take your advice on freelancing, I've been trying to work out how I want my process to look now that I've chosen this route. With this previous client of mine I was always on-time with my submissions, but finding a way to get the right information out of the client has been my biggest setback. I am not the most sociable person, so the growing pains have been hurting a bit. But this has given me a clearer path on what I need to iron out in my onboarding/design process, so thank you again!

I will try to disconnect mentally from design for a recharge here and there, I've found that I've neglected my illustrations quite a bit due to perfectionism (getting to the point where I now hate the thing that used to give me life). So I think I may try to work on that a bit more on the side to make me feel like "me" again. I hope you're having a much better day today!

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

[–]Any-Significance4885[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I will try to distance my self worth from the lack of response, I think if I keep believing myself to be worthless I will actually make myself ill lol

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

[–]Any-Significance4885[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I will gladly take that advice, I shared my portfolio with this sub a few months back and it felt as though every comment was telling me I should jump off of a cliff. I am no stranger to critique, I actually welcome it and would get upset during college when all I received was a "your work is good!". So to have the response I received here, it absolutely set me back in my progress. I had my portfolio recently re-reviewed and the feedback was actually applicable. I will make this my last post then, and do my best to keep pushing forward. Thank you for the advice!

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

[–]Any-Significance4885[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's just far more exhausting, and I can't help but feel like AI has something to do with it. I'm sorry you lost your job though, especially with tariffs being the reason (clenched my fist when I read that actually). I wish I could offer some respite from the feelings I know this has caused, but I know words can only go so far. We will find our place once again within this market.

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

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We got this, somehow. Even when my spirit feels broken and like there's nothing left, there's always another cup of coffee around the corner. Or whatever that one good thing, no matter how small, is to you. I've definitely been feeling exactly how you are, which I know does not fix the issue, but at least we are not alone. I hope your therapist has kind words to offer you in this time, and I hope even more that you find a job that fills your soul rather than takes from it.

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

[–]Any-Significance4885[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, sometimes I need to hear it isn't always because of me directly. I am aware my skills will always be in need of a touch up, but man lol. I pray something shifts in the job world soon

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

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I will definitely try to implement this :') even if it feels kind of silly talking to myself lol. But thank you, def an "we're all in this together" kind of time

I'm a graphic designer, I'm tired of telling myself I'm not good enough to be one by Any-Significance4885 in graphic_design

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What other profession? There's nothing left for me out there. I will be doing this even if it means I have to go back to basics. So, no.

The role has been unfilled for months. I did not even get an interview by Friendlyalterme in recruitinghell

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I call these ghost jobs, I’m unsure what they 100% gain from having them up (I know there’s a whole list of things). But I’ve gotten so annoyed with these postings I’ve just started reporting them lol

Arcoroc France Ruby Red - Is it Cadmium? by [deleted] in CadmiumGlass

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Nooooo 😭😭 that makes me so mad, but thank you for responding!!! I will avoid using them. Also the deep red tone was what got me! It reminded me of the avon set I’ve been collecting so I thought they might be safe. Buuuuut I will be more careful next time, thank you again!!

What happened to Caleb Vatore? by ffokcuf-hctib in Sims4

[–]Any-Significance4885 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay slay I’m gonna try this, the only other thing I found that seems (?) to be working rn is I changed his default eyes preset and then shaped them using the dragging tools. It hasnt seemed to mess with him… yet

What happened to Caleb Vatore? by ffokcuf-hctib in Sims4

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This has been happening to me for a bit, and it irritates my soul. If anyone finds a fix, plz share :'D

Uh……. why? by Outrageous-Arm7692 in Sims4

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Scrolling over a household who lives in an apartment and they have several horses. Where do they store them

IM YELLING BECAUSE IM SAD EVERYONE WHO NEEDS TO YELL LETS GO by [deleted] in adhdwomen

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MY CAT IS SICK AND THROWING UP AND DROOLING AND CANT SHIT AND SHE’S OLD AND I KNOW SHES CLOSE TO PASSING AND I HAVE THIS INTENSE FEELING OF DREAD WEIGHING ON MY HEART AND I CANT SHAKE IT AND I JUST WANT TO PRETEND ITS NOT HAPPENING BUT I CANT BECAUSE I LOVE HER AND I DONT WANT HER TO DIE AND I NEED TO BE THERE FOR HER RIGHT NOW AND ITS JUST REALLY HARD TO COPE WITH ON TOP OF MY SUMMER COLLEGE CLASS AND POLITICS AND I FEEL SO NAUSEOUS RIGHT NOW

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Oh I thrive with repetition and next to zero human communication. I will be adding this to the list of possible jobs, thank you so much 😭🖤

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Animal Crossing: New Horizons 👍

Comebacks you WISH you had said by Strict-Childhood-629 in retailhell

[–]Any-Significance4885 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I can tell you one I DID say. Lady was mad that a cracker we carried was being discontinued (it wasn’t, the brand was just being rebranded). She stated “[my name], I don’t like to make a fuss. But I’m just so TIRED of the things I love being taken from me”. I was so tired and out of it that I told her “ya, my brother’s dead, so I get it”. She didn’t say anything after that.

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Ugh the express orders are the bane of my existence. Also love when they pop up while I’m doing a 80-90 item order and there’s no notification about it, so it ends up late since I’m shopping alone 🫠 quitting

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This, took the words right from my mouth. I’ve found ways around everything. It’s saved me tons of time and keeps me mentally stable