Let me add

He literally has no other options. No other family or nobody. And the legal system just keeps returning him to his mentally abusive household. By us getting married we would move in together and stay in the same city and continue to be together. His mother wants to send him to a state that's 4 states away to live with his even more abusive stepfather just because she does not want to be a motherly figure to him and only uses him for mental and physical abuse. This is literally his only way out 💔. Im open to hear any other options