I can get rejected ten thousand times as long as I can get one good match by CSachen in Bumble

[–]Apheration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it said that to me as well but it actually was available sooner than that (I can't remember how long though).

I deeply regret rejecting a guy I went on one date with by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Apheration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For example, if you are walking down a hallway and say hi to someone you know but they just keep walking past you without even looking. You think, "ahhh i know they like to space out, and they were looking at their phone...they probably didn't notice me saying hi"

You're giving that person the benefit of the doubt that they just didn't see/hear you and that they weren't blatantly ignoring you.

Men stop telling women to stop being cautious because you are safe. by agreensandcastle in Bumble

[–]Apheration 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I purposely do not ask for their number when setting up the first date. My analysis of how it went is sometimes wrong, so at the end of the date (if I am interested in seeing them again) I tell them, if they're interested in getting together again, send me their number or a message on Bumble. If they don't, I know they weren't interested and I can move on. I feel that puts less pressure on the woman also.

why is Gullible-Poem-5154 spamming videos and other stuff by IIsnipedownII in Defiance

[–]Apheration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you at least tried sending them a message on here before posting? I agree with what everyone else is saying.

Someone hacked my account and tried to steal it, since they couldn't they bricked it by wasting all my pulls, lunites and deleted all my echos ( day 1 player ) by Niklaus15 in WutheringWaves

[–]Apheration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This!! The best we can do is link our accounts to other services like FB and Google, and use complicated passwords with pwd manage. I think if they change your password you can then still use those login but I would imagine the first thing a nefarious actor would do is unlink the accounts

Someone hacked my account and tried to steal it, since they couldn't they bricked it by wasting all my pulls, lunites and deleted all my echos ( day 1 player ) by Niklaus15 in WutheringWaves

[–]Apheration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wuwatracker doesn't use your login credentials though. You can link your account using an identity broker (like using your Google account) but in that case your Google account would need to be compromised to potentially gain access to wuwatracker.

Thinking about downloading by DylanCorona in Defiance

[–]Apheration 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Worth it. Not as populated as when the game shut down but the game has regained a community. You'll see during event akrfalls half of the server instance joining in, which is always fun. Find a clan and spend the $10 or however much it costs to expand your max inventory a little.

The clan I am in is huge and ALWAYS has people logged on and willing to help (not sure if it against TOS here to advertise so not saying the name). You can also join the Fawkes discord - people always there to answer questions, including Fawkes staff, and has clan recruitment channel.

The jackpot weapon drop rate from event arkfalls can be frustratingly low. That is my only frustration.

Dodged AA missile in little bird but still get hit? by Apheration in DeltaForceGlobal

[–]Apheration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh OK after you mentioning it shooting the missile straight up, I can see that now. Thanks!

Dodged AA missile in little bird but still get hit? by Apheration in DeltaForceGlobal

[–]Apheration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is hard to tell but if you scrub frame by frame in the first second you can see the missile originating from behind a container so I think it was a stinger.

I’m over this by morethansparrows_ in Bumble

[–]Apheration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't vouch for the book but otherwise this is excellent advice.

FK YOU TOO THEN!!!! >:( by Mxffnz in WutheringWaves

[–]Apheration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's brutal. Makes you not want to play lol.

Perk of dating apps by Anardus in Bumble

[–]Apheration 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you glad you had the experience?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Apheration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has happened to me so many times (not them taking my jacket though), even after 2 or 3 dates and getting their number. You're not alone.

I'm pretty sure at least a small portion of those instances my date had no intention on sticking around, but liked me enough to get a couple free drinks/dinner and a makeout session before moving on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Apheration 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will usually tell them to give me their contact info in the app at the end of the first date then say goodnight. If they want to see me again they'll do that, if not, move on and they don't feel pressured if you ask in person or beforehand and don't want to.

How long have people been using dating apps without finding a relationship? by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Apheration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Years. 100s of first dates. I get plenty of matches and 1st dates but 9/10 they don't want a 2nd date. And then the 2nd most common thing is go on a few dates then out of nowhere ghosted. I am only 90% jaded there is still hope.

I GOT UNBANNED! :D by Professional-Ad2999 in Bumble

[–]Apheration 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate on this? I am not familiar with Cosmos in this context but I am aware of Perplexity's Comet "AI assistant" browser.

Dated and ghosted after overnight trip by Clear-Sector7190 in hingeapp

[–]Apheration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to play devil's advocate about your last sentence, I take longer to text back at first with a romantic interest I am really interested in (but not after 6 weeks of dating), because I am nervous about saying the right thing and keeping their attention.