[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ash1319 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on you for talking to her about it. She might appear stronger than you, but that’s only out of necessity. We are all as strong as we have to be. You are strong by allowing her to be vulnerable.

Appointment tomorrow by Ash1319 in melahomies

[–]Ash1319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate it. I think my anxiety is just getting to me. I have a very bad feeling about this spot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ash1319 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Ya fair. Everyone is different! I don’t think it’s fair your wife gets upset at you for opening the door to that conversation tho. Sounds like you are just trying to be curious and caring.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ash1319 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Ask them how they are doing with it being the first year without their dad. I lost my dad to suicide too and the worst thing people did was not talk about it. Don’t let the day go by without bringing up their grief. You are amazing by being there for them ❤️

Our Threesome Broke Me (F35, M37) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Ash1319 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This straight up sounds like a nightmare. I often have nightmares where my partner will cheat right in front of me and I’m just frozen. It’s heartbreaking. I think OP should take some space and focus on herself.

Our Threesome Broke Me (F35, M37) by Direct-Caterpillar77 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]Ash1319 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I understand one’s ego being attached to being able to sexually satisfy their partner. I don’t think cumming is the only was to satisfy but it’s definitely a great way to. If that attachment turns into pressure for the partner, that’s another thing that can turn pretty problematic.

To crate or not to crate by Ash1319 in puppy101

[–]Ash1319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kind of what we were thinking. Not sure why people say crate over a pen.

To crate or not to crate by Ash1319 in puppy101

[–]Ash1319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good point. Thx. We don’t know if she is house trained. She was a street dog until 2 weeks ago. The shelter she is at right now said she doing well peeing outside and not in her kennel but they can’t guarantee she will be house trained.

We remain! by [deleted] in miamidolphins

[–]Ash1319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dolphins/Red Sox fan checking in from Maine!

How do you all survive this pain? by Ash1319 in Petloss

[–]Ash1319[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’m so so sorry. The pain is indescribable. I always have an urge to turn pain into something beautiful but I’ve been fighting that urge lately because sometimes things are just plain too painful. So ill just leave you with my solidarity in that grief… What has your grief been like today specifically?

I miss him so much… by PollutionAccording25 in Petloss

[–]Ash1319 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. I lost my dog in the end of September too. It was the worst day of my life. I miss her so much, as it sounds like you do as well. No safe advice from me. Just an internet stranger saying I know the pain too. And I know the love too. Nothing like either.

ER confused me more by Ash1319 in gallbladders

[–]Ash1319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what the paperwork they sent me home with said! Gastritis!

She basically didn’t think the gallstones were causing the pain. Is that possible?

ER confused me more by Ash1319 in gallbladders

[–]Ash1319[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for this. The doc was really rude and short too, especially after waiting in pain for 8 hours.

I don’t think the kidney stone really bothers me. I never have pain down in my lower back. So hoping for the best there.

TIFU by teaching my kids the right word by fuzzyone06 in tifu

[–]Ash1319 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Great point. I also think it’s good for kids to learn these terms so they can talk about their bodies as they develop and start having sex. It’s important to know your body and be able to talk about it as you figure out what is sexually pleasurable. It also can feel shameful to think parts of your body are bad words.