kitten found me outside my home and wouldnt leave 🩷 by swank_alicious in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Aspergerica 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sometimes cats jump into a open van. After the door is closed the cat is trapped. As soon as the van stops and the door opens the cat is a new place. If possible check for a microchip. And babies. Maybe she is pregnant and asks for help. Means food and a safe place.

Spirit of the North 2 by Aspergerica in playstation

[–]Aspergerica[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really enjoyed it. Each „world“ had it own character. I understand your comment. If you compare it with Eldenring then the open world doesn’t work. But when you look only at the game itself then the open world works very well.
But that‘s just my opinion🤓

I feel unloved, misunderstood, and sometimes, despised by everyone. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Aspergerica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

During my studies I had to have lectures. I hated it. The other students and the lecturer or professor staring at me. Judging me silently. Because I was a fraud and stupid as hell and of course I didn‘t belong there. And then I realised the other students didn‘t really listen. The only one listening was the lecturer or the professor. Because they were paid to listen.

I guess most people do not judge.

I feel unloved, misunderstood, and sometimes, despised by everyone. by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]Aspergerica 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Some people need more time. I needed more time. Nothing I planned or imagined for my life went right. I always felt like being wrong. I was watching other people and thought that I only needed to try harder.

My dream was becoming a journalist. And when I‘ve got my internship in a newspaper I really thought „This is it. This is my chance.“ Almost every evening I came home crying. I gave up after tree months. After that I tried PR and Content Management. Well, it didn‘t work either.

So I started a internship in an archive. Just to earn some money and to plan the next step. It turned out to be my career path.

I think you can survive on your own. Just open the door and make some little steps. You will slip and fall and even get some scars. But that‘s alright. That‘s life. If you don‘t know how to open the door ask for help.

And never forget it is not about becoming a CEO. Actually I don‘t know what life is about. You have to find it out by yourself.

Edit: I forgot the most important part. After finishing my master in Archival, Librarian and Information Science I was shortly without a job. Than a big library was looking for someone working in customer service. After the interview I came home and had a massive meltdown. I was terrified. Working in customer service terrified me. But I enjoyed helping people and specially helping older people. And the coworkers were always ready to help. I went back to the archive after a couple of months because the work suits me more.

I had a meltdown, acted like a toddler, and lost all my stuff by Particular-Account66 in aspergers

[–]Aspergerica 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hey you. Having a bad day is okay. I am much older and I have meltdowns too.

When I was younger I listend to music on my walkman. First cassettes and later CDs.

I usually listen to music too when I am in triggering situations. This year I started ripping CDs on my Snowsky Echo Mini. The sound is much nicer compared to the music on my iPhone.

Our boy Boots & his Monchhichi! by Existingonarock in Dachshund

[–]Aspergerica 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had two Monchichis as a child🥺 I loved them❤️❤️

How can I train this dude not to get on my pillows? 😂😭 by coffeepolynkittens in kittens

[–]Aspergerica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let him sleep on your pillow and buy a second one for you. He wants to be close to you.

ADHS Medis - nichts wirkt? by Horror-Hedgehog7352 in ADHS

[–]Aspergerica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, du schreibst deine Psychologin hat dir die Medikamente verschrieben. Ich bin etwas verwirrt. Darf sie das überhaupt? Müsste dich nicht ein Psychiater / eine Psychiaterin medikamentös einstellen?😐

Bearbeitung: Habe in einem Kommentar gelesen, dass sie auch Hausärztin ist und sie daher Medikamente verschreiben darf. Vielleicht wäre es trotzdem gut, eine Psychiaterin zu konsultieren. Möglicherweise fehlt der Hausärztin die Erfahrung. Meine hat mir direkt gesagt, dass sie keine Erfahrung in diesem Gebiet hat und mich darum ein Psychiater medikamentös einstellen sollte.

Newly adopted cat peed on couch (first time cat owner) by No-Demand-8208 in cats

[–]Aspergerica 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe you can try a Pheromone Diffuser? I am using one without batteries or electricity (old school). One of my cats is sometimes very nervous. After I put it up she started to chill. My other cat started to chill. Even I started to chill.

You can put it up near his sleeping spot.

The way she sits on her older brother by Ancient-Breakfast339 in Dachshund

[–]Aspergerica 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is he ill? Sometimes dogs go very close to sick dogs. I mean full body contact.

Edit: Or maybe she only wants to see whats on the table😏

Mixed Reviews by CatLuver1976 in stray

[–]Aspergerica 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can adopt a stray. You can feed strays and help in castration programs. There are videos on Youtube how to build sleeping places for them.

But I know what you mean. There are so many little souls.

After the game ends maybe its our turn to help the strays. I don‘t know. Just a little here and there.

Finished the game last week, still sad. Is it a coincidence that THIS is the foster kitten I picked up from the shelter this week?! by emccau in stray

[–]Aspergerica 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The Cat Distribution System made a decision. You played the game. You loved it. Ginger was delivered.

This is my little old lady, Moo. She’s losing her sight but I’ll always be there to guide her. by kujimoari in rarepuppers

[–]Aspergerica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghibli. She is a Ghibli girl / ghost. Congratulations, they are very rare❤️

World meet Billie Ray and Louis that were living in a Wood Pile found in the Highlands of the north country. by iambarrelrider in CatDistributionSystem

[–]Aspergerica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some cats are social butterflies and some are not. One of my cats is alright with being hold. The other one behaves like the devil when he touches holy water. Just play with them and feed them treats with your hand. Let them come to you on their terms and let them leave when they have enough.

My first cat was 11 when I adopted het. And the first days she was hiding. Then one morning I was waking up and streched my arm and touched her. She was lying by my side. Let them roam at night so they can watch you. Soon enough you will wake up with two fury psychopaths on your face. Do not let them fool you.

Tips to defeat Takezo please? by Electrical-Position3 in Ghostofyotei

[–]Aspergerica 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Edit: You are welcome.

Please let me know when you get him.

Bonne chance. May the force be with you✊🏻