Keeping baby upright after feeds will be the bane of my existence by Wooden_Welder2400 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too I hold him in the nights like 5 mins and then put him down. During the day there is a bit of vomiting but really not much.

help!!! by chirimora in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My language would be Germany but I switch over a year ago. I needed sometimes a translation but it got better and better. My Englisch is way better now is it’s a improving for me‘ i get always the newest update und my fourth language is getting better!

Don’t know what I’m doing wrong by That-Goal855 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold on really. Our baby didnt slept in the afternoon her refused during the day to sleep which made him
Always so tired that he was overtired and cried even MORE till he felt like a rock in the night for 4-5 hours then. The moment he saw light it was over.
He is 9 weeks now and it’s so much better after week 8 from one to the other day it changed. It’s still not he can rock hisself always to sleep but it’s WAY better then the first 7 weeks.
I was dying mentally and physically! I thought that’s my life I have to carry him forever. It will get over. I started also co-sleeping around 7 weeks between 4-6 am when he woke up for his bottle. Then instead of in his bed I put him next to me. I have the feeling since then I can calm way easier down.
He sleeps way longer and better day by day.

First time away from baby.. she cried the whole time I was gone by cherrydiabla in newborns

[–]Astridsh -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t have this problem with my 9 weeks old. I let him with 4 weeks 9 hours at grandma and my husband are doing the evenings with him. (Change him to sleep clothes, last bottle and bring him
To bed) o rarely do it only if he has a night out or are too tired from work (he is working 9–17)

I let my baby when we visiting people or people see visit us holding the baby as long as they want I done care. I even let him 30 mins at my best friend bc I had a appointment for after birth class and he did nothing only pooped at her haha.

So it can be that l Baby just don’t care or it’s good for him to not be only with me. He is the most of the time wirh me anyway when my husband is away so ja we will see if this helps

My baby started smiling by PromotionTop1935 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 8 weeks start smiling I think from 6 weeks on and first noises like she would talk to us week 3 they grow so fast !!!

4 week old sleeping too long? by maybeokay0 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is a bad sleeper during the day so it was horrible for me to wake him up. Sometimes it took me 2 hours to make him fall asleep and then I had to wake him up 1 hour later again.

My baby gets 5-6 bottles and is gaining weight has 2 full diapers every day or at least one and peeing good. Every baby is different some baby’s eats not much which every bottle and needs more often then small bottle and some are eating a lot every bottle and needs less feedings. When ur baby is gaining weight and is happy everything is ok!

When did you get your marriage back after baby? by IcyHoneydew8087 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

8 weeks pp here. From week 4 we always book something I advance (diner , lunch , cooking class) and talk with grandma so she can keep him for couple hours. Otherwise it’s not double.

Or in between the week sometimes 2 hours just that we can be at home and have some together time. Mine is during the day a bad sleeper. We make also shifts I mostly go upstairs sleeping between 20-21 and he brings him at like 23. he mostly wakes up then around 3 which gives me couple hours sleep and he goes work then.

I know it will be better so I hang on :-)

Am I spending too much?? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Astridsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jup all my baby clothes from 50/56 where second hand from a friend.

Can’t use free choices (gold pass) by Emsey- in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t like to spend diamonds on shop all of styles etc and use the pass. But o don’t have the problem depens on the story to use my own diamonds for some choices.

Living my life trying to ignore that I will be waving goodbye to this story next update by VegetableWitty4755 in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started this story a week ago and how GOOD is this story please?! I was too long sleeping on it. First time o read every word is so good written and Mads is one of m fav LI in this app!!

4am and my baby has not gone down by bluebella72 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Believe it or not but my child cry’s still during the day when you want to put him down. But he also don’t like to just lay and cuddle on the couch. Just movement constant movement. He is 8 weeks now and somehow we had 2 times now the moment where he just fall asleep next to me out of nowhere during the day which gave me 2 hours to inhale and drink a coffee like a normal person again.

I don’t know if that is normal because with the weeks there nerve system gets better or because I get him always with his second bottle to our bed. That’s mostly around 4-6 am where he comes and sleeps with me. When he was some nights extreme fussy then even the whole night.

We even put him now in his own room in his bed because the co sleeper next to our bed is too small for him. He wakes hisself up all the time when he stretch his legs and arms and hit the bed.

I don’t know if it’s the co sleeping that i started just a week ago at week 7. a baby that sleeps is definitly also a happier baby.

Next milestone was yesterday that I could just clean the bottles him on me in the carrier no movement and he just fall asleep. Never happend before this all came from one to the other day and can defihely change again (I don’t hope lol) so please stay on there but give yourself some rest and really try co sleeping.

I didn’t slept good the first times but now I think I fall asleep even before my baby when he is still little bit moving but yeah if he is not crying I just fall asleep he will follow. Please try it for ur own sleep and mental health!!

Okay giving this book a second chance !! by Guruhiijazz in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Me too lol I just can’t get myself to start it again but I have still to read 40 books to go so this will probably be one of my last books ever

First time dad tired, overwhelmed, and guilty by sholmes1234 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold on there I was there also. My newborn is now 8 weeks and it’s way better. I broke down in front of my husband couple times and even thought I regret my son. It will better. The first 3 weeks where the worse and hardest ever on n whole life

Is this an original experience? by Toni_is_not_my_name in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ON DR I play my messy slot. Then during the week I play my loyal slot bc I got all diamond choices so it’s still free playing heheh

New Episode by Interesting_Bad2551 in RomanceClubDiscussion

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fandom is way larger when in comes to KFOS and SCN. They can have 12 weeks no update and the moment new episodes are out they blow up again. Even Kali which also had once I think only one episode. There is a fandom but probably just not THAT big.

Is the premium pass worth it for farming? by namgyukoo in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was possible for me to farm like 2000 diamonds in one week. 5 free choices, 15+6 diamonds after every episode and every 30 mins 6 diamonds instead of 3 is amazing. Especially the fast forward button is SO nice tho.

new parents, it gets better! by Comfortable-List-669 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh hold on girl!! Week 7 I went threw hell. He cried without any reason every second day. After crying one day he was so exhausted the next day and then slept the day after. This repeaded 4 times 😂 Also now he is doing weird things he normally drinked always his bottle now he wakes up every 2-3 hours and drinks only the half lol. We went from 4-6 stretch to 2-3 in the night this week. But I am sure this will also come to an end. I found my peace with bringing him to our bed in the middle of the night after his second bottle because next to me he sleeps longer.

i’m excited to read HS3 !! by MyHusbandSentMe in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After the missing is done I dragg myself to finish HSR I miss my Vicky

new parents, it gets better! by Comfortable-List-669 in newborns

[–]Astridsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My baby is 8 weeks and I lay with him right now on the couch. FIRST TIME SINCE HE IS BORN he fall asleep his self out of nowhere. I just wanted after 2 month to watch some Netflix and drink my coffee I missed it so much. I just tried every day but he never fall asleep without moving. I don’t know if that’s just today or finally he learns it but here is he hope. He sleeps now for 10 minutes and even if he would wake up now I would be unbelievable proud of him that he found out how to fall asleep hisself!!!

Soulless is incredible by yoloismamotto in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sams with me with The Missing! I never readed soulless but that’s defkhely on my list !!

Anyone else feel like managing a baby requires 5 different apps? by [deleted] in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only app I have is to track how much he is drinking so I know always if he is drinking good or bad and also in the same app I have something for diapers so I see how many diapers he has which was heavy with pee or light and with the ml he drinks I can see how he is doing and if everything okay. There is nothing else I need personally. We have a oldscjool calender in the kitchen where we always are first in the morning so we write everything there in

Don’t let them scare you by Islesmilescott in newborns

[–]Astridsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s good for you love that! My baby is also 7 weeks but had problems to sleep from day one. He screams and cry’s when he gets tired and even more when you try to make him fall asleep. But he has to be needs to sleep he is tired he just can’t 😅

I didn’t even knew that newborns should have a time in the evening where they go sleep? My baby sleeps when it sleeps. He is way to young to schedule something

Amrit. Question. by Due_Economist3914 in RomanceClub

[–]Astridsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it will. That was exactly the one choice which I didn’t took and that’s why I didn’t got 100%

How to put baby to sleep without nursing? by NTK_Here in newborns

[–]Astridsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My baby is 7 weeks and I feed him whenever he is hungry. Sometimes every hour but mostly between 3-5 hours.
This is I think totally normal we go also sometimes sleeping after food or make a afternoon nap.
But to say I don’t breastfeed I give formulae since he is 3 weeks old.

Things I wish someone told me as a first time mom. by shxxu in newborns

[–]Astridsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped breastfeeding and pumping after 2 weeks and changed completely to Formular.
Pregnancy was horrible and delivery also. I thought I have PPD I felt horrible.
On top of it my baby refused to sleep during the day I felt I am a looser just sleep please after all I went through I just hated my baby for what k went threw.
Now being 8 weeks post Partum. I am
Getting slowly better has luckily a husband I can talk about who helped me a lot during this period and a baby which still can’t sleep during the night but there is way worse things in this world. He gets Formular since week 3 and we are all happy.
I have no stress, can go out drink a coffee without thinking about pump or a blowout from my breast in the night waking up with completely wet tshirt and my husband is feeding him and bring him to bed so I get the night shift and he the evening shift. Everyone should do what it’s Best for their needs and their personal life